I meet a Russian lady on the net and I went to meet her in Rostov. Hardly she could make ends meat by the end of the week. Her flat quite squallid and poor.
Of course as soon I was there her fridge became full thanks to my shopping and her family festing.
She was 45 and me 53years old. She was living with a daughter and her son was married.
Somehow i got blinded with love for her and been lonely I decided to marry her .
Very shortly I got all the paperwork going for her to come to Uk. At first her visa was declined but then I won the appeal and she came over to get married.
All well until her visa to remain arrived, soon after she funded a nice job near my house and become indipendent over my roof while all her savings was sent to Russia on weekly bases.
As I got incapacitated to work, my saving was shrinking and therefore for for her the right time to make the move,and to go away.
I supported her 2 years,with everything, but it was clear that she had not intention to buy me any food if my money finished.
Of couse she had all planed, the great escape from a marriage to find someone better and rich.
I was dumped, used only as a stepping stone. I was dumped the same way as my brother was dumped many years ago from a lady from the same continent. Many times I asked my self what fool I have been.it was in front of my eyes all the time.
She even tried to grab my house after only 3 years of marriage , thank God we had no children or I was left homeless.
Like me are thousands in the same situation and heartbroken. In a way I blame the government for let them in and provide an easy visa for them to stay.
Those lady may be beautiful but full of vanity, they have no soul inside, only ice and greediness and egoism. What is the point of having a beautiful wife when she will only be interesting in showing off to others.I rather have an handicapped lady with a warm heart.
Don't follow in the Russian trap.it will destroy your life.
1. If I was In the U.K. I wouldn't proposed that fast .
2. If I was 53 , I wouldn't waste my time and money with 45 milf .. she have to be younger than 35 with on kiddo only.
3. If she work , she has to contribute
4. Don't be afraid to make new britons and remember that you will get more benefits or what we called in the States... welfare.
And # 10 , man up and demanded command and control or you wil be ... never mind, you are already living it.
You are spot on with your analysis KD. The OP is not writing as a native British English speaker. Both the visa and divorce rules are very strict here in the UK. The statements "the great escape from a marriage to find someone better and rich" and "in a way I blame the government for let them in and provide an easy visa for them to stay" ring hollow to me. The usual UK route is marry a woman in her own countr,y and then obtain a spouse visa which has very strict entry rules. Just my tuppence worth.