Hi Guys
I just dropped by to say bye-byes
I had a great time hanging out with you. I came by for advice and got sucked in (including emotionally). I have to leave this pleasant forum as I have no time for it. But I do consider it the best side of men’s world. I hope Ptichka will stick around (it’s been my pleasure to have somebody along of the same culture and gender) and will give her opinion as I agreed with everything she said (or almost everything).
As for me, sometimes I’m trying to bite a bigger piece than I can swallow and realize only choking on it. I’m talking about time. I have too many things to do: my family to take care of, household, business, friends ............ and now I acquired fiance.forum
My last advice from all women (no matter from which country or culture):
LOVE US AND SHOW US YOUR AFFECTION: “Women love with their ears”. We love to be assured that your feelings still the same. We love to be adored and admired. You make us happy and we’ll give you 10X back.
BEFORE YOU DO OR SAY ANYTHING STUPID REMEMBER: we can forget virtually anything but we never forget it. NEVER. When we bring up all the screw-ups you’ve said and done during our arguments – it’s because we need to talk about everything on our mind at that moment. Let us do it. Feel compassion. We also remember all the good things: every hug and kiss, every flower and snuggle, every breakfast in bed and a nice walk along the shore. WE ALWAYS REMEMBER.
TALK TO US: If you need your time along because you feel upset or something bothers you – tell us. Little explanation will go a long way. As we take most of the things personally we’ll feel miserable and it won’t help you to deal with your problems.
We are very sensitive and emotional creatures. Most of you are experienced Los Tiburones (the sharks) in the ocean of life and we do appreciate all your affords to make us fall in love with you. Just keep in mind we are like kids – ALAWYS NEED REASSURANCE no matter how many years passed by. It never hurts to say “I love you” or “You are beautiful every day but today you look especially lovely ”. You’ll see the difference immediately. Being a woman from FSU and not spoiled with conveniences of western life (like having a car and a house, shopping, dishwasher, washing machine and many other things) we always remember the difference and appreciate what we have over what we don’t.
I’ll miss you all dearly.
I wish you all the best of luck and to find your very special lady.
iCinderella
iCinderella it's really sad seing you're leaving this warm company, but I understand you a lot, time is something that's always lacking. The only thing I'm sorry for is that we didn't talk much, again because of the time lacking. It just happened that I spend much time at the computer for studying, business and so I can devote some time to this forum which I liked a lot:) And I like still:)
I would like to add one more advice to you, if you allow me.
It's very nice when a man presents small gifts from time to time, when it seams there is no point for that, a flower, a book, a note with words of love, cooked breakfast...that's not much, right??? But that brings much pleasure to a woman. Of course I'm not speaking about everyday:)) But from time to time, and so that is a surprise for a girl, mostly girls like surprises:))))))
I wish you good-luck iCinderella in everything you do, and very big big happiness:))))
Good Bye Icinderella, I have to say that I will miss your comments and your perspective. Its truly been a breath of fresh air with both you ladies here and I am very glad you both found this place. Its too bad you have to go, but I do understand. I wish you the best of everything in your life, and thanks for your advice..
Yes goodbye and good luck, icinderella, and ptichka, please hang around and educate us men, understanding is the key, and a womans perspective help a lot
GLT, your hands are trembling so much, that you hit Send Reply twice. lol
and yes, our little secret is out - Ptichka has been touching me; with her knowledge ;)
Never got to meet you but I wish you happiness as well.If I ever left this service I would probally name the threed
"goodbye from the guy who complains about every thing" lol I am sure ogla would agree.
Yes it's really sad that icinderella is leaving, but she told us her reasons for that, and they are quite reasonable, and she can be understood.
Man no there is no a friend, who can help me here. I mean I have friends, but they are not into Internet thing very much.
Belive me please when I say, that it has been just as much a pleasure to have had you on the forum. you will be missed, thank you for all your coments, advice, and just for being around to jump in with information when it has been needed.
Im sorry I didnt say goodbye yesterday, but I was ill and didnt even read the forum, so I only found your post today.
The very best of luck to you, your husband and your family
from
TimH.