Is it fair to us to have to pay to video chat with these women? We already pay a membership fee..... I may cancel just because of this issue. Kinda seems its more about them making money any way they can than for us to meet a woman and get to know her. Any thought?
You are correct! Just ask for their Skype # or ask for their cellphone #. Unlike the USA they don't get charge for incoming calls...and now you know if she is serious! If they give you excuses move on, she is not available.
in the end it is your choice to use such or not.
one shouldnt rely on any agency scheme for something special.
use it to get yourself motivated in visiting the place maybe, then make your mind up on how you will do this search once home after taking real steps .
never think you have started this search positively until you have been there and tasted their muddy waters.
you will loose loose basing any search on agency moneymaking schemes that they conveniently provide you.
its the time spent over there amongst real people that will give you the tools to figure out whats best for your search.
until then you are really wasting money on your computer, very little is what it seems.
they are of cause a good motivator in getting you there,,, just use it for that, dont take anything personal from it, just learn their game and maybe move onto none agency sites.
most of the internet stuff involving agencys is a scam one way or the other.
theres a lot to take in really if one hasnt been over there to see how they manipulate it.
sum sites that entice men in make a big deal that they dont charge per letter but for curtain they charge per phone call or video chat making them as bad as all the others
Do you think a free version of AnastasiaWeb or Elenas Models would succeed? DateInAsia.com is big in Asia and doesn't seem to have as many scammers. What if I built a full service site that is supported by ads? Sort of like a FSU & Foreign Men POF.com. Worth a try?
Wtf that would be great! To late for me though:) Honestly I used every major service out there, from Elena to Anastasia and several others. Wasted a LOT of time and money before I came here. What is a 6 month membership? $200? $250? I honestly don't recall. Why? Because its better than free! If the membership will break you why are you here? A fee eliminates the insincere. Imagine a free service. Every guy, married, freak, insincere loser would be on there. Honestly I would prefer thinking the women are the scammers than them thinking we were. Imagine the results it would have to the sincere fsu women?
This video chat matter...I was corresponding earlier this year with three women on this site. Each one of them wrote regularly. After several months, I began to have thoughts of meeting one or more of them. I invited each of them to talk with me on this site on camera..a video chat. All three very politely turned me down. Yet all three continued to write. I have not experienced any reluctance before of any women not wanting to talk on Skype. I used another approach and had flowers sent to two of them. I received two photographs of each woman receiving the flowers. I would say that both of them were using photos on the site that were at least 10 years old and 20 pounds lighter. No wonder they didn't want to be seen on camera. My photos are within the last three years and anyone I correspond with I send new photos taken within the last week or two. I think it is a good idea to talk to some women either on this site or Skype, so you can see the current reality, just as they see us.
This video chat matter...I was corresponding earlier this year with three women on this site. Each one of them wrote regularly. After several months, I began to have thoughts of meeting one or more of them. I invited each of them to talk with me on this site on camera..a video chat. All three very politely turned me down. Yet all three continued to write. I have not experienced any reluctance before of any women not wanting to talk on Skype. I used another approach and had flowers sent to two of them. I received two photographs of each woman receiving the flowers. I would say that both of them were using photos on the site that were at least 10 years old and 20 pounds lighter. No wonder they didn't want to be seen on camera. My photos are within the last three years and anyone I correspond with I send new photos taken within the last week or two. I think it is a good idea to talk to some women either on this site or Skype, so you can see the current reality, just as they see us.
Scorpio,, too many men are lured into a false sense of security, because this site doesn’t charge “PPL” and only has a membership. The main goal of every girl and every agency, is to get the men to their city.
I believe almost every profile on the websites, has a real living and breathing woman behind it,,, but they may not know anything that is going on with their profile,,, how many men are being written to,,, what promises are being made on their behalf, etc.
Any time they resist being seen,,, or heard,,, something that can determine their authenticity,,, it is a red flag!
LonelyRanger, I agree with you. I did stop writing to these three women, believing that something wasn't right. Here's one for you: I wrote to one woman, attractive but not a stunner, who wrote she was interested but was not going to correspond with me. She told me that if I was really interested in her, then come to Ukraine. I told her, "Sure, no problem. I'll come." I was just pulling her chain. I had no intention of agreeing to such unreasonable "terms." But can you imagine it? A woman wants me to come all the way from California to Ukraine just to MEET her? The arrogance, the audacity, of someone like that is unbelievable.
wow! I agree with LR1701 on something!
If a girl wont let you see her via video, especially if it is readily available to you and her, then move on.
There are plenty of others who will and not every girl is a scammer. many are quite sincere.