I've only been here a few days and have had some great personal replies already with a handful of sweethearts, each with their own unique personality. I didn't have to use a photo of Tom Cruise either. lol. and to get them coming in without writing is equally as nice. Some are obviously templates and treated accordingly but not ignored.
It's just a shame they're not as internet connected as the rest of us.
Is competition difficult in winning over affections and what experiences have regulars had in terms of potential letter pitfalls and duration of relationships before real contact occurs?
As I recall a post this week that agency based girls could stop replying at any given time.
Just a few words about letters templates. I guess noone likes templates and everyone wants to get personal messages, but there is a certain reason almost all ladies use templates for their first letters.There are like 9 000 ladies in photo gallery and only like 3000 men in men's catalog.Usually ladies try to send as many introductory letters as possible in hope that somebody will respond, but in average only 1 message out of 15-20 is responded( unless she is a stunning 18 yo beauty). I get dozens of letters from girls every day that ask why noone writes them or why noone responded their messages.
So when you get a message that looks like a template and is a first one- do not ignore it. Give her a chance! usually the very next message will show you if her interest was real.
And immediately report to site administrator if the next messages looks like templates-usually these are the games of local agencies and we need to know who of our partners is not working honestly.
I do not have a problem in receiving letter templates for a first reply or letter, when someonhe thinks deeply and then puts these words to paper, the result can only be informative. Spontanuity is great when they start to write personal messages, as this shows a lot about their character, but small pieces can be missed out, and on ther first letter i would like to know as much information as possible about the girl. I view the first letter as a kind of advert, so i say let them carry on.
You are right Olga and I do give and recommend the chance to go further if they're to your liking. It's equally easy to be guilty of an introductory template as lines are cast far and wide. Subsequent replies as you mentioned could well be agencies manipulating the system by internals, which isn't right and needs monitoring/reporting.
I have one great young woman that is from an agency but her English is very high and I can tell that she is genuine as equally email based clients.
Is it possible to publish agency data with respect to the girls' profiles so that clients themselves can spot any patterns ? I recall getting a flood of templates on the first day from a certain area that I treated with caution.
well.. Im not sure about publishing agency data( since we are not interested in advertising those ;-)) just report us about it.
And of course this forum helps us a lot- we stopped cooperation with a few of our partners after reading some postings here.And deleted some ladies from the gallery as well. So we are trying to help you...with your help ;-)))
Ah, okay fair point, I appreciate the privacy and competition concerns.
I guess I should have said (as a developer) that you could reference an agency with a "unique identifier" whilst still being discreet and protecting your data at the same time.
eg: (hypothetical agency) Belarus Cupid Dating Agency = KN10F (untraceable reference code)
The forum definitely compliments the parent site without which i'd likely have not signed up. :)
I love stats. It was interesting to read that only about 5% or 6% of girls' opening letters get replied to unless they're a stunning 18yo. I guess the stats reflect how shallow we men are ;-)
I reply regardless, even they're not to my liking and explain why. It's the right and kindest thing to do.