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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > new to the game Author Post IceChaos Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/19/2004 9:41:02 PM   i hate appearing like an idiot but just how legit is this site? i mean i have emailed some women on here and the respones i have gotten sound like a rubber stamped reply. i even wrote one women with a trick question to see if she had actually read my letter and once again her reply made me question if she had even read the letter or for that matter if she even exist. dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/19/2004 11:27:26 PM   > how legit is this site? I joined in Jan. and haven't had a problem with "this site". If anything, support has been quick and informative, requests for extras such as photos with gifts have been processed satisfactorily too. :) > and the respones i have gotten sound like a rubber stamped reply Did you send them each personalised emails or use a template yourself? I think almost everyone bar a few exceptions is probably in the habit initially of just sending out pre-prepared letters, especially in reply from agency based girls and where the quanitity of emails sent or received is great. It's really just a prelimary - did you like me? If so, write some more at which point you may also get a fairly "rubber stamp" reply. > made me question if she had even read the letter maybe, maybe not. > or for that matter if she even exist If there's a photo, she must exist somewhere :) It's probably quite easy to become dispondant quite quickly; I mailed over 100 girls in the first 2 weeks with a high return rate but mostly rubbish narrowing down to about a dozen "real girls" after several letters some of which were false leads for one reason or another. When and if you manage to find a connection with someone both ways, the quality of the letters will change dramatically making no doubt that they are real. There are also verification options available such as address and photographs if you do get "involved" but have doubts to their authenticty. good luck gladiatorUK Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 8:51:46 AM   Ice Chaos: using the net and sites like Fiance.Com will always bring a lot of questions to mind,simply because of the nature of the internet.It's almost impossible to give a cast iron guarantee that all is well.But I am sure if you take a little time for things to develop in exchanging letters then as Del says above you will find that the quality of the responses will improve dramatically. We all use "form" letters to begin with simply because of the amount of mailing that you need to do at the start.And once you are under way then you can begin to tailor your questions to weed out the real girls from the gold-diggers. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 12:30:48 PM   Ice: Do the "kid in a candy shop" thing, we all do it at first :o)) Then narrow it down to a handfull of good prospects and in a short time it will naturally wither down to one, it happens mate, trust us :o)) Over a few weeks one out of many will shine through for you, her answers will be thorough and good, she will ask you lots of interesting questions and a rapore will form, You will know when it happens :o)) Good luck, and if you need us for advice or just to have a giggle with , just close your eyes trun round 3 times and whisper the magic words, click you heels together (I recommend wearing shoes to do this as doing it barefoot doeant make a noise and hurts like hell !!! ) and we will be there :o)) Failing that you can always post your queries here ;o))) IceChaos Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 1:59:27 PM   i thank everyone on here for responding to my stupid questions: nothing ventured nothing gained as they say. it is just every damn relationship that i've been in, not that i have been in that many, slow learner, and about twenty years late, they the woman have stabbed me in the back. just happened three months ago when my mistress stabbed me in the back. yeah i know you shouldnt play with fire. i only got singed but man i could have been burnt to a cinder. just venting. icechaos TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 2:47:04 PM   Ice: Your questions are Not stupid mate, they are the same questions everyone who starts out on this quest asks, if they at least half a brain that is !! The stupid ones are the men who Don't asked the questions and blunder ahead making mistake after mistake, and then blame the girls, the net, or some agency or other for scamming them !!! You ask any question you need to ask mate, and at least in this forum you will get honest answers and sound advice :o)) And if you ask Glad questions you will get your answers in Scouse ;o)))) Its very cool :o)) Tim tc Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 6:05:52 PM   This site is legit !!!!! Joined 6 weeks ago , met my future wife right away, planing a life in the US together now. Hang in there.. T TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 6:36:27 PM   If I die ( and I do mean If because if it can in any way be avoided it will be !! ) I want to come back as a Spider !!! Why ? Because there are a damn sight more of them than there are of us, and one day someone is going to tell them !!! You only get one life LIVE IT !!!!! Wherever it takes You !!! dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 6:53:53 PM   carpe diem gladiatorUK Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 7:55:55 PM   Ice: no problem in asking,best way to learn I've found...:)) and as has been mentioned you WILL get answers,even if some them are in the local dialect (thank you Tim)..:)) TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 11:19:33 PM   I fully intend to live for- ever Or die in the attempt !!!! And on that cheery note, I bid you goonight "*crash* *bang* *smash* umpfh !!!" :o))) TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/20/2004 11:20:05 PM   Cease the Del' !!! ;o)) TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 6:40:37 AM   Owwww my head :o//// Whats good for a hangover ? Drinking heavilly the night before ;o)) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 9:14:47 AM   I had a great 3hr call last night that she insisted half way through we had to change subjects otherwise my poor heart would not be able to take