WS - if you believe that I'm a sex tourist then why do you keep saying that I've been trying to find a wife for 20 years?
Which is it? Sex tourist or trying to find a wife?
And by the way, getting sex is not always 'paying for it'. We all pay in different ways. Sometimes it's dinner. Sometimes it's just being with someone.
While many people have no interest in bring married, if you being your gf back to where you are from, you must marry her. Sure some people will move to a 3rd world country and live like a king for very little. However most of us have roots and loved ones and wish to remain where they come from. So the "I moved here for _________" is neither desired or available for most.
That being the case, advice for those who follow us deserve the same quality advice we got when we were just starting out.
I don't post here to get involved with squabbles between those who have been here for ever, I only come here to let those sincerely interested in finding the love of their life with a kind beautiful woman of their dreams.
To those I say don't worry about scammers, but watch for them. You can just thru letters feel a connection with others. And just looking at my wife's friends I can tell you with ZERO uncertainty that they're are millions of young beautiful ukrainian women in their early 30s that have already faced the fact they will never have a husband who would LOVE to meet a sincere caring loving man in their 50s.
As with a few others, my impression of my wife was "I've met an angel". I can honestly say I could have looked all my life and never met a woman like my wife in the USA. People can talk badly about their experiences with fsu woman but these are the facts. A lot of men will go for the first woman who will have them. Some of these type woman are the major league of scammers. They will come back, may you, and wait for 2 years. At that point they will take you for all they can, and remain in the us. Always get a prenup. Take the jackpot away from her and if she married you its not for the money.
But better than taking the first woman who will have you, find one who you can read her soul in her letters. Honestly i was in love with my wife before we met. She was the kindest sweetest woman I've ever known and it was clear just thru her several hundred letters over 5 months or so. It was not uncommon for us to exchange letters 2 or 3 times per day. Don't give up of you really want this. There are younger beautiful women WAITING to hear from you
Well, yes, I do not see what the problem is. People like TomZ want to make it a problem for others as they have failed to find happiness with an FSU lady themseleves.
The reality is that the great majority of FSU ladies looking for a Western husband want to move to the West with him and the great majority of Western men want to stay where they are. And the only way to do this is to marry the lady unless she has £250,000 to bring to his country so that they allow her to stay without getting married. Then she would not need the man in question anyhow....
TomZ lives under the illusion that he can have his cake and eat it: have a relationship with an FSU woman without her moving to him and without him going to live in her country. It is jut plain stupid of him to be giving advice to people to do what clearly will not work for people who want a real relationship.
Tom Shea...you can cut and paste some of your posts....
I think everyone has read and understood everything about you and your wife....congratulations on finding your true love....may it last forever...have kids, work around house, spend time with your wife, go make some money....
I know if I was in your shoes..... I wouldn't be here....all my time would be with the WIFEY!!!! Apparently the wifey doesn't satisfy you enough...even in lingerie your wifey cannot deter you from posting here....just my guess!!! )))
Sorry beemer, most people's posts here could be cut and pasted with the majority being negative. "I'd never pay for a woman's can fare", and you catches aren't taken? Seriously? The fact I take a ferry to work and home and some times have over an hour to kill. So much for your insight. Maybe some of those Thai girly boys can help you out. The fact is there are a bunch of negative failures here. Not all call success the same thing, but there's so many cheap bitter losers here that can't get why they are unsuccessful.
I Don't know what kind of women you date, but my wife is far too classy to be her knickers on a boat line. Is that why it didn't work out with your last one? Car hopping in her knickers on line?
Sorry beemer, most people's posts here could be cut and pasted with the majority being negative. "I'd never pay for a woman's can fare", and you catches aren't taken? Seriously? The fact I take a ferry to work and home and some times have over an hour to kill. So much for your insight. Maybe some of those Thai girly boys can help you out. The fact is there are a bunch of negative failures here. Not all call success the same thing, but there's so many cheap bitter losers here that can't get why they are unsuccessful.
