Of course you can or cannot believe her. I have said many times that there were times when I was talking to her on the streets, the bus and even the train. At the same time, she was logged in. Who cares anyway? What I want from her and what she wants from me is not what you may or may not think. It is none of your business and still, you continue your slandering ways. What is or was going on with our relationship, I said I will not talk about. But, you continue to make things up to your slandering benefit.
The video was written with scam on the title. Whomever took the video or you have not proved the scam. In your world, the girl is guilty no matter what. I never said there was not a scam. I said it wasn't proven. The video runs on a premise that a failed relationship is a scam. It is not.
You continue to make things up. You live in a fantasy world where your relationship is the only real relationship. All the others' girls are scammers. Forum members do not deserve anything close to what you are.
Danny knows the intentions of a woman he has never met. He knows what happened to our relationship, what is happening with her and will not leave the subject alone even when I told him long ago I will not talk about it.
Get a life. Concentrate on your own relationship and leave forum members alone. It is not up to you to determine anyone's next step in life. You don't know everything about anyone's relationship. It is not up to you to choose anyone's mate. Your abusive comments are not welcome.
Yes you do. The only reason you don't call some scammers is because they don't talk about them. Once they do, and they show any signs of being Ginger, your abuse begins. If there is no one to talk about, you make it up.
I told many times that the profile of the girl I dated was of her, but she is not the one logging in and out. Yet, you make things up and continue to assert that it is her. Look at your post up there. Of course, she could be compliant with what is going on, but I don't know that. I see no evidence of that. You don't know either, but you use that profile to call her a scammer time and time again. I said many times beginning from months ago that I do not want to talk about her. What are we doing talking about her? Because you continue to make things up and continue to assert that she is a scammer. You don't even know if she is still in communication with me. I have not told you.
Dave in the video is a slob. Because he got left for being a slob doesn't make her a scammer. She told no lies or took nothing fraudulently in the video. How about Dave? He could have painted a good picture of how great his place is. If that is so and she is a scammer, then so is he. We don't know that. You have scammer in your mind and are ready to abuse another forum member's girl. You can hardly wait. Get a life.
Now it comes right down to the real reason, doesn't it? I am black, she is white. You know better because you have money and I don't, you are white, I am black. Don't worry. I don't really believe that. It is what Muzzy and Ralph calls baiting me. Your advice has been about money and how forum members should spend them - their own money.
The forum is full of Dave's coming in and out. You slander anyone every time someone even thinks of spending. You called Muzzy a flower boy for buying flowers. You were starting it with Mr. Durak because he said he spent a lot on his last trip. You backed off when he said his girl was plain, just like yours. I once saw a thread where three different people got on you for calling their gf or wives liars because of money they spent. In all your names that you used, you once used "Wife Buyer" to mock people. Just look at one of the old threads that has been resurrected.
Dave was not just a slob. He was looking for the woman to clean him up. He didn't tell her about it, she just seen it for herself. He was not honest enough in what was coming to her. He needed a plan. He needed to tell the woman the plan. He needed to tell her exactly what is coming to her and what they both needed to do. He needed a good bathroom for her to take good care of herself and a good bed for her to sleep in. That's the kind of advice he would have needed. The advice is not she is a scammer and a liar.
Contrary to what you believe, women want a mate. The girl went with Dave to see if life with him is good for her. If he played it right, she would have stayed. I don't know if the above advice would have worked, but something like that would have. For sure, your advice would not work. It is destructive, it is NOT what people come to the forum for, and they run into you who shoves it down their throat. Dave still cares for the woman and you would have made an enemy or two, just like you have done, many times.
Yeah. Get a life. You have one don't you? Why do you bother with what you think are others problems when they clearly do not need your kind of advice? When one comes in the forum for advice, they don't need to be slandered.
dang-odd You called beemer's girl a scammer,,, Al Al's a scammer, and my Katya a scammer!
