I reakitchend horror stories all over this site. You really cant tell if a woman likes you or she is just using you? How do you get on with american women, the biggest users of all? Are all you people here because you cant find a woman in the US? Or are you here because you cant find the woman you WANT in the US? Seriously...IF a woman doesnt wrap herself around you each time you pass her in the house. If she wont kiss you. If she doesnt take each opportunity to touch you that she can.. If she sits 2 feet away from you on the couch yet tells you she loves you, you seriously fall for that? In the 15 months I was going to Ukraine I dated (and lets just say dated means wore her out regularly most nights) 3 bar tenders, had a room mate who was a stripper, a Mexican diplomat, a New Orleans DA, and a good friend of ron jeremy. Yes, THAT ron Jeremy.
There was nothing that made any of them worth staying with. They were fun, pretty, smoking hot, many had money but they DIDNT hug me each time I passed them in the kitchen. They didnt practically sit on my lap when sitting on the couch. They didnt ask me every day how I was doing (I have a chronic bad neck from Lacrosse). They wanted to go somewhere and have fun. SO that was cool... I mean why not you only live once, but that isnt the woman you marry. You marry the woman who treats you better than she does yourself. You also want to treat her better than you treat yourself. You marry the woman you would stand up for in front of 5 thugs. You dont marry a woman for sex, companionship, for a hobby... You only marry the woman who to you is the best woman you ever met in your life. Now if you go over to look because you cant find a woman in the US, Ill gladly post some links to game theory. That is not a reason to go. You go because you are looking for a woman who is like an american woman..... 50 years ago. A sweet honest caring trustworthy beauty who only has the best interests of your family at heart. Heres the acid test. If you can close your eyes and imagine yourself in a cabin in siberia. There is a gang of terrorists circling your home and you lay wounded on the floor. Can you see her picking up an AK and giving them hell to protect you? You cant? Then move on.
Heres the acid test. If you can close your eyes and imagine yourself in a cabin in siberia. There is a gang of terrorists circling your home and you lay wounded on the floor. Can you see her picking up an AK and giving them hell to protect you? You cant? Then move on.
If I could picture in my mind this kind of thing, I would sell the script to a film studio.
About the affection, etc. yes I agree but then the argument is that this is more difficult to work out from a distance and with someone you only spend a little time with before you get married. Hence my live-in trials with ladies but that is expensive.
PLus then there is the problem of FSU girls being cold and distant at first, then you think (or hope) they will eventually show you their affection.
I guess the real acid test is the fiancee visa period. How many men will end up marrying a woman they do not really believe in, at the end of the visa period, just because they have already been looking for a wife for ages, met lots of girls, and spent a lot on the current girl, then they think "Just marry this one you are not going to start all over again"
Martin, no one wants an American woman if they know better, but it seems many men go overseas because they CAN'T find a woman in the US. If you can't find a woman here, you won't find a non scammer there either
"Are all you people here because you cant find a woman in the US?"
I got divorced while living in Europe. Unable to find a UK girl that fits my requirements. I connat comment about girls in the States till I get there.
"Why the f*ck would the rest of the world want a woman in the US?"
My cuz married an Scandinavian and planing to move back to the States with him... Maybe it's the U.S. women who cannot find a suitable man in her country...LOL.
Ok let me try that once more. 8 Forget that not everyone here gets american english.
See in English there is a difference between "you can't find a woman in the United states" and"you can't find a woman you want in the United States".
This would also imply that you lived in the United States. I know very few american women who would want to move to some 3rd world island unless it was to stay at the Hilton.
The dad fact is that the US government has done a great job at breaking up the family. They want everyone more dependent on the government so they are more easily controlled.
There are a lot of good American women,,,, and all of them have been married for years now.
And of the ones that are left over,,,,,,,,, there are many bargains to be found. Yesterday, I spent the whole day on the road, and had to catch a quick bite before returning home. I walked in,,,, and took a table on the far south side of the restaurant. There was only one other person there,,, and on the far north side. At first, I thought it was 3 women,,, then turned out to be one woman,,, 3 to 4 feet wide!! She had a rather ugly look on her face,,,, along with the rest of her body!
She sat at her table the whole time, sipping on her coffee,,, and occasionally looking over towards me. I paid no attention to her.
With just minutes of finishing my meal,,, she gets up and walks over towards me, and says with a very bitter look on her face: “ I don’t bite you know??” I reply,,, with a serious face: Then you have no chance at all!!!
Whaaaa,,,,,,, Huh,, ha ha ha,,,,, that was a good one!!
I think it is obvious that Tom Shea was referring to American men when he said:
Are all you people here because you cant find a woman in the US?
This is because most men in this forum and the ones looking for an FSU woman seem to be Americans. He could just have said: Are all you people here because you cant find a woman in the your own country?
What you describe as the women who never kiss you, sit neat you, etc. can apply to any woman, including FSU women, not just Americans. This is not linked to nationality.
My ex was exactly as the ones you describe who never ask you how your day at work was and she was not American.
I took a photo of my wife the other day on bourbon street. She, as always was dressed to kill. I took a few random snaps, but when looking at the pics i noticed something. In each photo there is a group of fat women giving her the evil eye.
"In each photo there is a group of fat women giving her the evil eye."
My guess is the term Mail Order Bride (it is actually very old) was put in wide use, in modern times, by fat American and Western European women.
Old and fat white women are getting themselves young and fit African men who want a visa. Do I call these men Mail Order Toy Boys? No, I don't care. If what they say about black men applies to all of them, then I hope these women enjoy it.
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