...by chance I was doing some online research today and stumbled across a perculiar fact that the young woman I have fallen for, shares the same home address as two women previously published at http://www.getfree.org/date/. I'm not going to publish details publically (ask for private details) other than the two women's first names where Lena and Inna both residing at the same address apparently through the same period in 2002. Whilst they (or the same person) have more than likely moved on, it seemed co-incidently that both should have the same mailing address at the same time and furthermore that my girl now is at the same address!
I've sent fiance.com a support request and will raise the co-incidence in a letter to my girl this week. It's probably nothing more than co-incidence as I've sent her flowers, got a photo and know she is there.
I'm fine. The profiles were posted in the first part of 2002 so at the very least, the appt. has a 'dodgy' history but then that can happen with any property. I'll find out when she moved there and if she knows anything about it. She's an absolutely cracker with a great personality and this has been the only (dated) alarm bell I've had to date. I'll be calling her tonight but it's a tricky one to explain verbally maybe better by letter.
I'm stepping back until I get a written a reply/explanation on this one having sent a letter tonight to her so will likely get something by Friday. The fact that this was two years ago helps but it doesn't help that the address was used to give three aliases of different women at the same time. If she moved there at a later date which I am assuming for now, that's okay. As with anything that may cause concern, ask direct questions.
I've had the address confirmed as the agencies than hers which explains why multiple girls were listed at the same address. However, I'm not happy that the girl has led me to believe that this was "her" address. I've had gifts sent to "agency" addresses to verify the address of the girl, which in essence hasn't been verified. It raised my suspicion yesterday when I discovered that offices resided in the same building which isn't common (here) for a resident building.
I'll wait for her reply and explanation but I am the sort of person where if I believe you've lied to me...I'm gone.
It's also apparently not allowed for partner agencies to list girls at the same address. Clearly the Agency are creating some confusion and cnocealment. I wonder now if some the content in my letters is being removed or hers modified in reply. The only way to clear this up will be via the telephone directly to her bypassing the middle-man.
My suggestion is to send her a letter via reliable mailing services like FedEx or DHL and if your lady does not live there the letter will be returned.
However I hope that everything will be fine and your lady really lives at this address.
Just call her directly and talk to her. If she wants to give you her address no agencies can prohibit to do this. As for this agency-we'll call their office today and find out whats going on. This thing about listing a lady with her real private address is clearly stated in our contract with those people.
Also I do not beleive that your letters ( or her letters were edted).Most probably the lady had reasons not to give her address( and thats happens a lot) and prefferes to use agency's address.
Thanks Olga for chasing up the Agency, who I should have guessed immediately were the "other" address; whatever the reasons are it's nice to be told that there is a reason than "be lead to believe" something else. It's not like me to have overlooked that possibility which now makes sense and I'll wait for her reply, making a decision upon that.
I have a reply already - which seems WAY TOO QUICK - from her. She's upset as her agency have asked about the confusion of the postal address - so clearly there's been some fast talking today from numerous parties. I'm happy enough that her home situation is far from ideal and that post can likely not be safely routed but I don't have a problem dealing with truth and reasons...it's when I feel something is not right, told something different, to find out that something is wrong that ****** me off. It's not that I don't "trust" her but clearly things have been written that are not 100% correct...so we'll talk tonight and go from there.
I guess I had better give "my" real address now, I have been using Tim's for 3 months and his credit card ;)