http://www.naydimuzha.com/forum/forum2.asp
Maybe I am late to the party, but here is a very popular "Russian only" site, (owned / operated by fiance.com)
I had my friend translate some of the posts and basically its cam girls sharing info about all us guys - good / bad / fairy tale. Your "private"
liaisons and exchanges are being shared, confirmed etc amongst agency girls country-wide.
It is an interesting read.
Yes, More than likely if you have met a few girls you will end up on this site.
I admit it is quite an interesting theme that is concerning age difference.
there are quite extreme differences discussed and they often admit it really doesnt matter.
some have 20-33 years difference. many have said "its the man, not the age"
If you want to know how these girls really think, its definitely worth the read.
I had a girl say I was too emotional and doting of her a couple years ago,lol
smart a, why dont you get off the computer and go overseas. Of course Im sure it will be a challenge just to leave your mother's basement.
The truth is, for many ALREADY MARRIED girls in western countries age wasnt a problem. In fact they worry more about
being controlled, abused or ending up with a lazy non-virile guy who cant get it up after 6 months.
They often joke about "Anna Nicole sybdrome" that some girls have and also face their own scammers. Its interesting to read
about the scams they are victims of. seems the biggest one involves a man who is in Afghanistan in army or red cross and after a
few letters professes his love. he then discovers or splits a big find of taliban money after a battle, often 12 million and offers
to give it to her to hold until he gets out and they will live forever together. The ruse is similar, although the score is small
they still have accounts cleaned out or identities stolen. In some cases Ive discovered in particulaly young and vulnerable women, they are
kidnapped and sold into slavery with the abductors having forged documents based on her passport copies to get her out of the country.
The sad reality is young ladies from Ukraine are still being stolen every day and sold into slavery.
I just returned from 19 days in Ukraine...Marshrutkas everywhere...Kiev, Nikolaev, Odessa, Krivoy Rog, Donetsk, but the city I had the most connection with was Kirovograd. Centrally located, not many foreigners / very little english,younger population, a ton of high level academic institutes and the hottest women/girls whatever per capita...in all my travels.
Reikartz is a great full service, english speaking hotel - stayed there - city central. 3+ star for 44/nt.
Every cafe, restaurant, pizza joint, shop I visited, I was chatted up. High level of education, but no where to "practice". I made connections at the hotel, in the cafe and through these women met, THEIR friends and so on....for me is turned out way better than the $$$$$$ I have spent on various websites trying to connect. All I said was, will you be my city guide? And they all jumped at the "privilege".
I'd say, your first visit over, should just be a vacation..7- 10 days. Sit and admire the cities your visit. Acclimate yourself to the high level of beauty you will be inundated with...when groups of stunningly beautiful, hot, sexy women walk by, notice how little attention they get from local men. Locals have been spoiled. These women dress like this everyday. Last week, it did not matter the weather.
Short skirt, legs to die for, heels...the works....and this was this week, Nov 12. (just returned)
Imagine how stimulating it will be in July????
So, buddy up and go for a few days / week or two. Pass on the agencies and go vacation. It'll be a real eye opener....women here do not need to be saved...they KNOW they are beautiful.
Just remember guys - clean yourselves up a bit before you go. You have to change who you are- but be the best version of who you are.
When you arrive in Nikolaev for example, sadly, everyone knows why you are there. You start at a disadvantage. Tell a girl she is the only one, she won't believe you - tell a girl you are meeting more than one - she won't give you the time of time - unless she is all about money. A hot young girl and her even hotter friend, offered to fuck me for the week if I bought them both a small bottle of Versace Versense. (No different than dinner and a movie here in Canada) LOL.
During my last 3 days in Kiev before leaving, met a cute younger Belarussian girl at the cafe next to Ukraina Hotel. She is from Minsk - she was on a weekend shopping trip to Kiev. She stayed the last 2 nights at my hotel. I will see her in Minsk in April as well.
I advocate vacation first. And take some of the $$$$ you'll blow on websites, letters, translators, flowers, chat time and hire a tutor - learn some good basic Russian. I return again in April.
I fully expect to meet my women in Ukraine. But, it is taking time.
great post cary canada.i would love to visit some of those ukrainian cities i've read about.i've met a very nice russian lady from siberia,maybe too much distance or visa hassles so i want to keep my options open in case it falls through.my question to you is i'm 53,i'm only looking to meet ladies 40+!how do you meet them without being involved with agencies?or am i too old now?i do admire jetmba for his attitude,he's enjoying life,unlike some people where i live who condem everything,go nowhere and die well off !!great spirit guys keep up the good work.
So, rick4girl thinks these girls are being sold into slavery every day!
Wow!, another fool who will learn a big lesson sooner rather then later.
Here's a tip for rick,
Stay away from the vultures in a 3rd World country,save yourself 10 years and 30 thousand and go to the Philippines like 65year old Martin ( rag'n'bull ) and place your 'success' on here every day.
Ha, ha, ha.....
Smart a, Ukraine is far from 3rd world but you wouldnt know because you have never been.
Yes, girls still disappear in Ukraine every day. I often found them in Kosovo during the war
but now they end up in Dubai, Saudi Arabia and also Europe. One of my projects I started several
years ago was providing safe houses for rescued girls to get medical and psychological treatment, job
training and re-integrate back into life. one I work with now is called natasha project
Smart a,,,, Rick is right! Women do go missing and end up in places they would rather not be. For some,,,,, it’s their own fault! Some guy shows them the time of their life, and wins them over with gifts and politeness. Like a carrot in front of a horse.
Some may not have any choice! Their family is poor and they need the money for some emergency,,,,, or just to survive. I know of one girl personally that just disappeared , after getting a job offer she couldn’t refuse. She was going to contact me after moving into her new home???? I found another girl on nude cams,,, and several working as escorts!
Rick4girl,
You say you started to provide safe houses for rescued girls......
Tell me, what stops the 'stolen women' from going to the police in those countries that your've mentioned?
Thanks for the link LR1701, I will check that out later.
“Tell me, what stops the 'stolen women' from going to the police in those countries that your've mentioned? “
A lock and chain,,, a locked cage, a severe beating(s), a gun butt to the head, having their family threatened,,,, police who are also in on the kidnapping, etc, etc!
Abductions seem to be on the decline here in the US,,,, and I think this foreign dating has something to do with it.
About 15 to 20 years ago, there was a high profile abduction in this country (US). I don’t remember their names anymore,,,, but the family had connections with people in high places.
They knew who took her! They knew where they took her!! It was one of the rich but tiny Arab counties! The leader of that country admitted that the girl was there and also knew who took her. We,,, the US,, asked for her to be returned! The answer was: “NO”!!
We sent our ambassadors and diplomats several times,,,, they made offers for her,,, the answer was; No! Her parents went over and pleaded,,, the answer was still; No!!
The guy who abducted or bought her, must have had a real hard-on for tall blondes?!
The last thing that I remember about the story,,, is that the pleading of the parents went unheard, and our government just let it go! Where is the girl now?? I have no idea, she could still be there,, or was staked out in the desert a week after she arrived???
smart a,,, that link has nothing to do with abductions,,, it was just an interesting story.