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blu111

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	Send: 12/27/2009 2:16:48 PM

I meet a Russian woman on a free dating site and we have been corresponding almost everyday for a month now. I have grown very attracted towards her since then, but am not 100% sure how she feels towards me. She is very interested in me as i am in here, And we have shared our family story's and personal information as well as hobbies with one another. we have even exchanged photos of our self as well as family photos. How would i go about asking a Russian woman what she feels towards me? Should i just openly asked, or would that be considered rude to any Russian standards? As well as here birthday is coming up on Jan 7th as well. Would it be rude not to offer her a birthday gift?

ragingbull

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	Send: 12/29/2009 1:26:31 AM

Birthdays are important to women. Don't "offer" her a gift. Give her one, even if it's just flowers. Don't ask her how she feels towards you. She will tell you when she's ready. Just my two cents worth.

Aneurysm

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	Send: 12/29/2009 1:52:53 AM

Keep in mind that Jan 7th is when they celebrate Christmas. So her B-day and Christmas on same day... I think it would be very wise to acknowledge this and either get her something or at very least wish her a pleasant/happy/merry/joyful etc B-day and Christmas. Call her and do it in Russian to impress her ;) That's what I am planning to do with my lady anyway.

baron555

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	Send: 12/29/2009 8:29:26 AM

After of month of mere correspondence (please describe how you communicate exactly for more help) I'd say that you are not "attracted" to her but more attracted to the thought of her. There is a big difference. Do you have her address? Do you have her phone number? Do you two talk on the phone? Mere written correspondence is just that, mere written correspondence. Anyone with good writing and composition skills can communicate via a written media. Now is not the time to begin any discussion about feelings towards each other except for a "You are very interesting to me." or "I feel we have a lot in common." The next sentence should be, "Let's continue to get to know each other better." She will tell you when she is ready how she feels about you; to ask her for her opinion is crass and will make you seem insecure to her. Don't do it. Be a little coy but be interesting. Talk about your usual day. Talk about the foods you like and why. Talk about your work day. Talk about the deer you saw in the fields on your drive to work. Talk about your Christmas. Tell her you know about her Christmas coming up on Jan 7. DO NOT offer a gift; send her one. Obviously you need her address. Just ask for it but do not tell why. Flowers are best and should be all that is offered; you two do not really KNOW each other yet. I have used this online service with superior results: russianflora.com After about another month of correspondence and only after you two have stepped up the communication to verbal means (phone or even better Skype) then offer to fly to visit to meet in person. If she is keen to this, then your relationship will step itself up as you two plan your meeting. Take is slow and always be honest and open. Good luck.

colin45

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	Send: 12/30/2009 9:29:36 AM

the girl i was talking to from club 10 her birthday was jan 7, if unsure google name, which i done, but yesterday i looked on fiance.com out of interest see a couple of woman, best thing is there full name is there the first girl found nothing apart from registered on another site thought i will look, date of birth is different also where she lives she also put on 4kg well is christmas, same photo, oh the other site is city of brides

colin45

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	Send: 12/30/2009 2:50:27 PM

if in any doubt google the name, some one advised me to on this site her birthday was on the 7 jan as well.. best to be safe than sorry..

colin45

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	Send: 12/30/2009 4:09:30 PM

it is a shame but always google a name if any doubts, saves time in the long run

franklcsw

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	Send: 1/3/2010 12:37:56 PM

Just go and meet her, internet dating is fantasy dating.

Dream_on

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	Send: 1/4/2010 6:02:19 PM

pay your lady as much attention, as possible women appreciate very much, when men show their positive and interested attitude, not only in virtual words... and, +1 to franklcsw's reply

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