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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > 2 Different pictures and names SAME P.O. BOX !!! HELP OLGA,, TIM,, EXPERIENCED?????????? Author Post southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 12:49:32 PM   I have just looked over my notes and found that I have 2 addresses as the same P.O. BOX. I have ask for the home address. BUT HOW CAN THIS BE!!! HELP, HELP!!! Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 1:07:59 PM   1. 2 girls can rent the same flat 2. the robery of post boxes in the many-stored apartment buildings is very widely-spread, so it's possible to rent a P. O. Box at the post-office, to be sure that all the post comes to you, it's easier to rent 1 box for 2 3. it's possible that one girl asked another to receive all her letters to her P. O. Box, because of some personal reason 4. It may be the P. O. Box of the office (if they work together) 5. It may be the P. O. Box of the agency they may use. Well, if I'm wrong in this suggestion correct me, but this is all my mind says to me. Hope it is of any help:) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 1:21:35 PM   It's easy for panic to set in as red flags are raised on the old 'address issue'. Been there, done that. Won't know 100% until I am there. My initial response would be (5), then (2) from above that multiple contact addresses are likely a safe house, like an agency and sharing is also a consideration However, in what is a potential minefield where doubts can easily be raised, I am surprised by how poorly most girls respond to this type of concern even if their reasons are legitimate. It's something that only the girl(s) can explain the reason to and if it wasn't for the amount of scam / anonymity that goes on, would otherwise not be the big as issue as it is. dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 1:23:32 PM   As usual, always email Fiance with your concerns. My only advice would be that if she is legitimate, be careful; as you will probably be alerted (unless you make it confidential) that you're enquiring through other channels and she may think you don't "trust" her when clearly it's something that needs explaining. dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 1:23:57 PM   > as you will probably be alerted ..as SHE will probably be alerted ... Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 1:27:08 PM   southernman if it's possible you can just ask the girl about that situation, of course it depends on your relations with her. And you may explain why you asked that question, and you can watch her reaction, and then make your own ideas if she is true or not. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 1:29:05 PM   southernman if it's possible you can just ask the girl about that situation, of course it depends on your relations with her. And you may explain why you asked that question, and you can watch her reaction, and then make your own ideas if she is true or not. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 2:00:03 PM   I have to say I tend to go along with both Ptichka and Del` on this one, the Most likely is that its an agency PO Box though for my guess, either that or you are writing to two girls who know each other ! Never a good situation as jet will confirm when he returns. I wonder how he is getting on :o// Still worried about him, havnt heard anything for a few days now :o// Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 2:59:26 PM   Tim, If Ptichka said the sky was falling, You would tend to agree with her on that also. :o) lol dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 3:06:47 PM   lol@dale if she says it's green, I'll buy into that too, not. lol Actually, there's no reason why the sky could not be green if the wavelength was scattered at a different rate and why we can have different coloured red spectrum based sun-sets. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/3/2004 6:03:56 PM   She said that ? Damn where`s my crash helmet !! ;o)) southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 2:43:34 AM   Thank you all for your responses. I had to go to work, don't look at the time of this reply. It may make you sleepy. I thought of the agency telling them to use there P. O. box, on my drive to work. I do not want to think they know each other but something else came to mind. The questions they ask are very much the same. I am honest so the answers are the same. I know the ladies talk to more than one man. But out of respect it should not be thrown in anyones face. I am looking for one lady but may talk to many to find her and the same goes for them. I do not wish to upset these ladies and make them think bad of any of us. I think the good question would be simple. Do you share your P. O. BOX? Ultra Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 2:53:14 AM   Hi southern, Yes, I agree that the question is very simple and harmless. On the other hand there would follow a reasonable simple question “Why do you ask?” It is better to contact fiancé.com staff and ask them to investigate this issue. southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 3:01:26 AM   Ultra thank you! How do I do that. I think you are right!! Olga Moderator send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 3:37:21 AM   southernman please e-mail us the details-Ids of those ladies in our photo gallery. I also think that this is an agency's address. As soon as you send us the details we can talk to the agency and get explanation from the manager. If you feel that their letters to you sound very much the same-thats a serious reason to check on the agency and get sure that this is not an agency sending messages instead of ladies. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 7:44:01 AM   southernman I was once sharing a P. O. Box which I had at the post-office with a friend of mine. It was just easier for me to pick up the mail, because I lived closer to the post-office.There is nothing wrong. As for the questions, I think that if the girls are not professional "quassionairs" their questions may be alike, they want to know everything about you, right??? So why don't you think that their questions will be alike?? southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 10:08:24 AM   THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH!!! SINCERELY SOUTHERNMAN!!! dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 10:24:36 AM   As always, I try to be pre-emptive about my questioning by ensuring that it isn't answered by a return question in a never-ending vicious circle when all you want is a direct answer. eg: Q: Do you share your P. O. BOX? A: Why do you ask? southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 11:58:20 AM   Do you mean avoiding the answer? What are you telling me? dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/4/2004 12:26:48 PM   The answer can be taken one of two opposite ways and I don't mean to worry you unnecessarily and you shouldn't - it's only a discussion - but yes, as much as there can be a logical explanation or confusion about the question, it can equally be an evasive one. Something I am very good at when I want to be; or only want you to know what I want you to know. In any event, you need to in the first instance wait for feedback from Fiance and then find a way of asking the girl without confusing/upsetting her if you feel you still need to or alternatively ask for intermediate support such as from the forum. I personally dislike having a question answered by a question, especially when it's a question that concerns me as it can only exaccerbate the issue. If asked again in some other way and avoided, would cause me concern. But sometimes you may just have to accept that there is nothing malicious in not revealing the real answer/reason other than personal preference in which case you have to let it go as being nothing of great importance in the whole scale of things. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > 2 Different pictures and names SAME P.O. BOX !!! 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