Its been sometime since i have posted on the site and wanted to say a heartfelt thankyou for all the topics posted of guys insights of finding that one special foreign bride. I have come to the end of my journey as a canidate- as i will be married 1-23-10. This special time in my life was started with anticipation, excitement and curiosity.Although she wasnt found overseas(3 rows back in a church I had attended for 4 years)all the pre-nupts are signed and house "nesting" with her has allready started
I wrote, filmed for 2 years, and documented with a American PBS show what drives us guys to look for that someone so elusive-overseas- we just dont seem to find our mate in our "culture" Does feminism have anything to do with it? Maybe- but its been my opinion of this first time married 45 year old male- that somehow - we have not claimed on definite roles by gender. Good grief Oprah- Who needs a guy when "the lady" can go down to the local sperm bank and get her a DNA? Its built in us- both males and females- doing what we have done naturally through the ages- men to support and protect our families- and gals raising them
It boils down to In my opinion- confidence- if you loose it at home you will loose it abroad- AND WOMEN ARE DRAWN TO SELF RELIANT GUYS- NO MATTER WHAT CULTURE AND HOW DEEP OF POCKETS
A special thanx to my good friends Beemer,Oz and others I have might have missed.........
I wish you all the best- and look for the film- Behind the Iron Curtain-Love,Attitude,Money
Hey Goodguy,congrats to you. What happened with the girl from Barnaul?
Interesting note, a friend is bringing his gf to states in 2 months and found her on first trip, second girl and asked me why in a few years in fsu I haven't found my partner, well, I just told him I probably haven't met her yet....she cound be down the block, in restaurant next door while I am in odessa or one seat over while at airport waiting for flight in kiev......it is more luck, timing and some form of destiny. After going over with my friend what had to happen for him to meet his girl, he agreed( they almost didn't meet,she missed her bus, a five hour drive)
If you find out when the film is shown, let me know.