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Author Post martin_smart Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/7/2010 12:26:54 PM   hi guys i have been writing to what i thought was a very nice lady and everything seemed to be going along really well . we have just started to talk about meeting each other , so just to be positive i searched google (like subjected on this forum ) . i found my lady was listed on a scam site . i read about the scam and it said she had asked for a laptop computer and a camera .it also said that she had said she would meet the man on a number of occasions but had only met the man a couple of times . i did what i thought was right and questioned the women i planned to meet. she was surprised and did not even know she was listed as a scam site. she read the words about her and then returned to comment . her explanation was . she had been writing to this man for sometime and decided to meet with him . just before meeting the man asked her to send naked picture of her to him . she replied i'm not that sort of lady . the meeting was already organised and she continued with the plans . once meeting time came she said that the man was allot older then her and as soon as she saw this man she was not attracted to him at all(he was ugly) . she said that the man had sent her much younger pictures of him self. once they met she said that she found it hard to tell him that he was just not her type and being a kind person she just did not know what to do . she said that all he wanted to do was sleep with her and she found it frightening so the times spent together she had a friend of hers to join them on dates . the site says that she asked for gifts (a computer ) but she has a computer . she says she feels she did nothing wrong and her intentions from the beginning was real but it was just not a person she wanted . she said the last thing the man said was that he was going to ruin any chance of her finding a man . now i do not know what to do , do i believe the scam site or do i believe the lady i wanted to meet . i really do not know what to do .. can anyone help FSULover Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/8/2010 7:13:21 PM   Believe only yourself ... and never give anything to a woman, at least before you are engaged to be married. Muzzy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/8/2010 8:49:52 PM   Two questions, 1: Has she asked YOU for anything like computers, mobile phones etc? 2: Who do you believe more, the person who wrote the scam report, or her? Have you spoken to the person who calls her a scammer? You really need to consider the reliability of both. There's no absolute or easy answer to this (although some here will have you believe otherwise, and will no doubt be on here later calling her a scammer, and you stupid for writing to her - don't worry about the trolls. We fed them, now we're stuck with them). No matter what anyone says, it's just a matter of being as sensible as possible in every step, and getting along to meet asap (with backups in case it doesn't work out). Yes, there are plenty of scammers over there, but there are also plenty of equally dishonest guys here, who really do ask for naked photos (or send such photos of themselves) and who think they can literally 'buy' a woman by spending a bit of western money on them buying gifts etc. I've met a few women over there who had along a 'friend' for moral support for the first date, but were fine alone with me after they could see I was who I said I was. I've seen people cry scam just because it didn't work out - like they were 'owed' marriage for having made the trip (and sometimes having bought the engagement ring before even meeting!) With regards to this girl, as FSUL said, believe yourself. How is she when talking to you? Has she given you her phone number, address, email? Have you spoken to her via phone or skype? How has she reacted when you've asked for these things? Ask yourself these questions about your actual correspondence with her as it happens - this will give you a much clearer picture of her than a scam report by itself. martin_smart Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/9/2010 12:10:13 AM   first thing this lady is asian not fsu she has not asked for anything , but the person who wrote the scam report said that she only asked for things after meeting . i belive the women, i spoke to her on the phone and she said before the man who she called coleman met with her had asked her to send naked pictures of herself . she says that she just had no attraction to this man and did not want to develope a relationship . my gut feeling about this lady is good.. she is hard working very nice open lady to talk to on the phone . i will be traveling to meet her on my next trip to asia and will report back with how it went .her reaction on the phone was suprise and disapointment , i could hear it in her voice i know asian people very well . these men that put ladies on scam sites just becouse it did not work out how they wanted or they did not get the naked pictures they ask for should be listed on a site themself for all women to see. baron555 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/9/2010 8:34:36 AM   Women may have their profiles at other sites, either when they first started and didn't understand these things or their profiles were copied and taken from one agency to the other. The site may be posting a complaint from the man made to the site since she didn't put out for him. If all other signs show the woman is real and serious, then believe her but just be wary. Don't sent anything of any value to any woman you haven't met in person. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > scam scammer or not?
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