Well said moyarishka, very well said.
And you have to think about old fools like jetmba. who have fantasies about dating young women 30 plus years younger then him in 3rd World countries.
I think ' Sponsor ' is the correct word the women use to call this fantasy seeking fool.
Ha, ha, ha, ha......................-_-..........
“With all due respect "Smart a" isn't American (thank God), though five years later he is still whining about a lady, apparently the ONLY lady he has ever met in Ukraine”
I’ve met more than one,,, but one that I met on my first trip (to Ukraine) stings the most!!
I think it depends on whether or not you had ever cared about someone!! If you don’t care,,,, it doesn’t hurt!!
I also believe, it depends on what type of person you are?! We have some people here who care about the women they hope to marry. We also have some that don’t!! Guys with “USER” personalities,,,, sex tourists!!! I sometimes refer to them as bottom feeders!!
smart a: Forgive me. I accidently read one of your idiot posts. The one above and since the drivel was short I fell into it. It won't happen again.
A "fantasy" is something that is not true. I HAVE in fact dated women 30 plus years younger than I am. In fact I am in Ukraine right now doing exactly that with a woman who is 34 years younger than I am. You need to buy a dictionary.
To all other readers: "amart a" is still crushed because he spent his life savings, some $3,000, to go to Ukraine for an AFA Social. He was convinced somehow that AFA had special farms where they raised ultra pure girls, who would be presented to him, all virgins of course, who had never been dated by any other man. Imagine his distress that SOME of the girls were NOT farm fresh, that they HAD dated men already, and that some of them likely were not virgins (not that he would ever find out directly). He has cried himself to sleep about his every night now for more than five years.
He has complained since then to anyone who would listen. He has compained directly to AFA, on several scammer websites and over and over and over and over again (and over again) here. And he hates with a passion that anyone else is actually having a good time.
A "sponsor" is one who pays a girl to be available for sex. If you don't PAY a girl and she has sex with you, you are not, by definition, a sponsor. Have you ever actually HAD sex, I mean, with a girl? I am very much doubting it at this point.
First of all, I would like to thank you for reading my posts.
Secondly and seriously, I thought you were posting some good info on the forum, but that all changed with the ' Drum Roll Please ' posting..And I thought it was time for some prospective, for the sake of others, of course.
I was reading about the posting you placed on the forum about 3-4 days ago about how the woman went berserk at you for sitting on the bed in your jeans ( or something like that )........You typed the 'scenario ' very well and it was easy to follow, thank you, but, didn't this 'scenario' tell you something...
The woman didn't see you as 'long term' relationship type of guy.. This means she is being polite by not telling you, you're here to pay, not play......
Add to this the shame you posted on here about how you didn't give the poor woman the $300.00 EVEN when you found out she was in a desperate situation...Fucking shame on you, you upstart, tight-arse, fucking 50year old-plus dreamer from Wisconsin America-USA.
Obviously, by not paying the struggling woman the $300.00 dollars, you must be on $8 dollars an hour plus tips, right?......
But you spend your money 'dating' the smokin ' hot babes, because this makes you fell real good ( make you act so funny, make you spend your money,like a long neck Goose, like a girl, oh Baby that's a what you like )...Sorry, Big Bopper..............-_-................
The people at Fiance.com post your comments while they block mine and others. They see you as 'sponsor' and suckers like you keep the wheels turning.
AFA describe guys like you as 'repeat offenders', because you JUST KEEP COMING BACK NO MATTER WHAT....
I can imagine you at an AFA ( biggest Scam agency on the Web ) social surrounded by 100-200 women that have been picked up in Taxi's paid for by AFA, but more importantly, these women had no background checks done of them to prove if their name is actually what they write on their social 'name stickers'..But this doesn't worry the desperates like you because, a date with a smokin' hot young babe from a disfunctional/corrupt 3rd World country, is better then looking in the mirror at home and seeing what the American Girls see, right?..................-_-.................
Your've been doing this fantasy 'thing' for about 10 years now and you will still be here, on the forum, in the following 10 years..The amount of money you have spent with AFA ( biggest bullshit site on the web ) go and demand a Gold watch for long service..
I can only guess, AFA have got you on the highest possible discount for many,many,many, multipole repeat trips your've made....Oh and a free gift.
Take a tip form smart A,
Go and 'date' your hand and save up some money and give it to the woman that needed it to survive on and then save up another $300.00 and go fuck that '15' out of a scale from 1-10 tart from Odessa and get one back for the boys!
Regarding marriage, as I have said repeatedly, my 21 year old and I realize that our odds are slim to none in that category - simply because a 34 year age chasm is too wide. But we are honest with each other regarding that, and we are both enjoying every single moment we spend together. So whats wrong with that? (Not that I am asking or requiring anyone else's approval.)
I've BEED married - at age 19. I was married 21 years. Had children. If I find the right woman I might do it again. If I don't, then I am just going to enjoy life. Its my right.
amart a: Get yourself a life. If you stalked and annoyed that Nikolaev girl anything like you stalk and annoy me in this forum - then no WONDER she dumped you (after taking you for all she could). What did you expect? Most people have verly little tollerance, for whiney, obsessive twerps.
Stop whining. Get some psychological help for your obsessive disorder. Save a little of the lunch money your doubt you mom gives you each day till you have enough. And TRY AGAIN!