I joined about 2 weeks or so and like it.and have hopes of finding the right women.soo far it has not bin easy.they either dont answer or only write me back once .why i dont know they just stop.and would like help from u all.i am truly looking 4 that right women.
thanks 4 listening
kirgi
Hello to you too kirgi, and welcome to the nut house :o)))
Not easy to help you my friend, unless we have some idea of
a: How old are you, and what age group of lady have you been writing to ? maybe there is a problem in this area.
b: where on this little green planet are you (sometimes your location can put a lady off the idea of writing to you) I'm not knocking where you live by the way, please do not think that, I don't even know where that is yet, but its something which can sway some women, and to be fair some men too, I know many men who wont write to any woman in Ukraine (because there are so many scammers in that country) but then I know others who Only write to Ukraine women by choice, its a funny old world :o)) and each to their own :o)
c: How are you approaching them when you write ?
d: Have you read through all advice about how to write a first approach letter ?
These points only scratch the surface of the whole thing, there are probably 101 reasons why they don't write back, but eventually with a little help and patience I'm sure that you will strike a chord with a girl, or maybe even two, and then you will be asking us "how do I choose which one of the two is best ? !!" :o))
you can borrow my photo if it helps. lol
(only kidding)
If you're up for it, it may be well sharing your profile with the guys here who can likely pick up on any problems within it. I initially casted about 100 lines of possibles and had a strink rate greater than 50% but that's still way too many to respond to continually. I find about a dozen probably enough to concentrate on for my fast fingers (no pun intended) but there's no reason why you shouldn't at least get a handful with a half decent approach.
There's plenty there to chew over already but without a reply or profile, it's hard to see why the stink rate is so good or should that be bad ?
> and then you will be asking us "how do I choose which one of the two is best ? !!"
Split loyalties and affection is an absolute killer. Flip a coin but do it quick or it'll be a question of "why didn't a choose one when I now have none?". :)
...choosing both also leads to none as fun as it can be - don't ask ;-)
Kirby, this isnt something that happens overnight. It took me six months of talking to literally hundreds of ladies to finally bring it down to three I'm going to see very soon. Just be yourself and honest when you write to them. If your not getting any responses their is a good chance you don't have any photos posted in your profile. Girls will probably pass right over you if they cant see you.
Hey guys, some info needed if you have any idea.. I'm going to St Pete but one of my girls is in Kiev. Will there be any kind of problems for her to travel into Russia? I have no idea yet as I am just beginning to look into it.
Crash:
if the girl you have in Kiev wishes to travel to Russia to see you there won't be any problems,as there is still a great deal of non-visa travel between countries of the FSU.My own good lady regularly travels between Kharkov and the Caucasus region with no problems at all.
Far less interested in looks than in how he treats and respect her.
Russian women crave respect, love, Honesty, Faithfulness and want a marriage they feel secure in, unfortunatly because there is such a huge surplus of good women there the men take liberties and dont treat women as well as they really should do, hence these ladies are fed up with that way of life and look for what they want and need from good men outside their own countries.
Of course if you are 400lbs, face like a smacked bottom, dont make the most of what you have got and look like the back end of a bus then you might as well talk to "ledick" about his virtual girlfriend site :o))
Typical Russian men, and I know 1000`s have the attitude that they can do as they want, because if the woman they are currently with doesnt like it he knows there are 1000`s of others with no man at all who probably will.
I know this Czech guy that lives by my brother. He is the most obnoxious, loud mouth, pain in the ass I think I have ever met. He doesn't take no for an answer, thinks hes Gods gift to women, never SHUTS UP! All he does is drive everyone nuts around here. If Russian guys are anything like this one, its no wonder the girls there are disappointed with men in their own country. I'm ready to shoot him in the ass, maybe that'll shut him up....Wait, no it wont,lol
hi tim, I am certainly not 400lbs.:) have sent 48 letters this week and got 12 nice serious replie, even before I posted my photo, I have juyst had aRussian woman living with me for the last 6 weeks, she has one home to Russia as really ill, I didn;t realise how ill and am ashamed of the way I have treated her, unconsciously thinking she would put up with more hardship than an English woman, ashamed of myself really and lesson learned