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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > A lady's invitation? Author Post siddha619 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/8/2012 12:47:16 AM   Hi I corresponds with this one lady from Russia since Jan-16. We write each other almost everyday And then a few days ago she asks me do I corresponds with other girls. I told her I corresponds with other girls but she seems to be the most honest and serious. And then she asks me to stop corresponding with other girls. Then I told her I would stop corresponding with other girls if she stops corresponding with other men Then She tells me she only corresponds with 3 men including myself And the two other men are not very interesting and she has not been writing them for 2 weeks. Then in the same letter she invites me to visit her in March and she says she will have 2 weeks off. What do you all see this? If I visit her, I am betting all my money on her... Moreover, it is so cold there and I live in San Diego it is 20C in noon here! How I can test if she is honest or not? bowhunter Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/8/2012 5:59:56 PM   the only way to know for sure is to visit her. you can always visit a local agency when you arrive if things dont work out. doppelganger Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/8/2012 10:25:13 PM   Since when do people in San Diego use Celsius?? siddha619 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/9/2012 2:06:08 AM   Hmmm she is in some small city quite far from Moscow. Do they have agency in small city in Russia? Armin(Bonddd) Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/9/2012 5:02:37 AM   They have agencies everywhere they have women) kiwinorth Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/9/2012 3:11:49 PM   sid,, north of moscow is thick with agencys if its there, its as bad if not worse then ukraine. i wouldnt go near the place because of this, was a pity for there was a lot of history i wanted to see up there. looking into that area it wasnt easy doing anything, but yeah the agencys seem to have the answer. my thoughts "always" visit only one girl, be sincere with this, otherwise they will take this rather personal and you will find that most will find it difficult to take you seriously.. but if its a agency girl well delete my always to a "do i take the chance or not" with other girls contact numbers. but anyway when visiting always have other avenues to take what ever it is for back up,, other girls contacts, spas, museums, hotels, hunting, shopping, airport what ever, just try to not waste the trip if it goes sour. yeah thats a funny one,, sometimes these girls dont see things as equal as you or i,,, they think we are mind readers in some ways and we can see the innocents of such small doings. saying all this, she could be one of those controlling jealous insecure types, or had a bad experience with other communications. i wonder what her story is then,, agency girl more then likely. to me i think its a good thing, communicating with others, i personally wouldnt worry about it to much, i actually encouraged they did. you want her to pick you over all others, not to pick you because you were the only one there. reality is nothing is sure until one meets, and then one only knows then if they may meet again. GeminiDreams Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/10/2012 5:30:52 AM   If you have the capacity to go then visit her. Have a backup plan of what to do if she doesnt meet expectations. smart a Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/11/2012 6:41:11 PM   siddha619, To find the answer about her honesty is easy, What ever agency your using the chance of the interpreter writing to you instead of the woman is about 95%. This is what worked for me. Make up another male profile, place a photo with it ( of a friend or from men's magazine) Make contact with 'your lady'. See if the reply letter has the same sentence's in it as what your letters do. If it does, walk away. ALL THE AGENCIES have these pre-formed letters. This is how A Foreign Affair works. Use the free-to-talk sites. MusicInOils Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/22/2012 5:53:51 PM   Ok so I am totally new to all this, so go easy! Anyhow to: smart a - I have done something very close to your suggestion. To preclude, I inadvertently sent an email to a girl I had been corresponding with using a different email account. Lo' and behold I get a reply with her 1st email and pictures. So, I set up a bogus yahoo mail account - get this Dirk McDongle from Mansfield Ohio. I'm using pics from the Mayor of Pittsburgh Luke Ravenstahl. I make Dirk ,this makes me laugh just thinking about it! sound like a real douche bad Just as I thought, Same correspondence as I had received from this girl with a few personal messages embedded in the text. So, 1st of all, what if this girl, as many others may have done, have their own canned responses then add personal notes to economically keep up with the demand of handling all that correspondence. I have thought about this myself, as I have found myself overwhelmed with responses so far. I can't keep track of or keep up with all the correspondence i have going on. This girl will be history simply because she is writing back to a dork like Dirk. but the idea in general is it at all reasonable? 2nd u know I'll save it .... one thing at a time. Music MusicInOils Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/22/2012 8:37:37 PM   On the first point still, I looked over her - or should I say "Boris'" emails and there are definite places where the line was crossed. I mean, appealing to my ego, and all that encouragement to write again. What if I kept all my "canned" paragraphs to stuff just about me. I am so tired of writing the same thing over, and over again. Am I just being lazy here? What's your profession? what are your hobbies? Do you eat out, or do you cook at home? tell me about your family, why did you get divorced? what was that all about? what sport do you enjoy? do you like me? what is your day like? do i interest you? am i what you look for? please, tell me about yourself. I can't keep up!!! It;s driving me nuts! What should I do? kiwinorth Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/22/2012 11:22:34 PM   music i just couldnt see real girls doing such, bit of a laugh really, and rather showing doing such. i'm just trying to put the woman i met into this category, mass mailing, it just doesn't fit, they wouldnt bother. agencys and the individual scammer, absolutely yes. i remember some time back when girls replied using the email program "bat" and such to be careful straight away because of its capability's to mass mail. i think you would have to be a little strange to handle your correspondence like such:) kiwinorth Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/22/2012 11:28:45 PM   but hey good to see we have a use for our government clowns finally Mick99 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/23/2012 7:41:55 PM   Sid, just be careful. Normally you getting over there is the opportunity for the agency to fleece you. Possibly the only time they have. So the translators will have pressure in the neck to try to get you over there asap. I would insist to have a video conference with the lady. You can tell a lot from the conference whether she is interested or not. I have heard it say the majority of communication between people is non-verbal. Read her face, gesture, whether she interested or not and trust your intuition. If sparks do not fly you may be waisting a lot of hassle and time in pursueing her. If it sparks do fly - you are more assured when you meet and everything will run more smoothly. Anyway good luck! MusicInOils Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 2/25/2012 6:11:25 AM   Thanks for your replies, kiwi, probably the most effective the mayor has ever been! lol! Mick, your so right. There is so much value in personal contact and face to face. I guess that's what makes this so hard, especially at the beginning. You really have to use your own common sense! I will keep trying to always use the big head for keeping me straight. MusicHDT Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > A lady's invitation?
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