Hey J. I was duly skeptical when I stumbled across this site. But I got the VIP membership and gave it a whirl. Well to make a long story short after 2 months I have found a woman that I am madly in infatuation with. I will visit her in July and we we will see if it is love. This site is real good, good support, good useful forum, good at dealing with problems and combatting scammers. I have had a real good time corresponding with a lot of different women. Now I am just writing, and phone calling the one. If it works out then obviously this whole thing would have been great! If it does not work out with my visit - then it will be back to the drawing board. But it will be here at Fiance.com. Welcome and Good luck. Steve
Hi Joey, my experiences have been somewhat more negative than others. I have been in contact with many women, but vey few caught my attention, of those (and this is only MY experience)eight, six of them were less than honest. I have not had a great start, (this is the end of my first month)but that is what it is, a start.
If you want one piece of advice this is what I have to offer.
Trolling for women is a BAAAAAAAAAd idea. Be selective and do NOT choose someone because your little guy is pointing her out. If you simply start writting letters to every beautiful photo then you are seting yourself up for someone to take advantage. Oh, and grab the URL's to scam sites for cross checking. Scam sites are not 100% right, but if you find someone you know there, ask Fiance.com to clarrify the issue with the agency. I found Fiance.com to be quick and reliable for service.
Different people have different experience and consequently opinion. Some are very enthusiastic in the beginning, and send women little gifts and photos and books... After a while, their interest lags. There are guys like ensata who are skeptical and then changes their mind. And finally there are men who start corresponding with a lady and understand that she is the one they've been searching for. Only god knows what is expecting you. If you are really serious about finding a Russian woman I wish you to be a man from the third category.
It is imperative that you get it into your western cultured brain that by searching for a woman among the FSU countries, like the vast majority of us here, that you acknoledge, accept and believe that there is no chance for you to find a good woman for you in whatever western country you live in.
Until you experience the frustrations of dating, loving and marrying a western female canine (or several), and pay your proper dues, you're not properly prepared to endure the demands of finding, meeting, dating, loving and marrying an FSU woman.
One of the common denominators that bring western men and FSU women together is the reluctance to settle with partners of our own culture, even though the reasons maybe different.
Men are sick and tired of getting hooked by feminazied women who once they get married proceed to get fat beyond maternal recognition, refuse to keep their men sexually satisfied, train their male children to pee sitting down, and take the house, the children, your pension and 70% of your salary once they decide to start dating a younger bloke.
FSU women have trouble finding suitable mates for long term relationships because there are not enough of them, and too many of them drink like sponges, killing themselves far too young.
The above are just but a few of the reasons why this matching works.
I agree with you GL. I have met some nice western ladies (but aren't they all until they hook you). But in general my outlook on love and relations just doesn't coincide with theirs the slightest bit. It was ok to just date them and have fun, but thats where it ends. Now that I am ready to settle with one woman I am no idiot to realize where to look for her(hopefully I already found her).
Be diligent guys in your search and weed through all the potential bad ones. Don't let the few bad ones spoil it for all the good ones that are out there. Just imagine how many guys from the west burn them, it works both ways. If you cant figure out a potential scammer than I feel sorry for you.