I have been watching some of the Spelling Bee competition and can see how some people attempt to spell the word using the pronunciation of it. This can often result in misspelling. You need to be a philologist which can help you know the background of word origins. Not to be confused with philatelist.
Many girls are paid to be in a site. When you visit and give gifts, the agency wants a percentage. A girl I visited told me that. Don't tell the agency about gifts. The girl might be real, but watch the agencies.