There seems to be alot of negative comments. I'm fairly new at this, but I am aware of the scamming that takes place. Is there any positve experiences to share or am I just was wasting my time and asking for trouble.
fdtmkt: Like everything there are good and bad sides. The rules are just a little different in this sport. They are certainly not insurmountable. We all keep going back because we see the prize. It far surpasses anything else available to Western men.
Are you wasting your time?
Not unless you just sit on the sidelines and don't get involved (as well as educated).
Everything I ever accomplished in my life had risk factored in it. Without some risk there is no reward. Don't live in a bubble and regret something you wish you did. Go for it, but don't dive in blind. Learn and read as much as you possibly can before you make your decision. Listen to what these guys here have to say, learn from their experiences. Make sure your girl has a genuine interest in YOU!! Dont assume she does just because she writes back to you.
From personal experience, you can never be certain she has a genuine interest in YOU even if you marry her, as I found out to my cost :o///
But Im still here looking, so take heart from that fact fstmkt,
nothing and I mean Nothing in life is a 100% certain, not ever, but if you never take any riskwill never know :o)