"rb, the church grants annulments all the time, but depending on circumstances, the 'admin fee' is on a graduated scale."
That's not directed at me, Ralph? Who else here is rb? Did the one calling himself Rasputin PM you and told you who he really is? I do not see him on this thread. From your post, it's not hard to figure out who he really is.
I guess it could be funny, but not that funny. Are you alright, Nasfan? You were laughing the last time you posted, the time before that and the time before that. Be careful. They might put you in a padded room.
RB - the best thing you can do is to ignore your detractors and those who try to bait you into an argument. focus on your life and planning for your future. if I was you - don't tell me I am not, I already know it - I would scrape up a few hundred bucks and fly over there. if she is your girl friend/fiancee then all you must do is go there and not worry about anything else. she will make sure that just being there is enough. what is so difficult about that?
this little game that you continue to play with a few of us is nothing more than what adolescent school boys engage in. some see it as comic relief. others see it as an annoyance and waste of time. probably most others see it as a waste of time. you should know that I was not 'attacking' you recently. it was only after you challenged muzzy on something I felt was completely uncalled for. muzzy is not my ally. he is just another guy out there. but the fact that you completely made an assumption about someone and went after him by questioning his life and motives was uncalled for. the fact that you believe people are ganging up on you is cause for pause. you lash out at anyone who challenges you, save MR durak. muzzy did not need me to defend him or come to his aid, he is a big boy. but I proved that it doesn't take much to get you to redirect your anger toward another. you are like the junk yard dog who goes after whomever is looking through your fence.
I wish you success. Take a step back and look at yourself. Why does it matter to you what anyone else thinks? Get on that plane and go there.
Again, I work in front of a computer. I work at home by myself. Ivor was right. Without it, I probably will not have a life. That is because this is what I chose, not because I have no alternatives. It is because of you that I spend a lot of time here than I normally would have in the first place. Awhile back, post after post I asked what I was doing wrong to be cussed and called names, I finally got a little something. You told me that I post too much. It was right then that I decided to be heard more.
My gf and I have plans and which I have not talked about. I have not talked about her much until Danny decided post after post decided to bash her. Yes, I need to fly over there, but in our schedule.
I tried to locate it, but do you remember your ranting about illegal aliens? I agree with many of your views, but you went over the top in calling them criminals. Some are, but most are just here to make a living. Muzzy agreed with you. I am not sure he even read what you wrote. What happened was not an isolated incident.
Did it ever occur to you that this whole thing with Muzzy could have been solved if he answered my question? It would have taken one sentence. He views me as a troublemaker. Unintentional, but it was a set up.
I just thought about what you said if it matters what anyone thinks. When it comes to me, I don't care. When it comes to my gf, I do. My discussions, as with any other reinforces my belief. Yes, I stimulated some of the discussions with Danny. I was not prepared for her to be called a scammer, a thief and a whore. He didn't use those words, but his descriptions did. With you, I never did know what we were arguing about, but you were not about to stop me from posting by cussing and calling me names.
I don't have an anger problem. Anyone that knows me, knows that. There was one time that I did, and I got into some trouble. I worked on it. I realized I was only following my father's example. Look through this thread. Where did I get angry? Look through your "My Other Thread". It took a while, but I did, a little. Look through your "Truce" thread.
Listen. Danny is quiet. I don't think he and I will go at it again. I thought that a few times with you, but I was mistaken.
'You Can't Argue With A Sick Mind' - Joe Walsh recorded and released this live album in 1976. After reading most of this thread it reminded me of that album title. Too bad it was overshadowed by 'Frampton Comes Alive' released in the same year. It's a great album. Joe had a penchant for making up obscure titles for his albums. But this one was my favorite. And it is certainly a true statement.
I do like the statement from someone that I am washed up...
Let's see.... My lovely wife and I work out at the gym together 3/4X a week. I am already getting kayaks prepped for when the ice breaks. There is a bicycle trail near me and we are planning the 60 mile trip to the Philly Art Museum on bike. We have plotted routes on the Appalachian Trail to take this year. And as soon as my arm is 100% I will be running full court b-ball against the hi-school kids again. I do not say this to brag or boast, I say this in the hopes that you shut the fkkk up already.
When you do not know what you are talking about it is best to keep your thoughts to yourself. I was not going to reply, but since I am an ass I figured, 'Why not?'
You and I have been arguing for a while. Which one of us have the sick mind? Before I even told you how I would STFU, my advice on how would have worked. Don't start it. At least I will tell you what I mean without cussing and calling you names.
Who posted these?
"yes durak, if I had known about this fifteen years ago????
zarkey, good luck. I envy you and your position. just remember one thing. you are still comparatively very young."
OK, Ralph. Perhaps you are not as bad as I thought. I was only going by your posts, just as you were with me. Still, most of that are just plans. Nothing else.
"When you do not know what you are talking about it is best to keep your thoughts to yourself."
That's pretty good advice. It causes misunderstandings. How many times do you think you will have to post that before I understand it? Have you thought about my advice that you not speak on generalizations? I have told you that dozens of times. That too causes misunderstandigs. I already understand your advice, but I will not follow it until you follow mine.
It is merely a statement of encouragement to say I wished I had known about this 15 yrs ago. My wife and I say that all the time to each other. We wish we had met 15 years ago. What is wrong with that?