God! They are provide so evasive repsonces, which litrally get on my nerves. What mor eI can let go of her and her command or the neldhgih lanugge is very good.
I dont whter I should trust / belive her in whatever she say............Are all Russian women just looking for a scape goat, so that they may travel. SAhe sounds gerat talk sense, but in a very evasive manner.......why?
God! They are provide so evasive responses, which literally gets on my nerves. What more is that I can’t let go of her as her command or the English language is very good.
I don’t know weather I should trust / believe her in whatever she say............Are all Russian women just looking for a scrape goat, so that they may travel. She sounds great talk sense, but in a very evasive in her manner.......why?
I have been talking to her on the she has called as well and spent over an hour talking? But yet SHE doesn’t want a relationship, but still willing travel. She call me up late night and talk everything under the roof but about relationships and it’s driving me crazy, what does she want, and if u think I haven’t asked her, I wish for U to think again?
Hi Calamity,
Maybe she doesn't want to commit until she meets you? Does that sound like a reasonable explanation? Anyone can play Virtual Romeo, but can they really be him?
If what your saying is that she doesn't want to pursue a relationship with you, but wants you to pick up the tab for her to jetset around the world for the pleasure of signing the cheque, well then kick her to the curb.
Am I alone in finding that the woman are not desperate to leave their country, just want to find a non Russian man and accept that they will have to live in the west when they are married. All the girls I correspond with are happy with their lives, their friends and their jobs, they just want the thing that is most inportant to them, namely a husband and a family
Almost every single one (of the honest ones that is) are exactly as you describe Trad, they want a loving caring husband and children, most of them would rather have it where their friends and family are, but they know it isnt possible as there are more than 3 women to every eligable man, and the % of those "eligable me" who are able or willing to give the woman these things dont want to bother, why would they, there is always another woman down the road if he decides to dump the one he has, my Sister always says "There are too many beautiful women here, Russian men are spoilt, and why would they have only one woman when they could have dozens?"
Just makes it so much easier for us doesnt it :o))))
it does Tim, I have been told by Russian girls, there are less men due to war in chechyna and Afghanistan(not sure the casualties were that high) and early death due to alcholism, you have to feel sorry for the girls, who mostly marry someone less educated and has such choice they get a mistress too
Hmmm, mistress... Tradman, you've opened up a whole new world to me!!
Maybe 2!! Whoa Ho!
20,000,000 Soviet deaths during/post WWII. That was about 60 years ago. On that long of a timeline that's alot of potential male offspring from the dead who in itself consisted of a much larger proportion of males to female ratio itself. Baby boomers are from returning G.I.'s so worked up from the war they used their $@%@'s as hammers... The Soviets didn't get a baby boomer generation as large comparative to the Western states.
They want families, this is true. Also the women I have been corresponding with do want carreers. These girls can really shine out in the States after a few months of learning english(or spanish for that matter-I have a few mexican patients). My qestion is how do they respond so well? I am speaking to english3's and 5's and they hve NO problem writing me back fluently. Olga help! Why is this?
no baby boom, but birth rates between boys and girls are no so disparate, I am well aware of the death toll during ww2, but chechnya and afghanistan, I don't think so
Trad......I agree that the current birthrates are no so disparate,at least according to the latest figures but I think the point here is that the ladies of an age that most of us are interesated in were part of a female/male imbalance due to war etc......and Afghanistan did take a heavy toll.
Another point to note, the age group we are interested in want to settle down and starta family, men their own age Dont !! And men of our age ther are in short supply because of WW2 and other wars before and around the time we ourselves were born.
Ask any normal Russian lady of 25 to 30 why she wants an older man from the west, answer "because here young man is no good, drinking, womanising dont want to work and older mans are not !!" (menaing there are none !!
very true Tim but sometimes difficult to envisage until you see it first hand.Each time I have been out east it has never ceased to amaze me just how many simply stunning ladies are struggling to find a worthwile partner.......if just 1% of these ladies were here (UK) or the US there would be stampedes to reach them!!!!