Just wondering what you all think about the Russian women with children?
Seeing as I have my young children at home, I am primary writing to women with kids of their own. I figure a gal with her own would make a better mother for mine.
It would seem that a lady with kids of her own would have more motivation to make a new relationship work, and not be as apt to opt out when she resettled in her new country (i.e w/ me in the U.S.)
I also read in one of the anti-scammer sites, that a woman with a child above 5 (I think this was the age) is highly unlikely to be a scam-girl.
There are a lot of lovely ladies listed with kids! I have been corresponding with some (as well as a couple w/out). Anyone have any experience or have any knowledge with Russian women and their kids and how they are in marriage or in relationship with us U.S./U.K. guys
"I also read in one of the anti-scammer sites, that a woman with a child above 5 (I think this was the age) is highly unlikely to be a scam-girl."
Dont belive one word of that bullsh*t !!
I know 2 in lugansk alone that are scammers, one call Yana Anisimova, and her dear friend Tatyana Grieko (I think thats the mearest to her surname in english) both have kids over 5 years old and bot have been at the scam trade for well over 18 months.
Children does Not make anything any safer or any more certain, and come to think of it, whats to say these girls dont really have children at all ?
They may be using the lie that they have children to assist getting cash from men without any intent to ever meet any man :o))
Well if that little lot didnt get your paranoia valve pumping nothing will ;o)))
I have a seriously soft spot for a woman with a child. In no way does a woman having a child deter me from starting a relationship with her if I believe she is right for me and vice versa - the rest should just fall into place naturally. It probably does bring a different perspective and priority in their life but as with anything, there are no guarantees or classifications that allow all single mothers to be sterotyped.
Until about a year ago, I probably had the mental attitude of avoiding a woman with children but having experienced it, it does have a lot of benefits. The kids can actually add to a more diverse and interesting relationship. I've never had a problem with kids, the problem is more often or not the mother, whether she's a mother or not, it boils down to the woman herself than any children. I'm just a big kid myself so it's nice to have that release during the day, saving the adult 'release' for night-time ;)
I read that it is difficult to get the child out of the country. The father of the child has to basically sign the rights to his child away. The men are very reluctant to do that, and most likely you must literally pay them off to get them to do that. Now I don't know if its correct, because I read it. That was the main reason I didn't look for a lady with a child. Maybe Olga can weigh in on this and clear it up for us..
No need Crash, yes mate you have the correct information.
Foe a Russian woman to bring her child away from there she must obtain without duress the fathers express written permission to do so.
If they dont have contact with the child any more as many dont it shouldnt be too hard to get him to agree, but is likely to cost you a couple of thou $s`
If however the father still takes an active roll and wants access to his child he may never sign the papers no matter what you offer.
In general though, many absent afthers there are exactly that, "absent" and if they cant be found to be "bought off" I believe there is a legal process which can negate need of his signing anything.
Cant get him to sign it of you cant find him now can you ? ;o)))
from exeperience, abd one, stay away. I get letters from girls with children all the time. Mostly, not always, these girls are looking for a better life for themselfs and there child. While in russia I meet about 4 women with children and they all were keen to go with anyone it seemed. The girls I meet without children all seemed keen to get to know you more and some even said staight up that they were not interested. Seems to me they were looking for something reel and mothers were looking for a ticket. Do not beat me up about my oppinion as I have already said that this is not 100% but I learned the hard way.
I am at that, but as they say, what does not kill you will only make you stonger. I will go back but maybe to Kiev for a look. this time, older wiser and a little more sinicle before I agree to anything
Damn it Tim......ssshhhheeessshhhh....one at a time????
How utterly boring!!!!
I'm slowly but surely building a 4-5 harem of FSU women team to come live with me in California......;)
Considering the pandemic speed at which same sex marriages are being performed in the States, I figure Poligamy is next in the quirky things to legalize.
But......the thought of having more than one mother-in-law scares the fecal matter out of me...BBBRRRRR!!!!!!
Not if Bush has his way mate, he is trying to Ban gay marriage as its Un Texan ;o)) All boys together ;o))
And they all have the same bad attitudes too Tony !!
Gorgeous, but shit Don't they know it !!!!
But what they fail to realise is that because of their attitudes now by the time they are 35 and want to settle down with a man and have children, no man wants anything to do with them because of the shit they have dished out to that point !!
<~~~~~~~~~~~Lives in Southern California, land of the eternal spring weather and perfectly enhanced boobies. Eat your hearts out, lol.....:)
Beautiful women from eastern Europe do not stick out like sore thumbs here (unless they insist in keeping their armpits as if they had Don King in a headlock.)
Tall California blondes still grow on trees around here.
Too bad we're running out of trees...tsk tsk tsk....
What's with this guy RUUSS? did somebody give him a liter of bad vodka?