I have two girls asking for money to continue are talks, I have only 6 letters from one before she made it clear that she couldnt talk anymore because of things that happened but never asked for the money until I inquired about, she works and goes to school. The next girl goes to college but doesnt work and after her third letter actually ask me for money saying that shes only a student and cant afford it....the first girl said it was $7 dollars a letter $150 unlimited correspondence,..the second says its $5 dollars a letter and $100 for unlimited correspondence. I believe there both sincere but who do I chose, I like them both, and to really fall for a girl online is rediculous being that you can not trully now the person until you met them,...Im not asking for someone to help me choose but have anybody eles had a problem where they had to make a discision where they just had to pick one?
Then whats with this $150 unlimited and $100 unlimited deal ?
Usually these deals only come from Agencies.
If these girls are taking the $150 /$100 and then paying for net access to write to you, it could be that they have 3 or 4 men on the go each, and working the sums out, if they spend $100 a month on all their net access, they are making a rather nice living at it by FSU standards !!
Further more, Blu, did you know that the Free to date sites are the easiet way to find scammers mate ? All the reputable site, Fiance, Elenas and Scam alert just to mention a few advise against having anyhting to do with girls on these free to write sites !!
Of course it is not unknown for scammers to have up to 30 men they write to at any one time !!! Now thats a very nice income which would enable a girl to have her own computer and net access from home too !!
Another thing to is that the first one never told me where she used the internet or how she got it translated but the second girl said that she had to use an internet cafe. The difference though is that the first girls translations are almost perfect without many mistakes at all the second girl how ever are full of mistakes.
But I assume the first girl Galina uses the cafe too... a more expensive one? The second girl Eugenia said she discussed me with her parents and that they want to meet me...but get this!!! this was her third letter!!!! She is a lot younger than Galina by six years. Galina had told me about a preivious relationship and how bad it was!!! But the wierd thing is I kept on putting off sending Galina the money, yet she kept replying but with a few sentences for a reply...but she did send my an online postcard for Easter.... OH NEVERMIND!!! THIS INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS IS SO DAMN CONFUSING, I JUST NEED TO BUY A PLANE TICKET AND GO THERE.!!!
I think blu that 6 letters is a bit early, I have had over 250 letters, a lot of those we had about 20 letters each, never, not once have I been asked for money, now I appreciate that this can be expensive for them and I tend to go for well educated girls in their late 20's early 30's, who all have good jobs and are happy, never ever said they want to leave Russia, in fact it causes them sadness to think they may have to, to find a good man. It is easy to get infatuated blu, think it through mate. It is possible to find the love of your life on here though
May be , you will like girl number 3 more ? I’ll make you rebate and you will pay only 2$ every letter ;))) I’ll write you every day , and every letter will be big and only for you. I know , how to write very beauty letters, and sure, that you will like me more , then all another girls ;))
and now- serious. Sometimes I surprised to your naive. I so like it - she was write me 7 letters, and you already ready send her money. Another was write 3, and you sure ,that she talk true for you… if you meet at real life a human, and after 3 minutes of talk she ask you money for next meeting, will you give her ? and if read letters, it will not take more time.
You wasn’t even see the human. Wasn’t talk with her. Wasn’t look at her eyes.
Are you sure , that girl write you ? may be , it is boy ? and may be , boy is 50 years old ? ;))
Do you know , that if you looking nice, when you come at any site with your pict, people try to copy it , and later you look at internet and see you pict there, where it cannot be!
You know , that your pict already long- long time not in Internet.
Now it is business. If she is nice. So , no any money. If she will write you 100 letters, it will be another talk. But not now. And , at all, if girl is serious, she will not ask money.
So , I can give you guarantee, that not first your girl , not second are serious.
Tim , I am not agree with you , that at free of pay sites are more scammers , then on paying. It is everywhere enough
I met a few ladies from free sites, they were not scammers, but like dealing with an agency if you think with your big head its pretty easy to spot them , then you just move on, don't start sending money to a photo
I have had only 1 girl ask me for money, but she did not ask, a man who claimed to run the agenccy she belonged to asked in a P.S. at the bottom of her letter. I wrote back and questioned this request and was told that the money I pay for membership @ fiance.com dose not cover translation frees but if I wanted to downgrade my membership to premium I could pay per letter though fiance.com. The origonal request was to send by westion union. I asked to administrator @ fiance .com and they advised me not to pay. Not fully understanding what was happening I emailed this girl and the man who ran this agency making more enquires but so far no reply and I do not expect one to tell you the truth. If you send money to all these girls it will cost a small fortune. Cheaper in the long run to maybe book yourself into a tour and get amounst it I say. Be careful, as I have said before, many of these girl possible are very poor and cannot afford it but that in itself is something to be weary of, they my hook up with you for need rather than want.
Blue, to my mind free sites are not reliable as anyone can use them and nobody checks the peoples’ identity. Rina is right – any big boy (a gold digger) can find a good picture of a lady in the Internet or just use the photo of his girlfriend or neighbor and write letters (it is easy). And there are many scammers there as well. Nobody controls this. I suggest you use some reputable agency (usually in agencies they take pictures themselves or at least see who brings them). Moreover in good agencies they check passports and the service is absolutely free for the ladies: women pay neither for translations nor for Internet access. So they won’t ask money for this. On the other hand you will have to pay the agency, but I think it is better to know what you are paying for and that you correspond with a real lady…
However may be everything is not as bad as we think. Maybe the ladies you’ve been corresponding with are real … (though obviously not sincere). Call them and talk directly. Ask to send more pictures…
a couple of girls on this site gave me their personal email addresses.
i emailed them back and heard nothing then a couple days ago i received an email from russian girl claiming that i had written to her. not so. i went to the link she provided and typed in her id.
never seen her before. to get her address the site wanted 9.95.
what i am saying is not a reflection on this site.
i am sure that they are doing the best they can to keep scammers off this site.
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