No mate, it wasnt, ( I dont tell lies !!) I have never been good with spelling, but I do have a high O level qualification in English language.
I can mention O levels to you because you know what they are ;o)
Its the writing of it which kinds eludes me :o))
But its never stopped me achieving goals in my life, thankfully ;o))
"speaking of anastasia, I too was overcome with the absolute beauty of many of them. But if you notice, almost all their pictures are perfect studio pics, very few natural. any woman can be made to look beautiful ('cept my first wife :=O)"
There are many top women on anastasia but you have to do some filtering though it is going to cost you some money.
"I agree Jeff, stunning women, but therein lies financial ruin, I do not want to badmouth it, but surely I have received to many e mails even though I am a handsome devil(200) now how much would that cost me to reply to?"
If you are a handsome devil search for a devilress. I mean before take a leap - you do not have to answer all of them - look carefully through womens' profiles.
I`ve just been on anastasia and checked by accident a letter i sent to a lady.. they have removed my address and e-mail from the letter..what a con. how our you ever supposed to be able to contact these girls in the latter stages of a relationship... thinking of gettin on to my credit card company and given them some s**t
I don't mind it mate, its me and I'm too old to learn now, rather concentrate on learning Russian so i can murder their spelling too :o))
Soon I will be able to miss spell fluently in 2 languages :o))
Here here Marsh !!
If you have any doubts about "any woman can be made to look good" check around your friends and family for anyone who has a "make over" photo, you will find that you hardly recognise the person !! Its really scary !
Its amazing what a slap of make up and a hair do will do for the roughest munter !!!
Thats one of the first things I asked whenever I met a new girl. Always ask for her photos in a real world scene instead of those professional fantasy shots that can make just about any female look good.
“I`ve just been on anastasia and checked by accident a letter i sent to a lady.. they have removed my address and e-mail from the letter”
“how our you ever supposed to be able to contact these girls in the latter stages of a relationship”
I am sure there are some options to obtain personal info, like phone service…otherwise it makes no sense. Try to contact them first and find out how you can communicate with a lady directly.
I got Natasha`s home address and phone number in less than 1 week of writing to her through fiance.com and her own agency, they didnt give me her email address until we quit using fiance and went direct (which isnt unfair when you consider that they would lose work by doing so, and noone in business should act stupidly !!) as soon as we went direct and I contributed to the costs it was handed over immediately and her profile removed from fiance.com, now thats how agencies should behave :o))
I have also read the information about the lawsuit against anastasia and I don’t believe it as to start a lawsuit against such a big company costs much money and takes a lot of efforts and proof… Anyway the time will show..
BTW, I was curious and found out that you Can ask for a lady’s postal address in the letter. And to learn a lady’s e-mail & tel.# you may call her through their service and ask directly.
Sorry about your first wife Jeff. My advice. Under no cercumstances pay anyone anything. Stick with this site or something else you find reputable. I was sending emails to a girl named Olga (yes, stuio photos) Some guy named Alex alphebet put a P.S. on the bottom of her lsat letter saying that I needeed to pay money to get letters translated as the membership from fiance.com did not cover it. Soory dude but its cover 12 to a girl in Kiev and another 8 to a loverly in a close city to this Olga so if I miss out on Olga, that helps me narrow my sights. I needes some help accually. Do not pay, do not pay, do not pay and most of all,do not pay.
Please also read the numerous posts I have written telling everyone that Eventually you Should pay something to help your girl, because if you don't, someone else Will !!
These girls only get the letters received by their agency inclusive in the fiance.com deal, fiance.com does Not pay the agency to translate or type and resend answers after they have also been translated, Your girl pays for that out of her own pocket, and knowing that she cannot afford it, yet still refusing to help, sucks !!
She has written 2 letters guys and don't call me tight. I have sent more money to russia than all you guys put together. All the other girls do not ask for money yet this girl does and she claims to have a very good job and a good life. They dont all live in shit guys. Free women do not excist, no such creature, I know. But I also read on this forum, I cannot remember who wrote it, that some girls ask numerous guys for money and make a living at it, remember. I have no trouble parting with a little cash but not so soon and if you read the email, it was suspect. Pay all you want guys, pay as many as you want, but showing them you money is no sure way to find her, do you think they are for sale or something. I have 2 lovelies who have writen me heaps more times and asked for nothing. Whats more they are now offering me personal details, phone number etc. Tim H. You use the word eventually. Take your own advice before you judge me.
I have written to women in the past and not sent money in the beginning, some women understand what a financial commitment it is to go there, its a massive commitment on your part and they make their commitment by sending and translating.
Some cases obviously the woman cannot afford it she is writing to alot of guys, I also agree that there comes a point where offering some financial help is a further sign of commitment, ie when you have had a level of correspondence that shows a degree of sincerity of her not sending copy/pasted replies.
Its worth bearing in mind, how much to send, often if a lady is serious she can use a friends or computer at work, or get a friend to help with translating, they can be resourseful when they want to be.
When paying, for how much correspondence? if its only a couple of letters a week, internet is about 80 cents ann hour, how long does it take to send one message? these are the sort of questions people should be asking themselves.
If a man does send 50 bucks amonth, it raises a question as to whether the lady writes because she likes you, or its financially advantageous and allowing her to spread the net wider waiting for some man to visit.
Once you've met and have a relationship, it is the norm to help out financially thats been my experience when I have met ladies there.