you can newer know for certain that she dont date or having sex with someone else after you leave, i know it all about mutual thrust and respect, but still this comes up in my mind.
i guess she has the same idea about me to.
how can you find out this, without hurt her feelings ore destroy the relationship you already have with here?
well theres a million answers to that, lots of private investigators over there will take pictures, they can check her out who she lives with etc and what she does on a daily basis, put it like this, its a meat market for certain types of women and if you are one of many then would you want to marry a woman that you could not trust and betrays your trust.
There is very little that can be done to check a girls’ honesty, loyalty, and sincerity!! Maybe you can examine her writing habits closely. Are her letters on time, or does she have a bunch of excuses for being late?? Are her letters late during the weekends?? Is she upset when you call unexpectedly??
There are detectives offering their services for checking a girls legitimacy, but,,, can you trust them?? You would be sending a stranger, to follow and watch your girl,,, to peep in to their windows and watch their home 24x7!! If she finds out about this,,,, kiss her goodbye!!
The best might be to listen to your gut,, are you getting good or bad vibes??? When you met and spent time with her,,, was she close to you?? Was she showing some affection, and being attentive to your feelings?? Or,,, did she only show up for supper??? The best time to learn about her intentions,,,, is when you are not spending money!!!!!
why would you be thinking such??
dating doesn't mean you are married, nor dose marriage mean you are safe from her it she is on constant heat.
really its a kind of paranoid strange thing to be thinking about unless you have good reason.
do you??
nothing is set in gold unless she says its gold, then theres fools gold.
you need to worry more about if shes a responsible person who understands what safe sex is before you start worrying if shes dating and..
and if she is dating then she's possibly not for you then.
my feelings is if you worry about such stuff with no good reason then you are either a chronic shagger dater yourself or have little idea how to read people.
until your commitment is more then some long distance get together then you are kidding yourself thinking its anything more.
take one step at a time, stop getting ahead of yourself.
if she is you will find out one way or the other..
I wonder if a good old fashioned "sting" would be a good idea??? Do you have any friends on the same website that you are using??? If yes,,, have one of them write a nice sweet letter to her, and wait to see if she responds???? If you and her are making plans already,,, she has no business opening any new letters!!!!
I wouldn't worry if she was meeting boys. I'd be more concerned about her meeting other men. But anyway, unless you have an agreed commitment to one another then why should she not? How many has she met before you came along? Probably very few if you go by the idea that very few men travel. So I assume you are talking about local boys (men?).
There's nothing you can do about it except worry. Don't worry about it.
I don't know Ralph,,, I had plenty of fun as a boy,,, perhaps more!?? lol
I like what you said; "There's nothing you can do about it except worry. Don't worry about it. " Does anyone really ever stop worrying???!!
To let a lady know you are worried about the possibility she is seeing other men is a sign of weakness. What happened to all the discussion of 'these women' like a strong man? I know it is a completely different arena. But I have found over the years that if you do not fall at their feet most women will pursue you. Of course it takes all kinds. And even though you can make generalizations about 'these women', they have many different personalities. Some are aggressive go-getters while others are just humble sweethearts. Now if you can find a go-getting humble sweetheart who is aggressive, well then...
I never worried about my fiance sleeping around because we had already committed to each other. We had complete trust in each other.....and that is one reason why our marriage is so great.
baron;,,, How much time did you and your fiance spend apart before getting married??? If you were almost never apart,,, yeah,, the subject may never come up. But what if,,,, you could only make two trips a year,,,, and the paperwork is slow???? it could have been a very different story for you??
Ralph,,, if you spot a go getting humble sweetheart,,,, send her my way!!!!!
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