I have been writing to what i thought was a very nice lady and everything seemed to be going along really well . we have just started to talk about meeting each other , so just to be positive i searched google (like sujested on this forum ) . i found my lady was listed on a scam site . i read about the scam and it said she had asked for a laptop computer and a camera .it also said that she had said she would meet the man on a number of occasions but had only met the man a couple of times .
i did what i thought was right and questioned the women i planned to meet. she was surprised and did not even know she was listed as a scam site. she read the words about her and then returned to comment . her explanation was , she had been writing to this man for sometime and decided to meet with him . just before meeting the man asked her to send naked picture of her to him . she replied i'm not that sort of lady . the meeting was already organised and she continued with the plans . once meeting time came she said that the man was allot older then her and as soon as she saw this man she was not attracted to him at all(he was ugly) . she said that the man had sent her much younger pictures of him self. once they met she said that she found it hard to tell him that he was just not her type and being a kind person she just did not know what to do . she said that all that he wanted to do was sleep with her and she found it frightening so the times spent together she had a friend of hers to goin them on dates . the site says that she asked for gifts (a computer ) but she has a computer . she says she feels she did nothing wrong and her intentions from the beginning were real but it was just not a person she wanted . she said the last thing the man said was that he was going to ruin any chance of her finding a man .
now i do not know what to do , do i believe the scam site or do i believe the lady i wanted to meet . i really do not know what to do .. can anyone help
the truth is probably somewhere inbween them i would suspect. a girl possibly out to find someone, but more curious than anything just in case she finds something better than back home and an old bitter guy who was after a girl maybe 20 years younger than him (which is a dumb idea if u ask me). who knows...