This member is a scammer. Fell in love with me immediately then wants to visit me in the USA by the 4th letter. When I pointed out the impossibility of this, silent. Don't waste your time on this idiot. I complained to the site management and a week later her profile is still alive.
Wait........don't tell me, you quickly got into private emails and boom!!!!
You should have known by first email.....for an 'experienced' guy. A simple google name or address would tell you everything....at least she didn't ask for internet money...or did she?
From another post of yours niznaio.....you have no problem sending a girl money you have never met, do you?
Lonelyranger: last week mate.
Beemer: I regard a $200 unsolicited gift to my doctor friend as an investment in my future. She said she didn't expect that. I spoke to her on the phone and she gave a pretty good act of being blown away and delighted to hear from me. She was hesitant o give her details to me too, which was a green light, in my opinion. I think to spend $300 on 11 red roses sends the wrong signal to a woman who may be struggling on $200 per month.
I Googled Sasha and got no hits until the 4th letter. She's smart and was writing tailored letters which actually answered my questions, until the money letter, which did show up with thousands of hits on Google. That's how I caught her.
What tipped me off was the switch to high pressure, preparing to come and see me in the USA when we had not even met.
Generally speaking, when a woman never answers a direct question: scammer. So salt your letters with statements end ing in a question like: My favorite ice cream is mango, what's yours? You have to drive in the USA, what sort of car shall we buy you? Oh you are religious, which church do you go to?
Another red flag is if you ask for their private email and and last name (on A-date) and if they give an excuse, be careful.
If a woman really is interested in you, they will ask a lot of questions like: where do you live, house or apartment, how will you support her and two babies, if you are so old, can you handle two more kids etc. If they put you on the spot, good sign. if they show zero interest in you, then they are not reading your mail and are just sending off their 6 form letters till their manager instructs them to hit you with the money letter.
I don't fault them for trying, their economy is in the tank. I do resent confiding in someone on the net only to find they are a scammer, even a guy probably!
I use Tineye to find scammer photos too. It's a website that compares a photo you submit to all sites it has crawled. Found a few US scammers that way.
"I was lucky. I found a doctor over there and went to see her, things went well but she wasn't impressed with me. I went back to see her a dew days later, which shocked some sense into her, and things took off. We travelled together a couple of times to Turkey, I visited her and her family 5 times. We stayed in separate rooms when we travelled because she wanted to test me to see if I was serious. No sex for 6 months for the same reason. Two years long distance dating. It's been 5 years since we married. We have a baby. She is going to medical school to get her US license. It's been a rocky road because she is a bit of a princess because her whole family are rock stars in the medical business and get VIP treatment over there so she was shocked to be ignored here when she had a cold. Over there, the chief doctor would rush to her house with a medical team if she had a sniffle. When I was unemployed for a year she was awful to me, typical Russian way to correct my behavior. They are tough mistresses! As for age difference, she is 30 years younger than me. She's 30 but looks 20. I'm not complaining. I keep up with her and baby by going to the gym several times a week and I gave up ice cream and junk food to get rid of that flab. Sometimes her family and she ignore me and throw their weight around. I found the best way to deal with that is tell them that I am the head of this household and will not tolerate bullshit from anyone. That's what they expect at home, so I play along. I understand Russian pretty well so I can follow what she's saying to her girlfriends. Thanks Durak for the tips on being supportive. My wife is a smart woman but she finds learning English and studying medicine very tough because US medicen is far more comprehensive and advanced than in Russia. Watch out for a change in behavior once the honeymoon is over, Russians tend to be pretty hard nosed now they have us where they want us. So be ready to stand up to them. be flexible. I had some experience with scammers: they fall in love with you immediately and tend to ignore questions. I found serious ones will drill down quite hard with the questions for you. Watch out for A_date: that is full of girls getting 20% commission off the ridiculous fees, $10 to open mail, read mail, see video, see photos. It could cost you $100 to just open a conversation. If she won't give her private email she is a scammer. Some girls don't have computer and internet at home so they use agencies, which leads to abuse. My wife's agency told her scams to milk me out of money and vacations, and they were surprised when she said that she was going to marry me. Well guys, it ain't easy but aim high, be flexible, and if it's too good to be tru, then it probably isn't."
just in case ya dont know Nizaio,, quote: it is illegal in the civil/ family probate codes to practice bigamy (having two wives at the same time). The first one is the valid marriage and the 2nd is void.
so no need for a prenuptial perhaps yeah.
my god that would be hard work!
I too wondered Lonely.......
Ralph, if you read the post above from Niznaio, it does sound like he is speaking currently:
"It's been 5 years since we married."
"My wife is a smart woman.........
Then he speaks of finding a scammer.......
No one knows of his current situation, maybe he is Captain Save-a-Ho....looking out for all men......:-))
Yeah,, you just never know anymore! A new person shows up on the forum and you can’t be sure who the hell they are??? The forum will be stalled, posts waiting for days, then a fury of new members show up, most with unlikely stories!!
Members often call me “pessimistic”?? Well,,,,,,, I wonder why??? A guy has to filter out the BS from the websites,,,, then again on the forum!! Isn’t danny’s BS sufficient for everyone???
What’s the matter danny,,,,, I’m detecting some hostility??!!
I have no idea about Russia and the Ukraine,,, but you do??? You haven’t been to Ukraine,, what do you know about it? You know how to spell it,,, so that’s a start I suppose??
My ideas are totally wrong????? I don’t want to hurt your feelings,,, but I’ll accept almost any ones opinions except yours! Why?? Because you are a moron!!!
I can’t get a decent internet connection?? Which one are you talking about?? My dial-up or my mobile 4G wireless connection???
I sit talking to girls from McD wi-fi???? I didn’t talk to anyone and I never got out of the car!! I checked my emails, did some updates, and checked to see how big an ass you were being!!
What kind of rice do you like??? You truly have some odd ideas!!!!
Danny,,, do just suffer from dyslexia or the more serious dumbfucxia???
Don’t feel bad danny,,,, you should be proud of some of your accomplishments!!!
You are almost able to walk upright,,, a first in your family line!!
The tale you were born with is smaller than your father’s!! I wonder,,, can you use it for balance??? Are you able to grasp tree limbs with it??
Danny has many favorite foods and dishes!! He likes home made “Turkey Jerky” but his favorite is Homemade Choked Chicken Jerky with his special sauce!!! He keeps all of that to himself!!!
He also likes Thai soups,, such as “ The cream of sumyoungguyeeeee“!!!
yeah, I see now --- naznaio married for five years. still on the web looking for women.. ????? cannot give an informed response to this. perhaps he can clarify his statements or perhaps he just slipped up and got busted. I don't know.
oh! so me and the wife are packing for california... I forgot to tell her about all of the silly travel restrictions. no fluids >3 oz. and have to be in quart size clear plastic bags and all that... what a hassle... got to spend a 1/2 day in laguna beach but it was a short trip. they closed the airport for two hours because someone dropped a tube of toothpaste and didn't come back to claim it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ah, the land of the free, home of the brave. we need to rethink this slogan for sure.