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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > What should I do ?????????? Author Post michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 3:42:21 PM   Hey guys-I have been talikg to a lady from this sight for almost a month. She has not asked for anything yet except for me to come see her.I talk to her on the phone as well.My problem is I put her name on the internet just to see what would come up and I found her on a few scam lists and It broke my heart to see her photos.I don't know if I should ask her about this or not.Her letters are always long and seem so sincere. what should I do. dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 4:01:17 PM   I'm sorry to hear that and can well imagine how disappointed you must be. But on the bright side (if there is one) at least you are now aware that she has a chequered history. What you now do about it is up to you - you should know her well enough to make a judgement call. I personally would confront her at the very least, likely terminating the relationship from her side having been found out and not liking the accusations probably saying that you don't trust her, but it appears to me like you have grounds. You can do it softly softly or just wade in. At least you've some common sense and done some minimal background checking, it's just unfortunate that it turned out positive and the last thing that any of us wants to see. What type of scams has she been listed for? I certainly would NOT plan any visit until you have peace of mind. I certainly would not feel comfortable travelling all that way by myself not knowing that you could be walking into disaster waiting to happen. Whatever you do, I think you have to bring it up otherwise it will eat you up from inside. good luck olegnay Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 4:12:54 PM   what is the lady ID? please email it to service @ fiance.com she may be put on the scam lists by somebody whom she dumped. let fiance.com check it for you. michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:13:44 PM   I will email fiance.com with her ID I dont want to post it here out of respect for her.I also don't want to upset her if I don't have to. It was just one guy saying he sent her $500.00 to fly her to him. According to him she asked for the money to come see him.The whole month I have been writing and calling she has never hinted for anything.She wants me to spend the month of June with her and I am very stuck in the middle.What if she was put on the scam list by some guy who simpley didnt get his way?I have to keep my eyes wide open but at the same time I cant defend her.Its a very shitty place to be.I know if I bring it up chances are she will be gone for good.I am very sad and confused. tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:33:20 PM   Hey micheal, I have similar situation, you wanna compare notes? michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:39:38 PM   yes I would like that very much tony michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:40:59 PM   maybe her original agency was corrupt and not her thats what I hope for. tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:45:10 PM   I just sent an e-mail buddy. Just some details about her just in case it's not the same woman we're talking about. michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:57:10 PM   tony I sent one back to you tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2004 11:58:12 PM   Waiting for it. How did it read to you? michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:02:02 AM   its her my friend tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:03:31 AM   Damn. Cute though, isn't she? LOL Kinda feel like the second date showing up to take a girl to the prom... tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:05:46 AM   Your doubts were the same I had. It must be easy for a bitter person to place a report, or maybe a scammer using her image. The Listing says she's from rostov-on Don, she claims to be Yoshkar -ola.... Ahhh, now the cracks form. michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:07:31 AM   I dont think its funny and as a result I am leaving fiance.com no disrespect to them but if I wanted to play games with woman I can do that any place so why pay for it. tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:10:18 AM   Micheal, that's your decision,and well, it's not like we never expected this could happen. I respect your decision, and I never intended to trivialize the issue, just wanted to brush it off to experience. One woman doesn't represent the entire site. But whatever you decide, I wish youluck in your search. T. michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:28:17 AM   tony have you called her and did she ask you to spend the month of june with her to? tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:34:18 AM   Micheal, I still haven't received your e-mail, strange. But I've called her a few times. I'm kind of shocked at this myself dude. Her letters didn't sound canned after the first couple. She said she is getting a month off after working all year, wants to go somewhere warm or see me. But, if she is legit, there is no real problem we all speak to several people, many have 'backup' women when they go visit FSU, why shouldn't they? We haven't committed to anything, just having nice conversation and getting to know another. She has't asked anything of me other than to call and to visit in June. T. tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:38:30 AM   Let me also say that I am reserving absolute judgement until Fiance.com gets back to me. They contacted the agency and told me it could be someone who got dumped or who stole a picture on the net. It's a possibility. michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:43:05 AM   well than maybe we should both go? shes all yours man tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 12:44:13 AM   Lol Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > What should I do ??????????
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