Back up plan people, need a back up plan. Get rid of her and be brutally honest. In my experience thes girls do not take rejection well so if you even bring it up, she will leave easily as she will be very offended. To bad for her because she is not being nice to you by the sounds of things.
Thats one of the other problems Crash, these girls are not friends any more, not since it became a battle between them to win over Jet !!!!
That makes things even less comfortable for Jet of course :o///
My own suggestion would be to pack your bags and move to another hotel, one with English speaking staff for one thing !! Then call the other girl and see how it goes from there !
As sad as it may be to say but I feel that i must, a man should not come (no pun again) between two girlfriends - rarely does it work and ends up in tears.
Have just spoken to Natash` on the phone, (daily call :o)) ) Damn !! I really miss her !!
Im going to have to make an honest woman of her when I go again in June !!
If she will have me of course !!!
Coming back and being without her again has made up my mind !!! I hoped it would,and it has.
I find making big decisions while you are in the thick of it can lead to some horrible consequences, for myself I prefer to come out of it, and then see if I still feel the same, and I do :o))
Yes, it's probably good advice to take a step back but then it's equally likely that the step back or withdrawal brings upon the sympton and side-effect of wanting that craving moreso, thus making in the short term a possible irrational judgement in hindsight.
Don't get me wrong - I agree. But once bitten, now smitten, you sure do have some b*lls!
I imagine that if my visit is 'successful' (as we call it), then decisions on what and how things will happen will be done there and then and that's from someone that's escaped the ball-and-chain by the skin of my teeth 3 times already. :)
That was why I wanted to take that step back mate, to be sure of my feelings, and that it wasnt just the heat of the moment, and now I have been back here for almost a week, I am missing her more and more every day !! I cant ignore the feelings when they are persisting and geting stronger every day :o))