Due to some unfortunate circumstances I need a guy to do a quick “security” job in the Dnipropetrovsk, Zaporizhzhya area. This job incurs a "visit" to a man that is harassing a female friend of mine and simply convincing him to stay away from her in the future. Any help would be appreciated.
My previous Russian wife had local contacts that she could use for situations like this. I suggest you ask your friend where to locate the "security" forces you talk about, I'm sure she would have some ideas... everything is for sale in Ukraine.
danny40, you have a lot of good insight and advice that visitors of this forum can use, keep up the good comments!
Whatever is going on with this girl is some kind of nasty clusterf*ck.
Unless you have known her and her family very well, for years -- it is likely that what you are hearing is part of some web of intrigue and lies or half-truths.
In my opinion, Ukraine is a country with low incomes and many kinds of distress, and a recent (20th century) history of trauma that goes beyond human understanding. In the Ukrainians I have gotten to know, I have seen psychological patterns that perhaps are a reflection of these stresses.
It is tempting to "put on one's cape" and come to the rescue of a damsel in distress, but in a place with so many difficulties, you could easily spend the rest of your life and all of your fortune trying to be the hero.
At the least, ask yourself, "what is my mission -- for what purpose, did I begin making these contacts in the first place?"
Actualy if that was the situation and if i thought i could knock the prick out myself i would, i can take care of myself but you are right, could well be a pile of tripe and a line she spins to make money, along the lines of send me 300 dollars and i will get a passport in 3 weeks and come to you. The scenario could be a scam. If someone was threatening my girl yes i would want to sort out the moron but also if i was there i would step in and try and do it myself. I will not cower in the corner just because Ukraine has a violent underworld, what the hell was the British empire built on, try any weekend in Britain non stop beer fueled violence.
Some interesting stuff on that Video, mostly based on Aikido, you are right of course, the police and men in general are a rule unto themselves in Russia/Ukraine. Myself if someone threatened my girl, regardless reason goes out the window and the monster takes over, its the way i am. I am capable of all in that Video but its meant for defence not offence. Howether any man that thinks he can threaten a woman is not a man and any man that lays hands on a woman is a coward and deserves to be treated like a coward. My thought is not to think about what would happen to me but what i'm gonna do and how i will do it, Correct though i should imagine for the right price legs can be broken if you know the right people over there.
just as in america, at the first sign of trouble with an ex or whatever I just dismissed her - NOT WORTH MY TROUBLE. Because someone who has ISSUES will always have issues. It is what is commonly called baggage. If you want to be a hero go to orphanages and help out. Do not get involved with a woman you don't even know who is spouting on about trouble. This society can be related to the saying 'inmates running the asylum'. Law and order there is not like anything you are accustomed to. If there actually is...
whatever means ex husband stalking, still having fights with ex, still having custody battles over children, etc. baggage -- find someone who is free and clear to do whatever they wish without another person interfering or making their life difficult.
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Notice, new repeat offender that is stirring the shit again is added to the list of forum spoilers... "Fanny40!" kindly ignore his posts as rubbish.
First off I must tell all newcomers to this forum to expect a flurry of derogatory messages from the following people, Fanny40, I'm Not The W@nker ... He Is!, Smart Martin!, nasfan6, dansing, Danielle-Soloud, SOOTY, Dani, mawson and Driftwood Arts… they are the spoilers of this forum; they engage in constant arguing, bickering and posturing to benefit their inflated egos. My recommendation to you. . . ignore their posts; however they will eventually succeed to degrade the original topic into nothing more than petty quarrels and bickering between themselves.
Whats yer contribution to this particular scenario then ? your the big i am so talk about the fffin topic and not other members you ffin muppet. Dont post like your the big know all if your not gonna post on the topic.
Many women grow up in a fantasy world. They want the drama of a white knight. Men see this as silly and childish. What many men do not realize, they too have this affliction. They look for a damsel in distress. If you choose this path, you will have only a distressed woman for the rest of your life. This woman may just be shrewed enough to seek such a foolish. Regardless of which it is, if you follow this path and something serious happens, you have already laid down evidence that will lead to you and will show deliberate thought and actions. You may find yourself in prison for a very long time.
An associate at work has a daughter in Kiev working with the Peace Corps. She was molested by a man living in her apartment building on the floor below. That man was taken by the police and hasn't been seen from since. She has not been required to testify in court, he is just gone. Tell this woman to call the police. I have seen five arrests in Ukraine. All for being a public nuissance, every arrest was coupled with a kick in the ass or being dragged along the street. I doubt a good woman would be harassed for long.