Just found this place and wanted to jump in the conversations.
I'm not new to FSU women. Been to the Ukraine 9 times in the past two years. Met lots of nice ladies and generally had a blast.
I'll be going back around the middle of August for a week or so.
Sooo Jay, what do you go to Ukraine for? holiday? sex? finding a love?... just curious? 9 times is a lot in 2 years, that's 4.5 times a year. So you can see my curiosity in your travel, as there are many nicer places in Europe to visit than Ukraine, that i know for sure.
My only goal when going to Ukraine is to find a wife.
Sure 9 times sounds like a lot but several trips are repeat visits to the same woman.
I believe that my future is worth several trips to get to know the woman and her to know me.
Mainly I wanted to say that in my trips I've never had a bad experience. No scam and no rip off.
If you keep your head and be sensitive to the subtle things I believe you will have a safe and enjoyable trip to Ukraine.
All the ladies I've met have been as sweet as honey, polite and well educated. Each one has treated me with respect and kindness.
Of course I treat them the same. I don't lavish things on them or treat them like queens. Just treat them with respect and kindness and they respond very well.
I know my future wife will be from the FSU.
My experience has been that I fit very well with the women I've met and it's just a matter of time before I find the perfect (for me) woman.
9 Times!! good on you mate))) how on earth someone can just go to a country meet a women once and then plan a marraige?? either they are both sad ! or no other bugger wants them ! I spent 2 years travelling to eastern Europe every month))) to meet all sorts of women, it was great fun and also taught me alot)) Mother Russia I love you))))
I have a big advantage in that I travel thru Paris a lot and it's non-stop Paris to Kiev flight and at about $350 round trip I can't complain.
On top of that I get 6 vacations per year (4 weeks each!!!)
I hope I'm not far behind you.
Matte, this process wil take 3 - 3 1/2 months minimum (it can be 1 year maximum).
True Danny, Brussels Kiev is 2000 km. In general, I start Thursday or Friday till Monday. It's easy for me and I don't need to take long vacation.
This is a choice and I understand that's not the same for you. This is the advantage to be European. ;)
what is the difference between someone who dates a woman for six months in their home town and decide to get married vs a man meeting a woman from the FSU and doing the same? The hometown love is showered with affections, congratulations and good wishes. The foreign affair is looked down upon and with suspicion, doubts or ill feelings.
I think what bowhunter was talking about was moral support - you cannot be at the interview, but you can wait in the lobby. and if they know you are there waiting it is in your favor.
congrats to matt_brussels and all who have made this work
bowh, hopefully she is here in time for the holidays, at least you can stock up the freezer while you wait.
time to start shooting the bow again, season opens in six weeks
Ralph, it's obvious you don't know what you are doing here. You need a complete stranger who doesn't know jack shit about your life tell you what to do. If the wife is looked down upon and with suspicion, doubts or ill feelings by the hometown, you either need to get rid of the hometown or your wife.
good morning rb -- don't ruin this thread too. I will say that in AMERICA it is generally looked down upon by the local women for a man to go to russia to find a wife. they are pissed off or perhaps jealous. everyone, EVERYONE! who meets my wife thinks she is a doll and very charming. it is amazing how most offer to help her 'learn the ropes'. she was offered jobs and contacts from a lot of people she met for the first time.
the men are happy for me. I get the comment from men often that american women are just a waste of time. so when you know what you are talking about - if that will ever happen - then maybe you can make an informed comment. IT IS YOU WHO KNOWS JACK SHIT ABOUT ANYTHING.
TIME AND TIME AGAIN YOU MAKE OUTRAGEOUS STATEMENTS. this is just another one of your antics to try to put me down. if you put 1/4 of the time and energy you waste on this forum actually trying to meet someone you would have already been a success. I can't say you are a failure because it ain't over until it's over. but I can surely say you are a LOSER!
if I was a betting man I would put up 10K that you will still be here in five years polluting the forum with no chance of having a decent woman from Ukraine.
Jay dee - the only advice I can offer you is to be a gentleman. Chivalry is not dead. There are still many cultures in the world that believe in the so-called traditional relationship between a man and a woman. There are very many women hungry for a good man who can sustain such a relationship. and there are many beautiful women who want nothing more than this (and a chance for a better life). good luck
I already explained why I am in this forum. I work for myself, at home in front of a computer. I can go at it 24/7, but I need to let go now and then.
Do you really think I meant what I said? That is what you are doing to me. You are desperately trying to tell me what to do when I am doing exactly what I should be doing, and you don't know jack shit.
What makes you think I have not met someone? Yet you say that I should go out and meet someone. That's just an example of many that you think you know what is best for me. Yes. You are right. I am a loser. At least, for now. But you are wrong when you say I should re-think my life. It is precisely that I don't give up that I will not lose.
OK. We are now away from inconsistent. It is now at outrageous statements. I am not one to exaggerate or make up things. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction. Honestly, I don't remember making any strange or outrageous statements. I told it like it is. If you can think of one or even many outrageous statements, I can elaborate. We can then look at my story or statement piece by piece, agree on some aspects and disagree on others. No name calling, no getting personal.
Because I asked you this many times, I doubt if you can come up with anything.