Hi I am a newbie to the forum but been reading posts over the last week or so.
This is my first time in Ukraine and I am in Mariupol. Can anybody give me a heads up as to where someone can find an escort or easy woman in this city. In a nation that seems to profligate sex for sale, this city seems to be strangely puritanical. Not even an escort agency in town. I came here to meet a specific woman but she doesnt want to be intimate at this stage so all I really want is one encounter with no complications and I dont mind paying for it. There seems to be some action in sites like Adult Friend Finder but for some reason I cant sign up and frankly dont see the point to giving my credit card details to that service and being charged $35 a month just for the privilege of a one encounter.
Someone will probably say that all the action is in Kiev and I have worked that out myself. But I am here and not in a position to travel there.
Before others have the chance to jump on your bandwagon and insult me further let me tell you the situation.
I have been corresponding with just one woman in Ukraine for 6 months. In countless emails she expressed love for me and promised millions of kisses and deeper intimacy when we finally met. For the past 4 or 5 months in anticipation of meeting with her and the growing intimacy in our correspondence I have kept myself 100% chaste. This for a woman I had only corresponded with and talked on the phone with. How many men would make a similar commitment?
I have travelled half way across the world to be with this woman and used all available leave from my employment to do it. I have been here now two weeks and the lady shows no intimacy at all even not welcoming holding her hand. However she says in time she will show her feelings for me physically. This disappoints me, of course but I chose to believe her and will be giving her the time she needs as she is worth pursuing. In the meantime until she is ready I don't believe I need be bound by any oath of chastity any longer.
So does it make me a scum bag for, in the meantime, to break my celibacy by one encounter with a girl of the night when staying in a country filled with the most attractive women in the world ?
What is so galling about your response is the explicit double standard. The very advice I sought, in your last post, in the subject header immediately below, you provided to a long standing member.
I quote your message.
"If you are in Kiev and alone one night go to visit the "river boat" on the river. You will be blown away by all the exceptionally beautiful local women that go there during the week nights to pick up some spending money."
There's only one implication reasonably gleaned from that. What's gratuitous advice offered to an old time member is labeled "a...wipe" when asked by a new member.
thanks dansing but I havent approval as yet to send PMs to anyone. Don't think I'll be dumping her mate. I appreciate her point of view. Males are always eager to proceed to intimacy in a new relationship. I think its really a male versus female perspectives on the relationship. Some women just want to be 100% sure the man cares about them before they can go down that path. She will get the time she needs. I leave in about 12 days and will be planning on angling to get a visitor's visa for her to visit me at home in a few months ( assuming we can get one which wont be easy).
there's a lot of things that shouldn't be posted on here period,, and its not stuff from new posters. most if not all of the rubbish is from the main users,, one really has to wonder about morality or IQ levels with such crap. moderators are even more of a mistery?
Lordvaintine.. obviously things with her are not quite right.
sex is a taboo subject today,, humans its rumoured only had sex in the dark ages back in the late nineteenth century I'm lead to believe, it was said it was mainly done for enjoyment? get that..
Lordvaintine we don't go to Ukraine to find a partner that has any kind of sex involvement or have any such thoughts there for oneself, you are lost in some time warp you poor soul..
one thing i have noticed over there the girls love sex if they like you, more then likely something is wrong with your situation, my thoughts if me, tell her straight, as in "bad match yes" keep it basic do it nicely in such a way to see if she will reveal whats wrong "for interest sakes" good learning curve, but shes not telling you something.
I found Mariupol to be like a small sleepy town, back in time, the light shop up in the centre sold some real nice shell type lampshades (cannot think of the name of such).
worth looking at if ya like that sort of thing, they were exceptional, best i've seen,, wish i could have got one or two home,, the cops sitting lying in their Lada outside the shop snoring was also bit of a laugh..
yes taxi drivers are the people in the know, just trusting them is something else.
i have heard the "floating boat in Kiev" is quite something, I'm sure it would have made Noah dump the animals with a blush.