If you know this lady, I can tell you that she is not only a scammer, but the best at her trade. I have reciepts, pictures, etc. I gave her an engagement ring and she kept asking for more money. I finally got to the bottom of her scam. She spent 10 days with me in US and well...Sorry if she got you, but my story is real. Would love to talk to you.
Doctor J the rules given at the forum is you don't give money to people you have not met. I say logic tells you that whatever you give to anyone before you met, after you met and even after you're married is gone for good.
We used to have a hard and fast rule in the forum never to put a girls name in thread title and then label her a scammer.
This lady may very well be - but there are situation where a lady simply misses an appointment for a date, for a legitimate reason, and she is labeled a scammer. Or a lady may casually mention an expense she has, and that is interpreted as a request for money - which sets up the SCAMMER accusations.
Or the lady simply isn't interested in you, once she meets you, despite your interest in her. A lot of men immediately yell "SCAMMER"!
Not mentioning the name is a good idea. What we label as scamming may not be in their culture. While many can be scammers and have no intentions of a relationship, some are not. While these ladies are receiving gifts, some are still not sure of what she is going to do. When the relationship sours, many immediately yell scammer, as jetmba. says.
Telling of what happened is also a good idea. This helps others determine what could happen.
The only other problem is the forum crybaby, Danny. Danny would cry about $5 worth of chocolates. He thinks just because you got scammed, you should cry about it just like he would. Once you tell of what happened, he will constantly needle you because you have not cried about it, although you have long reconciled and labeled it as a learning experience.
Rb,, you can’t have a logical conversation with the dunt. He’s too re-dunted!
He let a Russian woman steal 30,000 from him,,, then ridicules you about a box of chocolates?? Such a DUNT!!!!
It doesn’t matter what others have,,,, or how happy they are,, only what he has is worthy. If he was married to a woman from the north pole,,,, all we would be hearing about,,, is just how awesome those “Polesh” women are!!
Hmmmmmm,,,, Polesh women are so hot,,,,,, aughhhhhh!!!!
Because you are supposedly the head of your family, your family is the target in this forum as you target others. You already know that. You have been told that several times. You insist on targeting others and it therefore proves that you don't care about your family.
Just me again..Is this lady in the US now?? Does anyone know? She is from Kharkov and has a visitors visa. Not sure if it is still valid. Did any of you give her money?
Sure Doctor J, just let me pull out my ukrainian girl tracker and lets see.......
c'mon dude, you act like there is 15 ukrainian girls and a couple hundred Americans to check.
there is 45 million here and 315 million in US and we are supposed to know about ONE girl???
move on! you had a bad experience, you certainly arent the only one. You been licking your woumds
for over 4 months, they should be healed by now. why the obsession? she screw you THAT good?
Hey Rick...Just got back on the site and saw your message..You need not give me your 2 cents, because you don't know the facts. So....She was in my home, stole 2 g's as I had a stash. Was not aware it happened until she was gone...Kinda pissed me off..She was that good by the way..she was a pro and should have been. Now I aee she has married some dude in Atlanta.. Either he is loaded or a sucker like me...I will caatch up to her somday...Again, thanks for the inspiring message.