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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Materialistic Ladies Author Post Placidgent Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/31/2013 3:48:49 PM   I had a message from a lady today and I just couldn't believe what she was asking. We have only had about four messages either way. This is how her message went. Can I ask you some questions. I believe it is up to the man to finance his visit to visit me. What sort of property do you live in. One with a mortgage and if so how much is the payments. Is it rented. Are you paying maintenance for children and if so how long do you have to pay. Will you be giving me an allowance or will we have a joint account. How much is your income and how is it distributed. Who asks questions like this? We haven't met. Haven't held hands or had a first kiss. haven't spoken on the telephone. lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/31/2013 10:58:37 PM   That girl could be a scammer,,, or just a very serious business like woman with not enough finesse. Getting the business details out of the way early might be a good thing,,, it’s better than learning you aren’t a good match six months from now! I would ask her some questions,,, serious questions,,, and if she balks,,,, move on! Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/1/2013 1:09:43 PM   she is not a good one. move on. It is not proper etiquette in Ukraine for a girl to ask such questions even before first meeting. It is ok for her to enquire about your marital situation, how long divorced, kids, what your occupation is, where you live, etc. JohnnyUtah Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/1/2013 3:39:13 PM   These are all good questions to ask. The fact that you take offense to it and immediately think she is all about your money shows that you have little understanding of Russian culture and maybe better off seeking western spouse. Russians tend to be straightforward and to the point. If she is asking you these questions, she is seriously looking to get married and doesn't want to waste her time on a guy who is not serious. The question about mutual or separate accounts is very good one. Shows that she may have friends marrying American and knows the biggest problems in this type of relationship. Many if not most foreign people, FSU Asians, Arabs..., have a very different concept of what family is supposed to be like. To them having separate accounts for spouses and family members in general is unacceptable. Western individualism and selfishness in this case is a deal breaker. I am glad this woman knows what she is doing. There is many more who end up marrying Americans to discover that marriage for some American guys means to have a roommate who is willing to have sex with you. Placidgent Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/2/2013 2:53:51 AM   My point was that asking these questions puts the material side of things first regardless of whether we would even be compatible. I don't mind answering these questions once there is bonding and a hint of emotional compatibility. It's like saying if you are rich enough I might be able to fall in love with you. Sorry but I don't believe a LADY would ask such questions before meeting with someone and deciding that she would like to spend the rest of her life with him. As to the comment that I don't understand Russian culture this is total rubbish. No LADY in any nationality would ask these questions. Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/2/2013 8:43:51 AM   Johnny. its still not good manners in Ukraine especially when you consider that in 90% of first meetings the girl makes up her mind about whether she wants to pursue a relationship with him in less than 30 seconds and often only sticks around because its a free meal. Writing letters, email or even skype means absolutely nothing until the first meeting. however, having separate accounts is unacceptable. Dr. Rasputin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/2/2013 1:39:01 PM   It is woman nature to make sure man can take care of her. It is prudent to check if prospect is employed, unencumber and not living with mother. moyarishka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/2/2013 3:35:24 PM   right questions, wrong time to ask :) lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2013 1:52:11 AM   Placidgent,,, you already have more of a grasp of this, than guys who have spent a decade or more in their search! Normal common sense doesn’t apply to the FSU. Nor does “Western values”! “It's like saying if you are rich enough I might be able to fall in love with you.” Exactly!! And they want you to prove your love for them!! “No LADY in any nationality would ask these questions.” Worded correctly! Most Russian women won’t have a problem asking them,,,, hoping that men will think they are being serious! These women are writing to dozens maybe hundreds of men each day. And how many of these women are out there??? Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2013 3:27:19 PM   If a girl is being frank in this manner then you should probably ask if she swallows or has any issues with sex 3 times a day. after all, we DO need to get the important stuff out of the way...right? If Im going to take care of you then you have to take care of me. Most girls who are really serious will want to please her man. 3rd date is common, btw. durak Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2013 6:19:36 PM   Only 3 t.i.d.? ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/5/2013 9:30:06 PM   More than tid? A man in his mid fifties can do that only if he also takes it orally. But, ask Michael Douglas. That causes throat cancer. The only thing missing is the FDA warning label. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2013 12:37:10 AM   Sorry. Bad joke. I got that from Jay Leno. moyarishka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2013 12:59:12 AM   yuck :) you're crazy all of you :) ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2013 12:13:20 PM   moyarishka, that is one of the things women screams when..... It has been a while, but I once hung out with Jay Leno. http://wp.me/P1VIMo-2EO ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2013 1:13:37 PM   More Jay Leno: "In 'Basic Instinct', Michael Douglas was staring cancer right in the face. Scorpio1951 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2013 3:06:20 PM   I've had some questions asked of me: 1) Does your house have a swimming pool? (As if swimming pools are common in Russia and Ukraine) 2) "Tell me all the details of your last three relationships." 3) "Send me a photograph of every room in your house." I answered none of the above, and stopped writing to these particular women. The internet gives these FSU women access to all the men on the planet, and it is sad that goes to some their head. They think they are famous, that they are movie stars, and, in reality, they are not. They are attractive women from third world countries and money corrupts many of them. blu_craze Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/6/2013 9:50:04 PM   There are women in the States like that too, you have just naturally learned to ignore them, but probably are just ignored by "Them". I know woman from over yonder that don't care one bit about money and they are not putting up a front, though I am sure living in a single wide in a park somewhere will be a turn off and they will come to there senses, but have more tact than this lady. She sounds like the type to have a fun few years with then when she gets her green card boot her for a nicer one. :) jk. Proteor Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/16/2013 7:00:35 AM   I've come across a few local woman who @ first put up a front only to show their true colours. Extremely materialistic. Self centered, etc... So, @ least for me I take things ultra slow, don't show "wealth" and rather let them see you as you are, and not for what you have. It does work. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Materialistic Ladies
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