Are the girls with agency emails real (esp. the ones from Mykolaev and Simferopol)? or are they hired by agencies to generate a revenue stream through emails, translations and what not? I've read some interesting stories online about agencies using recruits for display and for sucking the blood out of men's wallets and am a little suspicious. Does fiance.com verify the identities of these girls, and importantly do they guarantee these agencies will not try to rip us off?
Has anyone met one of these girls in their city?
Thanks very much!
Max -
It’s been said; that Lugansk created the online dating scam, but that Nikolaev perfected it!! I tend to agree! Every person I wrote to in Nikolaev has been a scammer. Not just ordinary scammers either, very arrogant and bold. Once they realize that they aren’t going to get a penny from you,,, poof, off to the next one.
When I was in Nikolaev the last time, (2010) I was told they have 8 agencies!! But just a week ago, someone from Nikolaev claimed the city now has 500 agencies,,,, because the scamming business is so lucrative!!
I only have one story to tell about Simferopol,,, and not a good one either. I wrote to 2 women there at the same time, for at least a few months. One was young and very pretty, and only wrote short letters. The other one was older and okay looking I thought,,, until I found some photos of her on another site!! Woof!!
I couldn’t get much information from the young one, she didn’t seem very sincere. In one letter, she called me “Stanley” ?? My name isn’t Stanley! I just stopped writing to her,,,, I gave no reason, I just stopped.
Only a couple of weeks later, the other girl also called me Stanley??? Two girls in the same city, calling me the same wrong name??? No way! What’s the only possibility? An over worked translator writing letters for both of them!
The second girl I told off, and I told her why I wasn’t going to correspond anymore. She was full of excuses saying it was a simple mistake?? She didn’t want to stop writing to me, until I asked her if she was brain dead??
If anyone is thinking that it could be a simple mistake,,,, why didn’t the first girl send me a letter asking why I have stopped writing?? Simple! I didn’t tell her that I was stopping!!! A person who works in an agency is writing to many people,,, perhaps hundreds a day! She or he, won’t notice one if one person’s letters are missing!!
How can you find out if the girl is sincere??? Good question! Do you find holes in her story after just a few questions??? When you meet,, does she keep you at arm’s length?? Does she look for excuses to meet you,,, or just reasons why she can’t meet you??
As I was writing this post tonight, I was also watching TV,, the SVU show from NY! They had a story about Russian dating/human trafficking/prostitution/murder/blackmail/extortion,,, you know,,, the usual!!
Thanks lonelyranger!
I don't trust those glamor pictures from the agencies, the girls look awfully pretty and young, and don't care about the man's age, they all look like recruits for display. All young girls these days have personal email. I am going to stay away. Then the girls who have private email look very average at best.
Thanks again and wishing you good luck!
I think this is a scam, I bought my ticket to Kiev for day 22, I planned to visit a girl in Sumy, I wrote to the agency in Sumy, when I confirm my arrival, the girl told me curiously no longer could see me and not only her, but two more, as I enter into correspondence with 5 sumy girls, 3 of them said no. The agency in charge asked me a number of old women, ugly, and I think there are no pretty women, and when a visitor wants to go see them, this lady intends to which if any, that are old and ugly.
The chances of a scammer are much worse in pay per letter operations than here. On each of my trips I have always met the ladies I was speaking with from here. Not true of the other sites. Of the possible dozen women I have met thru this site in 4 cities (agencies) I have been tried to be scammed just once for over priced cab fare. That was in Kharkov. It cost me $50 extra than it should but it was also one of the best evenings I have had on my trips. As it turns out the interpreter and cab driver were running the scam the girl just an accessory during the fact who said nothing.
Yes Max,,, that’s all the photos are good for,,, looking at! I look at them, and think about all the girls I won’t have!! The young girls are the bait,, just to get our attention!
Not every girl has an internet connection and email,,, but most have some opportunity to receive email,,, friend, family, work, internet café, etc! The ones that don’t make any effort for private communication, or have excuse after excuse for staying in the agencies, don’t deserve a minute of our time!!
Ramros,,, Sumy isn’t the honest little,,, well kept secret of a city everyone thinks it is. I’ve been there too,,, twice!! My girl there had no intention of getting married,,,, she really wasn’t even a viable option! I went to see her for the second time, and she didn’t even show up??!! She works a “stones throw” from my hotel??!!! Not one word from her on why she didn’t show up! I received a letter from her while on route at the O’Hare airport, saying how anxious she was to see me,,, then she doesn’t show up????
The 3 girls that changed their minds at the last moment, most likely never existed, or at least, weren’t the ones writing letters to you! They were only the bait!
What agency in Sumy were you using?? Was it through this website?? Last year in Sumy the agency woman almost became violent when I refused to see the older women with children. She told me the young girls,, like my girl (28) were only using me,,, they will leave me,,, etc, etc, etc!! Well,,,, she was right. Half of the women in the agencies are 28 or younger!????
I understand that you verify the profile information of ech girl by talking to them on the phone. I also understand that this doesn't necessarily mean they're not scams.
Do you also verify / approve the agencies? can you guarantee that your business partners are not scamming people on this site?
I think, that fiance.com is a scam site. Why? A huge number of girls want to talk with me none of them want to give me n email or skype. Always the same excuse - or they haven't an internet or computer or whatever. On other sites like Mamba or Elenas Model or Karina.ru-girl.com if the girl is interested they immediately give you email or telephone or skype. No problem with this. On fiance.com it's only excuses. Itś wasting time and money. Russian and Ukrainian girls are normal girls as everywhere in the world and if they are interested in you they are doing everything to be in touch with you. Fiance.com is for nothing.
fiance com isn't affiliated with any agency as far as i know
they are a cog in this crap system to give fools a cheaper option to access these time wasting places.
you dont have to use the cheaper option thats offered to play the lottery for thats what it is
pay full price at the agency site itself, or wake up to not using them.
Another experience - I sent all the girls I am communicating an email, in which I asked them to write me on my privet email. All girls of the site stopped writing with me. It has only one explanation - Fiance.com is a scam site. My emails are reading there in the whole office. So I am stopping my account on Fiance.com. It has no reason to stay the and share letters with
I found another site,,, datingcamgirls.com that uses the profiles from Fiance and elenas models in their website. It also has live xxx cam girls and the profiles of,,,,, "normal" agency girls.
Do they really think,, any normal guy would shop for a wife in the same place he gets his jollies from??? They are not in the mariage business!!!