No, I do not mean a psychiatrist but I shouldn't rule that out completely.
What I do mean is a professional matchmaker. Someone that has experience in matching people.
I have been going to a couple of different sites and just recently thought to google for scammer info. I’m a IT Specialist and I didn’t think to google the site name and the word scam. That was a serious “DUH” moment. UNFORTUNATELY, the sites I was going to were on the BLACKLIST.
I would HIGHLY recommend you check this anti-scammer website (http://marriageagencyscams.com/Blacklist.html/ ) to see if the sites you are frequenting are listed.
You will also find a GOLDLIST ( http://marriageagencyscams.com/Goldlist.html ).
You can spend a lot of time searching the BLACKLIST for the sites you are visiting, OR you can cut your losses and go to the GOLDLIST and find a reputable site.
I am, by the way, NOT affiliated in ANY WAY, shape or form with the marriageagencyscams.com website.
I went to the site listed as #1 - Elena's Models ( http://www.elenasmodels.com/ ). I am not sure if that was the TOP/BEST site or just happened to be listed as #1 in the sequence. The prices for their services are INCREDIBLE compared to what I had been paying at FIND-BRIDE.COM (do NOT go there… the ladies are beautiful, but they just keep leading you on to CHAT and send email… it’s the way they get paid!)
Anyway, Elena’s has a personal matchmaking service… with a 6-12 month waiting list. Based on my experience at FIND-BRIDE.com, I can imagine how much money I would save by using such a service. Thousands… AND, they guarantee success. I will save money AND be guaranteed to find my match.
Pardon the comparison, but that is like fishing in a bucket. BUT, there is the 6-12 month waiting list.
So, I went back to the GOLDLIST and what did I find; ACTUAL sites that specialize in matchmaking.
I selected LuckyLovers website ( http://www.luckylovers.net/ ). Why, I don’t know – I guess I liked the name. It is a well organized site. While the ladies aren’t displayed in bikinis and boudoir photography, they ARE REAL which to me is MUCH more important.
Forget JIM @ marriageagencyscams and forget about the Gold list and the Black List..All agencies are affiliated with each other.
Example:
If you read what JIM @marriageagencyscams says about Online Dating Ukraine, you'll shake in your shoes and get angry at the amount of scamming good foreign men this agency does.....BUT, what JIM ( suck cock for money ) wont tell you is, Online Dating Ukraine have 2 affiliate offices in Nikolaev and one of those Affiliates is called www.aslavgirl.com..
Have a look at the address at the bottom of the desktop page and compare that to AFA..
Now, have a look at the desktop page of the AFA site and notice the Bikini photos, the women with Tits hanging out everywhere and ALL the young/model looking women in suggestive photos...By the way, ALL photos of the women on the AFA website have been PHOTOSHOPPED...AFA, even change the colour of the women's eyes as well as making them all have perfect teeth....AFA is the biggest bullshit site on the web......
Call JIM ( suck cock for money ) and remind him peoples are smarter then him and ( if you want ) copy and paste my posting and send it to him.
TIP:
Try Mamba.ru and do a search for Russian/Ukraine women in your own area.
Don't use an agency matchmaking services, in fact, don't use any agency at all.
Forget about JIM@marriageagencyscams and his BULLSHIT WEBSITE.
I have long been aware of the elenasmodels matchmaking service, where (as I recall) they commit to stick with you until you make the connection.
Because em seems to be run MUCH better than average (mind you, the average is dreadful), with a high proportion of sincere husband-hunters among its profiles, I suspect that their matchmaking is worthwhile (which would account for the waiting list), and would make sense for a man whose busy schedule precludes the time required to search on his own.
Well, luckylovers is just a dating site and not an agency. If you search a girl you talked to from over there you will probably find her on that website.
Before I attend a Romance Social - I often get a few names of ladies in the area. For that I have used mamba.ru, fiance.com and luckylovers.com. I write to them and just tell them that I will be in the area - one single letter - no more than two.
The reason I do it is that I meet no more than four women at the three Romance Socials, but most often around two. If THOSE were to fall apart aftr the Socials, since I don't use agencies, I need a back-up. Kind of like the floatation device in the seat on your flight over. You hope never to have to use it. But its there.
My experience with luckylovers.com hasn't been good. I just sign up for a month - and I usually try to break the ice with a few girls - but I almost never recieve a decent response back. Luckylovers LOOKS like an incredible site - but I was not impressed by performance.
You sound like my best friend when he was talking about his experience on plentyoffish, he said you have to message a 100 girls just to get one response back. I had a little better luck, after a while you have to learn how to write a letter that singles you out different from the million other guys writing them and that includes coming up with a unique letter title. Also if a girl is a 10 she is getting bombarded with letters and yours will be just lost in the masses and she is doing the searching so its best not to bother. I look for cute and pretty over hot and sexy and many times a personality wins me over more than looks though of course initial attraction is a must, perfection is not. I will be busy for the next few years to worry about relationships but when I get back in the game I hope I have not lost to much game ;)
Actually I have had better luck with lovefoto.ru (same as mamba.ru).