I Don't know what kind of women you date, but my wife is far too classy to be her knickers on a boat line. Is that why it didn't work out with your last one? Car hopping in her knickers on line?
once you have a wife you will understand its not like everything in the world stops ... to spend all your time with the wife is impossible .no wife wants a lap dog for a husband or they would just go to the pet shop . my wife is shopping now for 2 hours getting a kids toilet seat food ect . should I be with her or relaxing on the lounge . I chose the lounge computer a coffee and some entertaining trolling . wife will meet with the girlfriends look a cloths do what girls like to do .....
if you get a wife .. which I doubt! ... whats it been 10 plus years ? and you snivel up her leg like a deprived lap dog .....it wont be to long and she will be looking for a real bloke
So I haved been looking for an FSU wife for years and failing, having two young daughters, one of them being 6, by a miracle. And have I also been vegetating in this site for years, like you, your lap dog Lonely and some of the others who have achieved nothing in relationships with FSU ladies?
Go ahead, tell your lap dog Lonely to go and do his usual job, for which he has plenty of time, digging in old postings for what people have said, I am sure I have said somewhere I got divorced in 2013.
You haven't even got children at your age, have you? Is this another thing in your playboy lifestyle you say you did not want anyway or is it simply that you failed to find someone who was willing to have a child with you?
Of course you cannot pay a prostitute to have a child with you.
Then you come here and attempt to give me advice on my children too. Really.
Look, there are the kinds of people here. 1, those who are bitter about their experience and just "know" finding an honest fsu girl is impossible.
2 those who are new, or have tried but ate still unsuccessful but haven't given up.
3 those who are married and trying to help others out.
Most people aren't any pure of the first two. But some are.
I remember my first post here. It was like "just got back from my first trip this seems easy. Merry lots of nice women. Can't wait to go back".
You negative people here gutted me. "You don't know anything", "it's not possible" "you just met scammers"... the list of bs I got was endless.
How of that 3 years later, in just two weeks, I'm having my first anaversery, while all the "experts" are still single, bitter, and continue to profess the impossibility of finding a genuine, sweet, beautiful, younger wife. Maybe it's just an attitude thing. Maybe women prefer men who aren't bitter, won't pay for a cab ride, know everyone is out to scam them....
The funny thing is one in a letter i wrote to a new woman "I've met dozens of great women in the fsu, just not the one who was meant to be mine. She was totally impressed with the fact I had nothing bad to say about the women who didn't work out. She made a huge deal about how nice I was about them. We dated many times but she wasn't right either. Now imagine I told her "yea all I meet are scammers and pro daters, all these women at agencies suck". How would that have worked.
WifeSeeker, shall we talk of my successes or of your failures?
Like the time you complained that your interpreter ordered a meal while you simultaneously paid her ‘salary’. Do you know how that made her feel?
Or the time that you blew up at the Crimean girl because she put something in your shopping basket? What was it? A girl’s magazine? Pantyhose? A girl’s item? You lost a perfectly good girl there. She could have been your wife but she didn’t want to spend the rest of her life with that.
Shall we talk of the time you invited the lady from Russia to your home in the U.K. for ‘trial living’ and that after only one week you tired of her, sending her back on a plane to Russia. She plead with you to stay a little longer because anything would be better than her life of poverty in Russia. She gave you everything that you asked for…
We could go on and on about everything you’ve done to screw up your search for a wife, the thousands you’ve spent and still nothing. The money you’ve taken away from your family budget so you can follow some cavalier dream. Don’t you have two daughters? Even they know you’re wasting your time and money pursuing a twenty something wife from the Former Soviet Union. Be a father to those two girls you have in the few years you do have left.
Don’t you see that it’s not working? Give it up for the sake of those daughters of yours. They need a father, not someone thousands of miles away chasing girls half his age that in reality he has no chance with. I hope that one of your daughters will read this forum and talk some sense into you.
And let’s not forget WifeSeeker that you didn’t want to pay the Crimean girl’s English lessons because someone else could benefit. You ordered her to seek work and pay for it herself. She probably thought to herself he’s financially tight plus he’s old so why deal with him?