I have a friend he joined a cam site.
He got chatting to a russian girl she liked him and gave her skype address.
They started chatting every day and got to know each other.
He talked to her sister and mother and uncle i think on Skype.
She decided to come and visit him. She paid for flights visa everything. At xmas she sent some very hot professionally done pictures as a present. she has been working on the cam site to ge money for her schooling.
Arrives in Australia and says to him here take my money and cards and my passport keep it until i leave, to show him she was genuine.
She lives with her sister but says her mother and father wont give her money because her sister already gets some. Dad works for Russian government and she doesn't know what he does all very hush hush. Mum runs a boat building business. Uncle apparently used to be in the Russian mafia
She is studying a science degree and is from a town in Siberia.
She has been willing to introduce him over skype to her family and has never asked him for any money.
She has suggested he go to Russia and visit and meet her family.
It sounds too good to be true.
I can only think of the long con where someone is sucked in over time and then taken. but i cannot for the life of me think what the payoff would be?
He is young 18 he has a bit of cash put away from a windfall but hasnt told her about this so it seems hard to believe it is a scam or con. she is young too around the same age. she said she was doing the cam work as it was hard to find work in russia.
I have advised him to be ware. Can any one give me some advice for him as im a little worried heis gonna get more than he bargained for.
I would like it to be what it looks like at face value.
BTW it really is a friend we are talking about here :) Im 45 not so naive.
Awe,,,, to be young again, no assets or anything of substance to loose or be suspicious of. All they can do is waste their youth doing that which those of use that are more seasoned understand are wasted on the young. I only wish that the Iron Curtain was gone for me at that age. To have the desire of a young man in the company of a young woman with hope of a better life, rather than what many of us had,,, a young woman that that was owed more than was humanly possible and holding a grudge for what her father didn't provide for..... I am not sure,,, I am have a bad day or just more lucid than usual.
Rt,, I find it hard to be positive too. All I am searching for, is a simple, down to earth girl that I am attracted to. Is that really expecting too much??
EZ,,, your friend’s girl earns a living lying to men on the chat!! Nuff said!!
EZ I think the only angle I see for this is a citizenship into Australia for the young girl. you only need 12 months here. and you get a residences visa then after that a citizenship. then she could run off with anyone with that piece of paper in hand.
I know 1 Russian women here who has a American citizenship.she is now going for an Australia citizenship in August to get access to free hospitals and a pension.
most of the Russian are just setting up bases, to bring other family and friends out so they need a foot in the front door to get started.
America and Canada all ready have large number there. so most FSU women do not need to find an old men now to get into these countries. they would out date a young guy in that country if he had either looks or money. if not they can date their own FSU men who are all ready there working.
This is an unusual one. So does your girl, I mean your friend's girl work doing sex by webcam? as I do not see anyh other way you can mak money by sitting in front of a camera.
hey Easy, love the story, really theres no answer to your question but time.
the older we get we do tend to look for these so called angles, and more often the paranoid end up creating them.
mind you i know of a guy over here as i have mentioned before that come home from work one day to find a big black car in the drive and these leather jacketed dudes that had come to escort this girl back to russia.
she had also paid her way as you said and decided to stay to be as far away from her family as she could.
her credit card usage gave her family the needed direction to down under.
daddy had his own ideas for her it seems, not some cheap kiwi with his bad taste in clothes and basic house on the quarter acre section in gods own lands of under.
the father, seemed one of them interesting types who wanted his little girl married at home to some 'good' russian guy to bear a thousand kids for the future family.
so who knows.
what i find intriguing,,
18 years old, free and so called easy by the eyes of our immigration departments.
they who have their own ideas of whom they will let in from any a third world country.
i have to ask has Aussie changed its stance on hungry Russian Ukrainian 18 year old single girls on visiting visa's now?
and theres her job, a chat girl,, our russian KGB want-a-be's that are employed in my embassy would have had a field day with her visa application.
of cause most of it would have been full of bull but the extra involvement of whom helped her in i would be more interested in.
on the face of it she wouldnt have had a sh*t show getting into NZ without some good clout or help from what you described so how did she do it?
maybe Aussie is a changing?
not that its a big deal but its the not knowing of the little things (or really is it) that gives thought.
I don't think it's about the Money here. she payed her own way to Australia which is not cheap. the only other angle is Citizenship in Australia. it only takes 12 months here to get residence then other 3 year for full citizenship.
I know a Russian lady here that came out on a American passport only to live here for 3 years to become a full Australian citizen in coming August. she was telling me that you get a pension and free medical once your a citizen here which is true.
they all tell me the same story. they want a better life so they look abroad to Australia.Canada and America. most young FSU women will only date a young guy and if looking for money and older guy.
time will only tell for him. he might get a broken heart from this.
Just because she is a cam girl, doesn’t automatically mean she’s doing nude webcam. On Aweb, girls can have regular chat and/or video webcam chat. It’s been a while since I’ve chatted and then only a little, but I think it was a buck per minute for reg chat and 2 for video. How much the girl receives is unknown.
All the girl needs to do is keep the guy(s) interested and online. It could be simple conversation, or erotic sex cam,,, but if a guy is actually interested in the girl,,, she’ll need to know how to lie! So I guess whatever they are willing to do.
I’ve found a girl that I knew on Aweb, doing a nude webcam,,, the type with the laptop laying on the bed,,,, it’s really sad to see that!
I agree completely.
"All the girl needs to do is keep the guy(s) interested and online. It could be simple conversation, or erotic sex cam,,, but if a guy is actually interested in the girl,,, she’ll need to know how to lie! So I guess whatever they are willing to do."
I am sure that there is not only cimple conversation but erotix most mostly sex chat. Why? Could you imagine what young lady should do to earn the money for the tickets to Australia??? ))) If I were your friend I'd care only about this issue.