Why is it that it's impossible to argue with their logic? I'm sure all you guys have experienced it at one time or another. I for one have all but given up trying to express my reasoning and just say "okay dear" and drop it. Case in point: She still mops the floors with rags. Why not get a mop? " I can see the dirty spots better" or " why did you use the expensive knife, as a screwdriver or get a driver from the shed?" "I just cleaned house and didn't want to bring in stranger dirt (huh?) and the cheap knifes bend too easy." The dishwasher is used for pots and pans storage "Where else to put? No room." I give up. She wins again.
LOL ... who knows! I chalk it up to culture, habits, taught that way, it's how they like to do it ... etc. My wife has changed a little, she'll use a Swifer mop but still won't use a dishwasher.
yeah its funny, sometimes it grinds ya when you need to cook and one finds they have actually lost any sense to their kitchen.
the good old mop is said to be far to dirty for doing its job, new or used,,, always have rags at the ready or another fav shirt will be lost.
how can you not laugh when she stands at the door asking whats this,,,,, my poor asparagus plant of 3 years she holds up in its full glory,,,, she found it in my garden down under where she was sneaking in her plants.
one could of called for me to "MY" garden where "I" grow "MY" veges to ask is this important, but no instead of disrupting my cup of tea it came to me.
My Irina replanted a “Bleeding Heart” plant that is well over 100 years old,,, perhaps 150. I almost fell over when I saw it uprooted.
Then there was the fine china,, everything was moved into the north porch during the remodeling,,,,, so the entire house needed to be restored. This would have been done before she arrived,,, but she came 2 to 3 weeks early! I saw her carry a stack of dishes on top of the large serving plate,,,,, by one hand!!
My Irina used a mop,,, but didn’t put any cleaner in the water???
Whose fault is it that you don't choose smart women?
The most great this: THEIR logic. You were married to all FSU women? Or do you judge your particular wife?
By the way, if you ask her (them) about you,she also remember a lot of funny moments, calling your foreign logic as obtuse
Ves,, we have 4 men sharing their personal stories about FSU women with odd habits,,, and you think this is the men’s fault??
If I moved to her home in Russia,,,, and one day decided to paint the rooms a different color,,, or reorganize the furniture, or cut down trees I didn’t like,,,, without asking her,, don’t you think she would be upset??
It was the not asking part that bothered me a little,,, but we both had a lot to do when arriving home, as we were both moving into a new home and I had a lot of work to do. I was happy that she took "some" things on herself.
Well, let’s start by questioning the LOGIC of a WESTERN MAN, investing time and money talking to pretty pictures online, embarking on traveling thousands of miles, keeping up with different time zones to find unforeseen relationship probabilities with a FSU WOMAN who is out his league and can barely understand his language and culture. Well "insufficient facts always invite danger." -- Spock, (Space Seed, Stardate 3141.9) but, for those in pursuit of LOVE, “fortune favors the strong”.
ohh yeah, their fiery nature of forgetting its humour when relating events.
specially if one puts a Russian theme to it.
wifey is ok,,,, but don't say my "Russian" wife or my Russian girl.
seems humour is not allowed to be stereotyped.
and reverse psychology is a no no,,,,,,,, that one will put you in serious sh!t street...
Dishwasher
Microwave
Vacuum Cleaner (actually do have one somewhere but only used in my shed :-)
Can opener - yes but gets rusty between uses
Take away meals - total 100% Nyet
Buying plants when own gathered seeds do the same for free - yes she has a veg garden we live off
Cloths drier
Dry Cleaners go hungry totally
Doctors also go 99% hungry
No f~~cking nail manicure visits or sun bed visits or foot massage BS etc etc
Vets get the big - "bugger off you thieving r-soles"
Nothing bought in "China's export heaven NZ" if it can be brought over from East Europe @ 5x the quality usually @ 5x less cost
Well Mr. Rat,,,,, were you trying to make the point, that your wife is economical or frugal and not just weird??
If not,, then maybe it’s that the two of you are living like peasants, trapped in the 1950’s??
Should we start a collection for both of you??
Having your own garden is great, canning veggies is also great,,, but the other stuff??
No vacuum cleaner??
No dry cleaners?? 400 to 800 dollar suits and leather jackets ruined in the bathtub?? My favorite pillow was ruined in a washing machine,,,,, I told her not to,, but she showed me the tag,,, machine washable,,,,,, do I have to tell anyone how it turned out???
No doctors??? Did the local witch doctor give you a dead bat to hang around your neck??
Well, let’s start by questioning the LOGIC of a WESTERN MAN, investing time and money talking to pretty pictures online, embarking on traveling thousands of miles, keeping up with different time zones to find unforeseen relationship probabilities with a FSU WOMAN who is out his league and can barely understand his language and culture
You know what? This sounds perfectly wonderful to me. An opportunity to smile over simple things that an American woman would just expect. These see all heart warming stories that i can't wait to experience for myself. I do think that the average poster here has probably been screwed over in his travels and sounds some what bitter here. I admit that in 5 trips i was ripped of for a total of about $225. All minor things that added up over time. As i posted earlier tonight I gave a woman $300 to off set the time she mused from work and she gave me $200 back. If she would have kept it all, some guys would have thought they were ripped of. Its the wrong pov however. I would have seen it a the best opportunity i ever had. What is $300 compared to a life time of expenses? Not even pocket change. Honestly i think some of you should either relax about spending money out stop looking in the fsu for a woman. I am far from rich, but there is no doubt that this is not a poor mans game. It took a few tries to get this right but i found the woman who is "way out of my league" kaiser, and the whole thing worked just like it was supposed to. AndVesnovka I'm sure i will laugh at some of the things she does....and I'm sure she will laugh at some odd the things i do but i know in my heart she is a far far better woman than i would ever meet in the US and the laughter will be just that, from happiness.
We hear of Vesnovska's logic a lot in this forum, particularly from the women. You invested and therefore, it is your fault. Scamming are lies to get you to invest. I wonder if this is the logic of the scammer. I will lie to you, you invest, and therefore it is your fault.
Thx Ves for the video … I had close call while driving in UA too…but driving on the wrong side (left) on my right hand drive car in the UK is …un-logical, but do it able. like any relationship here or long distance.