One night I didn't have a date and I hate eating alone so I went on that site and within 30 minutes I had a smoking hot 21 year old to go out with. Now she didn't turn into the love of my life - and I didn't expect that. But she was a tall thin blonde, absolutely gorgeous. I admit - she DID bring a friend along supposedly as a translator - though this girl actually spoke better English than the translator. Not my dream arrangement - but hey - 30 minutes? I didn't expect a perfect arrangement.
If you AREN'T a full member of the Romance Tour - and are Socials ONLY - then AFA is under no obligation of course to help you contact women in their listings. I'm fine with that - but several other men were in a line outside the door to the AFA office anxiously waiting their turn with the 3 or 4 staff people to help arrange a date for that evening. I didn't have that benefit - just my laptop and lovefoto.ru - and I had a great evening.
What happened with that one? Just the one date. We were going to go out one-on-one to sing karaoke that Friday but I had a schedule conflict. But we have kept in contact - and if I am ever in Lugansk and dateless again, I will certainly look her up.
I would NEVER have the patience to write 100 letters to get a response.
Bottom line: I didn't have to PAY the friend (false translator) of course - but I did buy her supper. The bill for the whole evening, including drinks - came to around $70.
A great bargain. A great dinner with two wonderful lovely ladies. And I didn't have to eat alone.
This is a topic that jetmba. coyote should have started a few years ago.
I'm reading into jetmba. coyotes posts in which he states, ' And I usually try and break the ice with a few girls-but I almost never receive a decent response back.
Thats probably because you where writing to girls 30 years younger then you and they saw you for what you really are, a dirty old man.
" Luckylovers LOOKS like an incredible site - but I was not impressed by It's performance. "
AGAIN, Now he is trying to blame the agency for he's own problems... The problem, or the fact that, no 21 year old women on the site wanted anything to do with a creep that was 30 years older then themselves, a creep that had a profile name called ' Simple Simon '.
AND, What the Fuck is a ' Schedule Conflict '
Does this mean he had to visit another girl because her School was out?
“The reason I do it is that I meet no more than four women at the three Romance Socials, but most often around two. If THOSE were to fall apart aftr the Socials, since I don't use agencies, I need a back-up. Kind of like the floatation device in the seat on your flight over. You hope never to have to use it. But its there.”
Fall apart????! Not for Jetmba,,, with that great personality of his, it could NEVER fall apart!!!!!
“”Kind of like the floatation device in the seat on your flight over. You hope never to have to use it. But its there.””
That’s a perfect example for jetmba!!!! They also say; that you might need to blow them up yourself manually! Jet brings along his own blowup floatation device,,, shaped like a 21 year old Ukrainian woman. It also gives him something to do while waiting for his flight,,,,,,, or between trips to Ukraine
Since I have the two jealous, failure dudes, Dumb a, and Looney interested in this story. I will tell the rest of it. Its SURE to upset them. And thats fun.
As I mentioned - the girl I found and met in just 30 minutes (tall, thin, blonde, 21 years old in Lugansk) and I were planning to go to karaoke on the following Friday. But let me tell you how that plan was made.
As this girl and I and her friend were sitting in this wonderful restaurant, we started to talk about karaoke. My date told me that she could sing very well, that she would like to do it for me, and that there was a karaoke place right nearby. I said "Then lets go tonight!"
My date looked at her watch and commented that it was a little after 10:00 and that, since she was a student, living in a student hostel, she had to get home because the doors shut at 11:00 pm until 5:00 am. And if she is not home by 11:00 there will be no place for her to go until 5:00 am.
I (semi-jokingly) said "Thats okay. We can still go. And if you need a place to stay tonight after 11:00 pm and until 5:00 am, you can just stay with me!"
Honestly, I expected that she would dismiss the idea completely, but instead she asked me how many beds I had! (She knew where I was staying because we arranged to meet in the lobby.) I told her that I had just one bed - but I wouldn't mind sharing it. (Still kind of joking.) And she say "Okay!".
I was shocked to say the least - I didn't expect this in a thousand years. But INSTANTLY her friend started speaking to her angrily in Russian. I don't know what was being said but I could tell it was discouraging.
Then my date told me, rather sheepishly and out of her friends hearing, that her friend did not think that it would be a good idea. But she offered to go out with me Friday and we would certainly be out past 11:00 with sleeping arragements as we already discussed.
But by that time I HAD met another girl - MUCH MUCH older - she was all of 26 years old.
(I can't WAIT to hear how bad this upset the two losers!)
Please allow me to respond first to jetmba. coyotes' posting about ' His Story '.
So jetmba. coyote found a 21y/old girl in 30 minutes in Lugansk.......In 30 minutes, WOW!
And then jetmba.coyote is telling peoples, the girl he met in 30 minutes, wanted stay the night with him after karaoke.
Well, move over Elvis, because here comes jetmba. coyote.
AND THEN, jetmba. coyote met ANOTHER girl who was 26 years old.
