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Sneakerpimp

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	Send: 11/19/2012 12:21:56 AM

Hey all! I like to introduce my self. Im from the country on the bottom of the map, Australia Im pleased to be here. Read some of the posts. Some great advice. I have a few questions about this site and the girls. I have only been on the site for just over a week. I don't mean to sound arrogant at all however I get quite a few letters. I got replies from all of the of the girls I wrote to except for 4. I wrote individual intros to each of them. I think I am pretty good looking and interesting. I put up some great pictures and get compliments on them all the time. Like I said I am definitely not trying to be arrogant, just giving some context. I would like to know is this the usual thing for all you guys out there? I am not a 'player'. I respect all woman. I firmly believe in treating others as I wish to be treated. The problem is being polite and responding to someone who has taken the time to write to me takes a long time. There is many letters. I check to see if the girls writing to me have actually read my profile and ask me decent detailed questions to prove this is so. So I am interested in a couple of girls I think I could have some potential with... They answer pretty much all my questions in the correct order and also ask follow up questions. I also found them in that VK social site. They have the exact same details and their pages are just like regular FB pages with not 36,000 friends or something ridiculous like that. Also on their profiles it doesn't say that they have received like a 1000 or more letters. I prefer 'cuties' rather than girls that look like straight up supermodels. The girls I am currently talking too are very attractive. Im in my mid 20's so a girl would have to be exceptional for me to be interested if they were under 21. So in light of all this I would like to ask... Is this a good sign? Or is it that the 'scammers' are just stepping up their game? Also 2 girls so far have said they prefer to talk through the agency. One even said that the agency will give her a fine if she tries to talk to me outside of the agency. I know that Fiance.com states that they don't mind this. So I ask what is the deal with this? Could it be since girls get on this site through other agencies that the agency on their end is saying this? Or is it that they are getting paid? Any advice or answers from any 'veterans' would be much appreciated. Thank you. Deacon.

smart a

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	Send: 11/19/2012 3:51:35 AM

Forget Russian/Ukraine women. But, If you still want to visit their country, just fuck them. Jetmba knows of a '15' out of a scale from 1 to 10 for $300.00 an hour.. Problem is with 3rd World countries like Ukraine, high rates of HIV.. Have a look at Mamba.ru. Forget all other sites, 95% scam..

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	Send: 11/19/2012 3:39:08 PM

I'm sure there are some legit dating sites there, but its like handling fire to know which are the good ones and which are the scam sites, and even on the good ones you have scammers so that is not even safe. So my suggestion would be to go ahead and talk to these girls but by no means ever send any money and talk to a few of them so if 2 turns out to be scams you still have the 3rd that is true. As soon as any girl asks for money for any reason end it right there, most women there would be embarrassed just like any other normal woman to beg for money from someone they met online. I am with a Russian girl but it just happened that way, I never meant to fall for someone on the other side of the world and would of been content meeting locale girl but fate didn't do me that favor. Well 'haus, good luck in the search and getting a whore while fun when romping out with friends getting tore up, but isn't filling.

Rick4girl

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	Send: 11/19/2012 4:33:13 PM

Hi, You just have to use good judgement on this site and others. There are some good ones on fiance site and some that arent. Chances are good that the ones getting 20 letters a day (there are several)are pros and will soon start to or are already sending short responses that arent specific to you but are just trying to keep up with the flow. The ones who appear to write letters to you personally I would keep writing to until they give you reason to suspect something is amiss. Eventually you need to weed them down to a handful you really want to meet and then go. You never know if she is real and genuine until you meet her in person. By all means dont get emotional or seem too excited because the vampires will seize on that. There are other good pieces of advice here that you have probably already read. Its entirely possible to find a good girl. just takes time and the willingness to put forth the time and money. Im home for Thanksgiving in US then Im going back in a couple weeks

paulx

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	Send: 11/19/2012 6:39:06 PM

What site are you using? If any of us have used it we can tell you more about it as most of the online dating sites have some kind of scam .

Rick4girl

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	Send: 11/20/2012 9:05:00 AM

formerly known as Sverdlovsk during Soviet times, Ekaterinburg dates back to the 1700s and has 1.35 million people. I dont think its a very tourist friendly city and probably wouldn't recommend for a first-timer unless you are quite fluent. Plenty of single girls but I dont think they are any different than girls in other parts of Russia and Ukraine. Lots of scammer profiles list it as their city.

Rag'n'Bull

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	Send: 11/20/2012 9:26:50 AM

Rick, One thing with Ekaterinburg is that it seems to be the 3rd city of Russia with foreign consulates present and, without looking at the map because the internet here is so p1ss poor, other cities such as Novosibirsk aren't so far away, head out in to the towns and villages and you might really enjoy yourself! Besides that Ekaterinburg etc. are nowhere near to (easy/no visa) Ukraine which is where the majority of the idiots are heading to thus you might actually be able to walk the street hand in hand with a lady and without getting trampled in a stampede of western men. :) If not satisfied with Ekaterinburg then check out where www.s7.ru/en fly to and from.

Rick4girl

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	Send: 11/20/2012 10:05:15 AM

Im not saying anything bad about Ekaterinburg. I like it just fine myself. Havent been there since 2007 but plan to first quarter of next year to sign up more sellers for my products.

siberianbear

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	Send: 11/20/2012 12:03:13 PM

great advice again guys.i'm off to novosibirsk in january.the lady i have met tells me so many single ladies out there.i chose to meet a russian lady because in my opinion maybe the ukraine has been over fished now,so o wanted to try somewhere a bit different.i will write a report when i return on the lady situation in the city.

kiwinorth

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	Send: 11/20/2012 4:22:11 PM

thats pretty good advice in my book from Danny, go to the smaller out of the way places where you will not meet westerners if you can. which is most of outer russia region. when i was looking, any girl that came from a easy to get to city, agency city, tourist city, ukraine and didnt speak english were binned. the smaller the city the better i liked it, the girls were far less city minded and have the capability of getting their hands dirty, meaning gardening. you need to go visit really before you settle in on how you will end up doing this. we all do it different from first trip,,, i guess pick from what you are doing now and go. make her help you if you can, if shes not interested in doing this you know the answer to her and how interested she is in you, just be sure you are sorted with other avenues if she doesn't appear always. you are very unlikely to find her on first trip so learn and enjoy. and welcome to a seriously time wasting journey of letter writing to time wasters and interesting adventure.

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