Hello all thank you for providing this forum. I have met what seems to be a nice girl on www.loveme.com. We have written back and fourth for since Christmas. She is from Sevastopol Ukraine. She lives with her parents and claims she does not have a computer at home. After searching I found her on VK.com. She gave me a cell number which I talked to her on twice. Now it plays music or rings and rings and she says she is not getting my calls. She has never asked me for anything including money. I have sent her flowers for Valentines Day, an Ipod shuffle and a silver chain and charm, just because I really like her alot. She sends me a letter everyday or two through the system. The address she gave me was valid as she recieved the items I sent her!! She claims she is not seeing anyone there and that I am the only man she is talking to off of the system, which I kind of doubt, but want to believe. Do the girls on www.loveme.com get paid for the letters or have I met a real girl who could be looking for a real love?? My main question is do you guys think the phone problem could be legit or she just doesnt want to talk? Thanks Rick
Rick....Keep trying to convince yourself it is real. She has you hook, line and sinker. Another one who has fallen in love with pictures. As bad as anastasia is, you went to another that is worse.
I can see this girl stringing this out as long as possible....afa and her agency making lots of buck. I am not as sure about her making some also....but she got some parting gifts.
Tell you what....why don't you just go and visit her....and cut through all this writing stuff, that way you can find out for sure and leave no doubts in your mind!!! of course, she could just disappear or have some business work or family medical problems!!!!
If you want to educate yourself, which a strongly recommend,...this forum is like romper room...there are others though you can learn much from.
Do what i have done 5 times over 9 years . Just get on a plane and go for it. It is the only way and you will learn real fast. Private e-mailers can be just as bad as the agencys . Someone has brainwashed these Ukrainian women that all western men looking for love are forlorn and stupid.Reflecting back on my dating life, I have never once had an American women(even though i dont care for their reborn attitudes)have never pulled the bullshit these Ukrainian women try to do to us.Not once. I am also starting to beleive that most of these women on dating sites are losers in dating in FSU are no different than us in the fact that the look elsewhere because they cannot get connected at home like us because they are for some reason they just don`t have what it takes to get connected over there, and like some of us cant here and that means me.I beleive you can hand some of these FSU women a good life on a golden platter and they will f_ _k it up. Not all guys but most of them.
another funny story... girl doesn't have a computer, she has a VK account but writes you through the system and doesn't hear your calls :)
if your IQ is higher than 100 then you must figure out what's my point :)
Rickg77,,, it sounds like she is stringing you along,, just giving you enough info to keep you writing.
She doesnít need to ask you for anything,,, you are already giving her a lot. The rule is not to give anything to someone that you have not met yet.
To go or not to go, depends on how much you value your time and money. If time and money isnít a problem,, then go for the adventure! Keep your expectations low,,, and have an alternate plan for when or if things donít work out.
I had a girlfriend in Kyiv 9 years ago who had her own 10 year old son. She told me she had never been kissed before after we kissed for the first time. Unbeleivable. I think i dated the virgin mary .
After my 2nd trip to Ukraine,,,, and being very disappointed, my father said something right out of the blue.
It was,,,, ďSometimes people will treat a good or honest person,,, like he is some kind of dummy or fool!Ē
When they tell their completely unbelievable lies,,,, youíre just supposed to sit there and smile,,, and donít ever question it!!!
ďI am also starting to beleive that most of these women on dating sites are losers in dating in FSU are no different than us in the fact that the look elsewhere because they cannot get connected at home like us because they are for some reason they just don`t have what it takes to get connected over there, and like some of us cant here and that means meĒ
I donít agree sunvolt, I think there are two basic types of women in the dating game. The time wasters or chair fillers and the pros or ringers.!
Time wasters let the agencies use their photos, and write on their behalf regardless if they want a husband or not. If they seem like losers to you,,, itís probably because they arenít trying,,,, they already have a husband or boyfriend.
The Pros,,,, can make a foreign guy believe anything,,, and they will always say: Yes. They will do most anything, without any guilt. They probably go home to their boyfriends and say nothing happened,,,, and perhaps it wouldnít matter anyway,,, as long as she brings home the cash?!
'what should i write someone to get free ipod shuffle? :) '
dear...my, your prices have come down considerably, guess the $45000 german car not needed now but I will be happy to close the deal with a small shuffle......and to show my sincerety, i will already fill it with music and pics!!! ;-)))