WOW, WOW, WOW.
He must be Gods gift to women.....Or, looks like the hookers have got another punter to 'play with'...
Ha, ha, ha, ha.....
I think AFA will be contacting him soon and asking jetmba.coyote to stop telling the World his 'secret to success ' because they are trying to sell tours, so 50 year old 'odd balls- living in denial ', can pay out $4000. for socials to meet the women that AFA don't do any back ground checks on.
AFA should be affiliated with HIM , because he is more ' successful ' in 30 minutes then they have after 15 years. ( pissing myself laughing )
Poor jetmba. coyote, doesn't know the difference between a STD ridden prostitute and an honest, loving girl.
Not that this worries him because, ' It's his money to spent it anyway he likes '..And after 10 years roadrunnin' and STILL SINGLE because He CHOOSES TOO, Well, I'm sure It's not that hard to read between the lines.
I cant stop laughing at this dick-head called jetmba. coyote.
Jetmba:
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“”By the way. I have NEVER paid to open a letter, or to send a letter, or to translate a letter, or an agency fee to call someone.
Not once. Not ever.
I can't believe some people do. “”
Jetmba:
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“”Before I attend a Romance Social - I often get a few names of ladies in the area. For that I have used mamba.ru, fiance.com and luckylovers.com. I write to them and just tell them that I will be in the area - one single letter - no more than two. “”
Did Jetmba say:,,, “fiance.com”??????
Jet,,, do you have some kind of special deal with fiance.com??? Because,,,,,,,, you either pay for the letters,,, or you pay for the VIP membership!!!!
Just like (!!!!”””I”””!!!!) did!!!!!
So,,,, by “YOUR” own criteria,,,,,, YOU ARE A SEX TOURIST!!!!!!!
“Since I have the two jealous, failure dudes, Dumb a, and Looney interested in this story. I will tell the rest of it. Its SURE to upset them. And thats fun.”
The reason why jet thinks this will upset me,,, is that we both had talked about having a girl in Lugansk,,,,, not quite at the same time though,,, something jet must have forgot about??? Plus,,, he has already called my girl there a “scank” and jet would never date a scank????
Jet is so proud of the “fact?”,,, that he found a girl (21 year old) to jump in bed with him on the first date!!! What name does this type of woman have???
“”Then my date told me, rather sheepishly and out of her friends hearing, that her friend did not think that it would be a good idea. But she offered to go out with me Friday and we would certainly be out past 11:00 with sleeping arragements as we already discussed.””
“But by that time I HAD met another girl - MUCH MUCH older - she was all of 26 years old. “
Jet had a date planned with the girl on Friday,,, but couldn’t wait??? So he met another girl,,,, or old lady as jet described!!!
SEX TOURIST!!!! Pathetic, sick, dirty old sex tourist!! No class!!!!
I have known for a long time now,, that jet had some real problems, but I looked the other way. The only person who spoke out about him was smart a!!!
Jet doesn’t want to admit to being a sex tourist,, and strikes out at people who call him that. He hates it or is ashamed of it,,,,, so in a way perhaps, he knows he is doing wrong?!! But the ego trip he is on is worth it!!!
I knew this guy jetmba. coyote was a few sandwiches short of a picnic..
Some Say...
That jetmba. coyote contacted a Lawyer from a hospital bed because he wanted to Sue a company over a product.
Apparently, The Dyson Ball Cleaner was not what he thought it was.
I bought a MONTH on VIP status in fiance.com. That meets both criteria. I never paid to open a letter. And I used fiance.com to get a few names "I write to them and just tell them that I will be in the area - one single letter - no more than two. “
How hard is that to understand? But then nobody ever accused you of having a brain.
It IS a special deal with fiance.com. But as my bestest buddy YOU can get it too. You just have to sign up for a MONTH of VIP membership. Do you DUH much?
And where did I say I slept with either of these girls? Clearly I didn't sleep with the first. And I never slept with the second. And I didn't PAY them in earrings or cash like you do. So HOW does that make me a sex tourist?
Did you two ride the short bus at school for "special students"? (Did I hit a nerve?)
"Dumb a" says: He is"( pissing myself laughing )"... again.
Incontinence is truly a problem he needs to overcome. Don't they have adult diaper in Australia? If you wear loose pants, maybe the girls won't notice. Just try not to move around to much and make the paper crinkle.
I buy a MONTH of VIP membership for $49.95 so that I can write a few letters and just let a few girls know that I will be in the area. I always get phone number and email addresses and little more.
But did everybody notice the hysterical excitement with which Looney wrote his post above? Jumping all over the place with wild statements and quotes, and ridiculous overuse of punctuation, as if he had CAUGHT me on something.
I saw a video once of a chimpanzee who thought he had "stolen" a banana from one of his keepers (actually the banana had intentionally been put in reach). The chimp jumped all over with it, swinging from the ceiling, bouncing off the walls, screaming wildly and howling with exagerated movement at what he imagined to be his clever act in winning a prize. Actually the chimp hadn't won anything at all.