"#3 Even though the mailman was successful in his conquest...in my opinion... Woman and child shall not be separated for "the lure of a better life". I can be involved with women that have such disposition, deep down she is and can be truly happy because her conscience."
On one occasion I met an FSU woman who has a small child (in fact I still know her); she told me that, on meeting a Western man, she would first go to the man's country, for 1 year, and leave the child behind with her parents until she was sure that everything is fine where she was going, then she would bring the child with her.
I spoke to a cousin of mine (a very good mother of 3) and told her that she could not possibly be a good woman/mother for my children as she was prepared to leave her child behind to go to a man in the West.
But my cousin turned the thing around on me and told me that, indeed, she was a good mother as she was not prepared to risk the safety of her child. If she was convinced that taking her child to the West was the best thing for the girl, then she was following quite responsible steps to do it.
beemer18
The quote is from the Russianwomendiscussion.com forum site. I think some of the comments are several years old, but the tone still rings true today.
I do not think the forum is connected to a dating site as far as I can tell.
I was not speaking of the forum per say....the guy I know is merely a member of that forum. He is a commercial member( allowed there) with his own dating site. Only way to get the freebie is to be a member of that forum.
TomZ,,,, WS has proven you right again!! Remember when you wrote:
Send: 11/10/2014 8:28:13 AM
TomZ:
“LR - good point. WifeSeeker is nitpicking again for the sake of a confrontation. He's so insecure in himself he needs a confrontation going on at all times.
He then wrote to me:
Send: 11/11/2014 3:16:01 PM
WS:
“Any lap dog who goes after the child of a MAN he cannot defeat is a pathetic little shite”
Defeat?? Who was trying to defeat him? I only asked him a question about his daughter! He then claimed I had attacked his daughter,,, when in fact, I gave her a compliment by saying she is very smart and honest.
He then continued his attack on me, by insulting my dating profile and my search for a wife??
WS: “I imagine his profile in dating sites, that is how he cannot attract anything other than scammers:
'Crude, stupid, uneducated, mentally ill and hypocritical man looking for wife' Anyone?”
Once again, being confrontational for no reason!
I have one profile still out there,,, but I have not used it for almost 3 years,, I’ve kept it in order to help others do research for their search!
And why do other people keep saying that I am still searching?? I am not!
He then attacks you again, and basically says that your girl must be a whore??
And he calls me mentally ill and hypocritical???
11/13/2014 12:11:37 PM
WS: “You obviously haven't got children and you will never have them with that 'girlfriend' thousands of miles away. And if she gets pregnant you can be sure it is not yours.”
This all began with me asking him whether his daughter is honest or not?? Obviously,,, he must be ashamed and embarrassed of his daughter. I think she is honest and smart,,, with gifted insight for a girl so young. A credit to her mother I’m sure!
"....in my opinion... Woman and child shall not be separated for "the lure of a better life" or because her kid is in better hands with someone else. I CANNOT be involved with women that have such disposition, BECAUSE deep down she CANNOT be truly happy, because her maternal conscience/instincts."Sorry!!! Just making my comments a bit more clearly.
Gents,
There's no valid excuse for a woman to leave a kid behind, except for egotistical intentions or she is getting bad feedback from love's ones. There will be resentment / bad karma and to say more but least, $£€¥ going out your packets.
PB - I did watch 90 Day Fiancee on TLC last night. Actually 3 episodes.
Almost all, if not all the people who were sponsoring their fiancée, male or female were just being used as a ticket for immigration to their country. The family members could see it, but the person sponsoring couldn't see it due to being in love or in lust. Real stupid.
That's why I'll never do it. I'll just go to these countries and have fun with their girls. And that's what I do.
One thing the program did open my eyes to is the beauty of South American women. Maybe I'll check them out.
"If you cheat on a South American woman, she can kill you." naaa! Remember the case John Bobbitt and his wife Lorena?(1993) sooo, careful where/who you.... don't get CUT!!
In my experience Latina girls are very hot tempered and jealous.
Ukrainian girls are quite different but as has been mentioned, they will simply cheat back on you.
fact is, if you treat a ukrainian girl well she will reciprocate.
The more time I spend here the more I realize the girls arent much different than the US. Most just want a guy who will treat them well.
If they find him they are quite loyal
it is worth remembering that if you marry a Ukrainian lady and you lose your job-she will not stick by you for long.when the going gets tough Ukrainian wife will leave her man-loyalty to her man -none
sammy - that's an over generalization. Do you have some personal experience?
But I would say that if you marry a Ukrainian lady and her motivation is just better finances and to get to a better country then for her probably what you're saying is true.
Moya,,, if Sammy lives in the US, he could live quite well on welfare, food stamps, food pantries, government housing, etc. Perhaps a third of our population already does.