I'm 46, and am finally able to go overseas to look for someone. I had planned to do this ten years ago, but got seriously ill, lost my career, and am just now getting back on my feet. It's just as well that I didn't get married then, because no marriage could have survived my last decade.
One issue is that I will be moving overseas, to Asia, for work for at least the next three years. Originally, I was all set for Japan, but the earthquake and resulting economic damage canceled that job; although I am still looking for another job there, I am probably going to end up in Taiwan (second choice) or South Korea (distant third).
I am looking for someone in her early 30s who wants to have children. I'd prefer someone who doesn't have any already, simply because of immigration visa rules -- the more people, the more income/savings I will have to prove, and after ten years of getting my life back together, that's not going to be easy. The alternative would be staying overseas long-term, which I'd be fine with.
The natural alternative to Ukraine, for me, would be Vietnam. I have heard that agencies were outlawed there a few years ago, though, so I'm wondering how to go about meeting women who would consider a foreign husband.
Being 46 and having the demand for the women not to have children you reduce your chances dramatically. But you still can try. Your age is Ok. Just find the right ways of the search.
have you been to thailand?
i heard there are russian girls who go there for vacations and partying.
i have worked some in europe. the american economy these last 10 years
is like the 3rd world. many girls don`t want to go to america i think.
they like to go to germany or UK or australia. i don`t think anyone less than 30 will bite.
i have people working for me , the girl at the deli , service station , next door neighbour , family , travel reps , my bowling teem , my pet macaw parrot , evern the garbage collector , or 3 dozen mates at the local hotel and the anglers club to talk with ...
i dont need or want to talk with YOU.... im less than happy to read your fsu advice but dont bother directing conversation towards me !
Having been to Vietnam, my best experience was through people that I knew. Met plenty of cute women wanting to meet foreigners there. They and their family all say that there is no future in Vietnam. Who can blame them when there are so many financial success stories abroad (a bit true). If you can befriend 1 Vietnamese person in your country, you open up many networks overseas with plenty of people who knows a decent girl who is willing to try life abroad.
Over there, wanting a women in their 30s without children is a bit tough. Try "lowering" your standards a bit. Try late 20s ;-)
Learning to speak their native language obviously helps too.
This is pretty basic, Danny. The helicopter is dangerous and you probably don't want to ride it. That means it's dangerous for her also. Don't let her ride it.