here are 2 Russian girls talking to you. We found this forum and certainly paid a special attention to the topics devoted to Ukrainian/Russian Ladies, and international relationship/marriages in general.
There are so many disappointed men here. And it's so sad and painful to know that nowadays Real Feelings, Love, Tenderness and Trust are not appreciated in this world...
Why did we create this topic? And why did we decide to drop a line here?
One of us, Elena, was registered on some dating sites and has an experience in this field.
Another one, Valentina, was working as an interpreter in a marriage agency.
So we both can see this matter inside and outside.
We have knowledge and experience that we would like to share with you:
how to recognize a scammer-girl,
- the main men's mistakes in building relationship;
- cultural and mentality differences;
- how to attract girl's attention when you are not young and rich man from a magazine cover;
- what Russian phrases you MUST know when you are going to Russia or Ukraine;
- real taxi, apartment and international passport prices;
- Russian/Ukrainian woman's psychology, her expectations, foreign men and a family in general through her eyes;
- myths, legends and stereotypes about our countries;
- what we see when we read your profile on a site.
Analysis of your individual situation with explanations, certain recommendations and technique.
If you are interested in this, we are waiting for your private message.
Will be glad to talk and to help.
Sorry you picked the most juvenile forum for efforts. There are other forums where your abilities are ably effective.
Not even God could help some people here......
Single_lady in about 10 days my wife will arrive to my country. She is the greatest lady I have ever met. She also speaks English perfect she is the one who teaches me to read and write Russian. She has never asked me for money when we are together I am on top of the world. From day one she made sure I was always dealt with fairly in your countries. I offered taxis she took me on bus metro and trains. Apartments were always about 50 to 75 a night. When we stayed away from her apartment and I offered restraints she would say lets cook so we would buy food at grocery stores to cook. We always explore wonderful sites and just have a great time. We met on Skype and spent time getting to know each other before we met. I enjoy her company she enjoys mine. I intend to do all in my power to keep our relation ship alive, well and very healthy. Both in your countries and mine. So yes lets talk. There are many great and wonderful people in your countries. I also have family there now and thoroughly enjoy there company. So yes if you have some advice to help keep our relationship healthy lets hear it. I am sure there will be comments.
"what Russian phrases you MUST know when you are going to Russia or Ukraine"
durak's short list for men visiting Ukraine:
ya nee BON-kuh-mot -- I am not a cash machine (stressed syllable rhymes with dawn)
ti chew-DOUGH-veesh-che -- you are a monster (stressed syllable rhymes with slow)
puh-muh-GEE-tye! -- help! (stressed syllable has hard G sound)
E-tuh SLEESH-kom DOUGH-ruh-guh -- it's too expensive
ee-DEEK CHYORE-too -- go to hell (stressed syllable in 2nd word rhymes with more)
ni hoo-YA se-BYEH -- WTF is that
peez-DYETS -- it's crap / it's great
pruh-SHY! -- bye forever! (stressed syllable rhymes with eye)
noo NAH-duh zhye? -- is this really necessary?
ha-CHYOO vyer-NOO-tsyah duh-MOY -- I want to return home
BON-duh -- gangsters
vore -- thief
KREE-shuh -- a deal you make to pay gangsters, to protect you from other criminals
oo-kra-EE-na -- a great place to get robbed
(With apologies to Marina: I love you. I'm just a little burned out with your country.)
Phrases that were listed above by Durak are not readable, they are far from real Russian words (incorrect pronunciation and definitions). Besides, they are rude and usually used by uneducated people of low class.
durak, two of your phrases are very rude and can't be used with someone polite :))))
i'm talking about: pizdets and nee hooya sebe :))) if you say this to a normal girl you'll have a big problem, if you'll say this to some freak he can hurt you... so don't use them :))) it's like we met this girl and the F word was used like in every sentence by her... what impression can she make on smbd using it?
it's too hard to not scam a guy who wants to get scammed, if a girl has her own principles she won't do that, if she has only her needs she will... i was raised by my parents as a giver not as a receiver so i can't do that... too stupid to take money for nothing :))))
I have a public question... if I am under 30, white (Australian), relatively wealthy (compared to Ukrainian men!) and serious about meeting a lady who can be my best friend and lover should I even bother to visit Ukraine and try to meet someone? If they are students will they always expect presents? Will they always rush into marriage to get financial security? Will they try and live off of my money instead of having their own career?
A little life experience -- I met a woman in her late 30s (via a dating website) who said "pizdets" during our meeting, but only once :)
She was on the "earthy" side; while we were walking in a large park (outside of town), she produced a small roll of tualetnaya bumaga from her handbag, and went off into the woods to "take care of some business", explaining (in English) that it was "Rawshyen Seestem".
She worked as a migration official for the Russian government.
there are a lot of different women in Ukraine just like in any country. Some of them are serious. Every woman wants to build her own family, to have children, home with the man she loves. It's normal.
But of course, there are other girls. The ones who want to make money.
So if you are going to visit Ukraine, it's very important to have general knowledge about this country, about culture, mentality and prices to be able to understand if you are lied to.
When you court a girl, it's accustomed to give her flowers, sweets and some small presents. We have even a name for this dating period, "candy-flowers" period. But you need to know how to distinguish normal woman's behavior from a scammer's work. Scammers have some special technique and methods.
durak, so what? I say bad words also, mostly at work. And i also can pee in the bushes, but that doesn't mean that a guy who i am with should say thees words...
Moya,,, no guy wants to get scammed and I’ve never heard any guy say so. Sometimes a guy will let a girl scam or con them for something small,,, like dinner, just to see if she would do it. Then there’s guys who just let them,,,, because they don’t want to make waves,,, don’t want to cause a disturbance.
“if a girl has her own principles she won't do that”
That’s what I believe too,,,,, but it seems impossible to find.
Do you,, or have you ever belonged to a marriage agency???