Although I do not have an opinion either way (very little real experience with American women), I find the following interesting to read and discuss in a forum where almost every MAN has decided to go the foreign route for one reason or another.
WARNING: For all the women who roam this forum, read at your own risk. The thoughts expressed on that blog will not be comforting. Don't say that you were not warned ... and I repeat: I personally do NOT subscribe to this type of thinking! But I want to read people's opinions :-)
FSU, I did read the whole first page of it!!
I agree with everything they said about American women,,, it's all true and only getting worse!! American women don't care if they get fat,,,, it's their right in their own minds!!!
However, I did not agree with what one guy said about foreign women!! They are becoming more like American women every day too!! They can be very pushy, and will dictate orders!! Also,,, foreign women do get jealous,,, very jealous. And even if there is no good reason for it,,, they won't let you forget it!!
As for their looks!!??? Yes, there are many beautiful women on these sites,,,, but they are all so very young!! A girl who is 18,,, looks 25-28!! A woman who is 28,,, looks 38! And a woman who is my age,,,,, looks like my Mother!!!! They do not age well!!!! Ever wonder why so many are afraid, that they don't get married after turning 30????
I pasted the story from that site on here, but everyone should go read all of it!! I read the first page,, however, it may not be the same first page that you will read,,, as people are adding to it!!??
Anthony from USA:
My wife will be 40 this year, and looks like she is 25. Why? Because she takes care of herself. Eastern European women look good for their man. American women look good for the attention of OTHER men. They have to know that they are always wanted by someone else to make them feel better about themselves. And the ones that don't care get fat, and let themselves go. Then wonder why their man is starting to look at other women. An eastern european woman doesn;t have to worry about these things. She looks good, can cook good, is an excellent mother, and excellent wife. And the best part, there is not one thread of jealousy in them. They don't need to be jealous. They know their man is not going anywhere.
fsu, what do you search for in ya pass-time:) what a load of rubbish of small minded people..
we live in enough begitry or racial crap dont we, really that doesn't need to be on here..
my search over sea's has nothing to do with women in new zealand been put into some category i dont like nor for any other western country, there's such a contrast of types it just doesn't fit..
it would have to be american:)) makes you lot look really cool yes:)
wow! a few extreme 'he man women haters'. unfortunately those views/opinions/examples/whatever are what led me to another country for a woman. And for sure I DO NOT HATE AMERICAN WOMEN. I do feel sorry for them though. There is an expression used by American women, "The good ones are all taken." That seems to be the point that I reached. The good ones were all taken. What was left - obviously in my age bracket - were a bunch of bitter divorced women who fit the descriptions outlined in that blog. But of course hearing from younger men, it is becoming an epidemic. Let's just say that I became disenchanted with them all. After too many twilight zone episodes with American women I finally said enough - that I was through with women completely.
On the flip side, I don't believe these 'men' who were complaining on this blog know enough about "foreign" women to have such slanted opinions. Perhaps they are getting all their information from the date sites - and we know much of that is a bunch of baloney too.
Just something else to think about. It is amazing that the sex, drugs and rock'n'roll crowd are far worse off than my sdrnr generation was. And what is with all these young women getting tattoos everywhere. I just love the tramp stamp with the thong string look. Most American college kids are wasting their time. Is it no wonder that almost every other country is passing us by? And that bolt in the tongue? They say it is good for fellatio. Sure, every man wants to settle down with a gal who has experience sucking 100's of cocks. "Oh, that was just college. That's what everyone does." Our society and culture are steadily being drawn closer to the center of the vortex. "Going down?"
My tuppence worth…Ralph hit very close to the mark. Doubtful if the comments contained in the blog in question are a true representation of male opinion in America. However; the last few years have seen a backlash against the previous decades of males treading on eggshells for fear of being non pc. Blogs like these have begun to appear all over the net.
Although some of the stories had a ring of truth I don’t believe that has become the identity of the western woman..at least I hope it hasn’t.
Not always a good idea to base all your decisions on the most entertaining anecdotes heard from biased individuals.
It is difficult for young women to allow themselves to make informed decisions when they are assailed by media icons who eulogize on the trappings of success, proclaiming no need for men.
Beyonce, Madonna, Pussy cat dolls all sing about how “I don’t need a man” etc etc..Not to mention that wonderful and highly popular Sex in the city.
The media determines what’s cool and what’s not cool. The message is Women don’t need men. Idiot women equate that to “Men are useless”
The trick is to find a woman who will not obey the rules of media propaganda.
I tramped around fsu for a while but did not find what I was looking for. I actually got burned a few times into the bargain. I did find that most of the women were the same as in the west. They were buying into the false dream.
I came I saw I left.
Quite by chance I happened upon a western woman from a western city who did not seem to buy into the new woman bullshit.
She is now my fiancé. Why? Because she is smart, witty, attractive and gives great head without the need for a bolt through the tongue. She has a high powered, well paid job, but can still cook great meals and hold her own in any situation without the usual woman thing of going in a sulk. The women she works with hate her.
They hate her because she looks like a 30 year old, gets regular great sex and has a man who is crazy about her.
She is like this because she is smart. Doesn’t buy into the fashion of “not needing a man”.
Woman’s “New found freedom” They’ve used equality to bash men for the years of standing at the kitchen sink.
Trouble is…they just found a new type of slavery.
Kirkland- to be sure I do not fall into the category of those who think all American women are worthless. You happen to be very fortunate. I would have preferred the girl next door. But she was no-where to be found. After much frustration and a hint from someone, I decided to give it a try - FSU. I know very many American women who fall into the category as you describe. Lucky is the man who has one. But they are getting scarce and I was getting old. Ten years on the market and trying various means to meet someone led to frustration and what seemed like years of wasting my time. Perhaps there will be a turn around in the years to come as many of the younger gals are witness to the many bitter and lonely women who have bought into the ideas shoved down their throats by the media. Hopefully soon, being cool won't be cool anymore. And in the famous - or not so - words of Huey Lewis, "It's hip to be square."
I do like the reference on the first page to BBW women.
I used to see those initials written Personals Ads when I used to date American women. And though not particularly complimentary, at least the women who refer to themselves that way are being honest. There are quite a few where I live.