"I have sent more money to russia than all you guys put together."
I wouldnt bank on that mate !!!
ID, You didnt say you had only written to her twice !! Of course that too soon to send cash !!!
In those circumstances I can understand why you are reticent about it !!! But I cant make a reasoned judgemnet if you withold facts like that mate :o)
Sorry if you took it worng, but as I say, if I had known, then of course I would have agreed with you !!!
I think , that clever man always will offer his help to girl.
But clever girl will deny ;))
at minimum , before you will meet at real, and you will sure, that you will marry on each other.
We have not very good economic situation at country. But and not so afraid , as can be. And if she already was give her profile at site, she know, that she will must pay for internet. Or if she think already , that somebody will pay for itÖ even if it isnít scammer, it isnít too good girl.
And problem with translate at really donít exist. 2 minutes in Internet , and you find free of pay translator in Internet.
Paul, I agree with you. Ihave and would send money to a girl for certain reason but have never sent money to girl I have not met. I sent one money to help wiyh medical exams etc. In the end I was surporting her entirly, which was not that hard for me. TimH, maybe not all put to gether, do you always take things so literaly. If you remember this page was started by southerngentak, I think. It was in regards to being riped off and you advice was that eventually you have to pay. On this point I disaggree.While in Russia I meet my ex wife and she had her hand out from day one. Other girls I meet would not let me buy them anything and in some cases were buying me stuff.Some girls earned $50 a month some earned $150 a month. The first girl I meet asked me for cab money home every night and it seems that the cab became more exspencive every time. The girls asking I now catigorise as desperados. They will tell you what you want to her but this is not to say that they are scammers. What it does mean is that they may marry you and live with you and have full intentions of staying with you but are also thinking that is things are not as good as I would like, I will get my visa and go. Why, because ther life is shit financaly and they know that in other countries things are better so they will go with you just to look. Someone here said themselfs that many woman are happy with there lives and even have Not great, but O.K. jobs. They want a family and these girls are slower to ask for money because there financial life is not the reason they seek a forien man, it is there personal life. Sort out which ones you are writing to and read what rina said. I had a girl tell me that she paid 20 rubles to get a letter translated and later my X found someone even cheaper. If this girl is serious about this bisuness she herself understands that money is part of her responsability, at least untill she meets her husband. If she cannot afford anything at all, then she is a desparardo, and will settle for less than her true happiness for a plain ticket.
Again, thank you for your insight Rina, I have never once been asked for money, never come across a Ruusian girl who wanted to leave their country, just because she wants to live in the west, they will all only leave as a last resort because they can't find a man in Russia who will take care of them properly and be faithful and sober. Yhink of their scacrifice, their families, friends and everything they know, it is a last resort
Like anywhere else in the world, if a beautiful young woman only wants good times and fast cash she doesn't have to leave Russia to find them. But majority of Russian ladies want a real decent husband. Unfortunately, a huge number of Russian women wind up with men who deep down, feel like failers. In the same way that many American men have become generally dissatisfied with American women ladies involved in different marrige agencies are also looking for alternatives to the kinds of men they find in their own countries.
Here here Trad !!
If I could have found a woman here who has the same outlook as my Russian girl I would not have looked further afield !! But as we know, the ones worth having are already taken so they just exist in the Uk in an available capacity !!!
I BELIEVE I SEEN ANATASIA AS A SCAM AGENCY THAT THEY WRITE FOR THE GIRL OR SEND LETTERS FOR THE GIRLS. I STUBBLE UP ON SITES ALL THE TIME LOOKING FOR THE DIFFERENT AGENCY THE GIRLS ARE USING TO CHECK THEM. I USE GOOGLE SEARCH AND THERE IS SCAM SITES. I AM ABOUT TO MAKE A PHONE CALL TO MY SWEETHEART AND SHE WANTS TO USE HER AGENCY. TO FIND IT I WENT TO UKRAINE WEB GOOGLE SEARCH. SEE WHAT GOOGLE HAS ON THEM AND LOOK UNDER THE SCAM SITES.
Anasatasia has a lot of dodgy reports on the net,and there are a lot of differeing views about them.I have personally found several scam artists on there,but on the flip side I also know of people who have had success too.
You pays your money and you takes your choice........but if you do use them BE CAREFUL.
Gladiator is right, there are a lot of different views and reports about any big agencies/web sites such as A foreign affair, Russianladies, Anastasia, and not only bad ones, I assure you. Unfortunately we can not see many positive reports because people who are satisfied and didnít have any problems with dating agencies/ladies do not have time to write reports and share their experience and they know that every question they may have they always can address to the agency.
Who writes those bad reports: former unsatisfied clients who were not lucky enough to find their soul mate (for different reasons), people who were not cautious enough and dazzled by words about love sent money to scam artists (instead of reporting these cases to the agency) and now what? They blame whom Ė the agency. But the agency didnít make them to send money, the agency canít control the women and mení interest. It is really no different then when a guy meets a girl in public and decides to take a chance and see if they can have a relationship. Sometimes it lasts for a longtime and other times it takes just a matter of minutes, when they realize that she is not for him or he is not for her.
For example, if you meet a girl in a chat room or answer as ad in the personal ads in the newspaper, or at last simply meet her in a local bar and then take the girl out on a date and you spend a lot of time and money on her, and the date does not develop into what you had hoped it would, do you go back to the internet provider of the chat room or the news paper company the personal ad was written in, or to the owner of the bar and ask for your money back? Of course not. Its no different here. Any agency only gives the opportunity to meet girls through their website. A company does not control what ladies say/ask or if they will write back or not.