it if she was on full tilt, so as much as I know I am going to live forever, last night I could have died the 2nd best way possible - some girls are REAL! ;) If you don't hear from me after a few days unexpectedly then I am lkely in the hospital, coronary dept. @ 35 after another marathon session. dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 12:32:20 PM   What's the best thing for a hangover? - Well; it has to be hair of the dog! What's the best thing after a loving phone call? - A cold shower. :-( lol IceChaos Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 4:53:47 PM   let's see how should i word this: I am sure that alot of you guys on here a very successful: money, cars, houses, professionals. i on the other hand am driving an 18 year old car, dont have a house, living with my sister at the moment and my bank account is sucking air. it seems to me that 'we' are all looking at the same girls; ie the ones that look really hot. maybe i am just shallow but it seems that one should be looking at the ones that would rate about a 5 on the hot scale while of course taking into consideration other factors like education, children, english ability etc. i suppose i am just curious about what is the level of competition that i have to deal with from guys on this sight. ice TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 6:34:27 PM   Ice: No one is in "competition" with you mate !!! For myself, I only have one lady who I write to, and who very soon I shall visit and I'm the only guy she is writing to, so I Know I'm not writing to any of yours :o) My lady (Natasha) to me gorgeous, but one mans meat is another mans poison !! She doesn't have big boobs (shes a flat as an ironing board as it happens !!) and she doesn't have what many men would call a shapely figure, but she has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen and to me she is a 10, to others she might only be a 5 or others might not even look at her twice, but to me she is a Goddess. We don't all go for the same women, any more than women all go for the same man !! Relax mate, you will find your lady, and no one here will have a chance to take her from you or beat you to her, because she is for you, and she will know that in her heart. It wont matter if you have a car, a house or a dollar to your name, love cant be bought, and thats what you must focus on and stop worrying about what you don't have, but show these ladies what you Do have, your personality, your charm, maybe your wit and your ability to make a woman happy spiritually as well as in other ways. One tip I will give you, and this is totally free and with my best wishes, Avoid any woman on this site who has been here over 12 months (Unless in that time she has not had more than a few letters and is with an agency, then you can pretty much bet she has just been overlooked and would love to hear from you) if they have been here that long, looking as good as they do, and having received up to 200 letters there is a rat to be smelled !!!! And even more so if they have "private email" Many of the scammers hook victims this way, they get a letter or two through the site then all the letters go private through her own email, after which no-one knows how many men she is writing to or are writing to her directly. Or even if its an agency taking translation fees and whatever money from you for a girl who doesn't even know you write to her !!! Or of course the scam where the girl is real and gets a cut of what you send, but the agency do all the writing ( Ive posted about this scam in the past few days, I'm sure you will find it ;o)) ) And stay away from the "wow girls" they are just a total waste of time !! Unless you want to be number 235 ? !!! Finally be very careful of any woman who writes to you first, especially if they have "private" email, for exactly the reasons I have given above !! If a girl is genuine and really wants to meet a good man she will wait and hope one will write to her, FSU women are Very proud, they don't need to chase men !!! 90% would Never consider writing to a man first, unless the womans intentions were to solicit money !! So write to the ones you like with these rules in mind and eventually you Will find "the one", I'm certain of it !!! But in the mean time take solace in this fact: I am Sure you wont be scammed because you cannot afford to send money which might not be to a genuine recipient, so you wont send it, which makes you the safest one of all of us mate, so how about them onions :o))) I hope now you feel better about your circumstances ? Because you Should you lucky bugger !!! ;o))) Tim TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 6:39:52 PM   NB: Any woman who is with an agency, and has had 100`s of letters is also suspect ! Somone must be paying for the translation of all her mails, both to her and from her, and you can pretty much bet it Wont be her !!! So has she got money coming in from many men ? Is it an agency who is taking money the same way, be wary but dont let it spoil your fun :o)) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 7:10:43 PM   Well said Tim although your Natasha sounds just like mine. lol. only kidding, I have fallen for an Olya and there isn't one girl ("competition", can work both ways) on the whole site that comes close to her. Materialism matters not in true love. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 3/21/2004 9:07:36 PM   Another thing to think about: I'm not sure what the exact head count of men (payed members) using fiance.com is (maybe Olga could give us a ball park figure ?) but for all these men much less than 20% .. Yes 20% will ever actually meet face to face with any girl they write to !!! And it is likely that less than 30% of that 20% will result in a continuing relationship which will end in a marriage. Given these odds is it any wonder that a huge number of girls actually give up the search ? Far more of the ladies on this site will get disheartened and quit than the number of men who use it will. Given these statistics Ice, if you are serious and really will follow through your intentions to find a bride from the FSU, then it is certain, no matter how long it takes, that you Will find "the one" eventually :o)) Now go get her mate !! And smile :o)) Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > new to the game
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