But truth be known,,, Katya was/is/always will be a scammer!
I think it's funny,, danni is only right when it is a mistake or when he wants to annoy someone!
Case and point, Danny wants to know how much I spent. This is clearly not his business. He does that with any forum member that comes to discuss their situation. It always comes down to the forum member's money, how he should spend it, how Danny has more, and therefore knows better than than the forum member on what to do with it.
It's BS, LR. There are scammers out there, no doubt. But, all a forum member has to do is say he spent money or gave a gift, however small, and he is immediately attacked, harassed and hounded by Danny with claims the girl is a liar and a scammer. There are no positive advice, whatsoever. One or two warnings is enough, but to post it over and over again and even make things up? GET A LIFE !!! Worry about your own. Give him a chance to look for himself, for goodness sake.
Danny's question is no big deal. In fact I have answered that question before. But, he is only after some ammunition to abuse. It is a shame that the forum has come to this. The unsuspecting poster out there does not know what is coming.
That's what I mean when I said GET A LIFE. My purpose in this forum is what I talk about. The rest of what you ask is none of your business. If you think I have a scammer, then it's my scammer. I just love it when she scams me. It's the same of other people in this forum. It is my life. It is their life. You have a gf, don't you? You have money don't you? Leave mine alone. I don't talk about it, why should you? GET A LIFE.
Remember your PM?
"nasfans statetment ... NO EDUCATED GIRL WILL WANT ME ... well my girl has a phd in russian history . as educated as they come ......"
Nasfan said you could not get an educated wife. That hurt, didn't it? Lo and behold, you got an educated fiance. You now got a girl that Nasfan wants. Are you having second thoughts and regrets? Work on that.
That's your life. I got you started. Don't worry about anyone else's life when they don't want you. GET A LIFE.
I don't even care about Dave. Who is right? Who is wrong? Danny says she is a scammer and forget about her. I can live with that. When emotions are flowing, many cannot live with that. They still have to go through with it. No one is an angel. People can be reformed. A closed heart can be opened.
I can live with either solutions. The question is, what can Dave live with?
But when a Dave comes to the forum, must they be hounded, ridiculed and slandered by Danny?
I didn't say that Nasfan wanted your girl. I said you picked out one that Nasfan wants -- for you that you could not have. You listen very well to Nasfan. You showed him, didn't you? Now, you are up to par with Nasfan. You imitate him very well.
That is your life. Deal with it. I have mine. GET A LIFE.
OK. Here's another one.... Were you successful in her getting pregnant? You're not very fertile, are you? Work on that. That is your life. I have mine. I don't want to discuss anything about my life with you.
You are really good at making things up, Danny. Before anything happens, you already have the story. It doesn't matter what happens after that. You already have the story. How can anyone believe anything you say? Do you have a fiance at all? Yes, you showed a video. How much did you pay her to act?
You were being like nasfan. Now you are being like Martin.
Wrong again. I did not just give my advice about Dave above. I also follow it. I will not go into a venture that I do not think I can handle. My bathroom and all the plumbing are working fine, there are no holes in the walls, and there are no leaking roofs.
I will answer one of your questions. What am I doing in the forum? First, I will answer what I should be doing in the forum. What I should be doing is what I am doing other than arguing with you: not much. Ralph is no longer a problem, but now I have to deal with you. I intend to go back to the FSU. It is important to me to discuss the questions I don't know, and answer the questions I know, to keep in that frame of mind. I think this forum is important and people should not run into the likes of you.
My intentions was to keep a low profile here until you said the girl I communicated with was pregnant and she was not my race. That was your response to my telling you I was not without a plan and it is not open for discussion. Now, in this thread alone, everyone can see what lengths you go through to prove your points. It is not just she is a scammer. You and I were friends before that. From then on, I set out to silence you. I cannot be in the forum and read things like that. Now, I know what others went through. I refuse to be driven out.