I just signed as a member of this site and I'm interested to know the thoughts and experience of others on the importance of women with private email vs an agency email (other than it is cheaper).Thanks for your input.
By the way, there is a lot of very good information in the forum topics.
The ladies with private emails are virtually free to do as they wish, (until someone reports them to Olga and she has them removed for asking for money that is !!) which means that Fiance.com cannot watch over their actions and keep an eye on them for us, whereas the ones who use agency email are members with agency`s registered and in partnership with Fiance.com.
These agencies are answerable and responsible to Fiance.com for the actions of their ladies.
Now you know these facts, I'm sure you can see why writing to ladies that are agency members can be a lot safer than to ones with their own email address`s. These independent ladies have much more freedom to be naughty girls without the fiance.com regulations to hold them back !!
Now I am Not saying that you shouldn't write to ladies with their own email, by No means do I mean that these ladies are all scammers. What I want to say to you as a "new guy" is that until you have gained enough knowledge to spot a scammer, then I would suggest you pursue the "with agency" ladies.
One last, but Very important piece of advice:
Don't get too involved with anyone, until you have read as much of this forum as you possibly can, (it wont take you more than a few days, so the ladies can wait a few days I'm sure :o)) ) there is much knowledge and advice here, and it can only help you to find your lady and reduce the chances of you being scammed./
I never had much luck with girls with private emails. Plus listen to what Tim said. I found that if a girl takes the time to go to an agency to list herself she is probably going to be more serious. But I don't want to say that you cannot find a girl with private email. Just my experience with them.
Too many of you are whimpering at the thought of the opportunity to TRAVEL and learn first hand about a complete different culture...and if that wasn't enough prize in and by itself, you'll have the opportunity to meet a real woman, willing to show you the best her upbringing, her knowledge, culture and feelings have to offer YOU, the cry baby doubtful piss ant cowering at the gate....
Wow you are all about you it seems.
You dont know me and I dont know you
so why are you so Quick to judge me and jump all over me.
I am here to listen by reading not get kicked in the ass because I am new at this ?
I have to say Michael, that in respect of "the only way to be sure about Any woman is get off your bum and go there" I have to agree with anyone who believes in this course of action, because its the way I have Always played this.
But yes, GLT can be a bit blunt sometimes, and sometimes its easy to read him wrong, but he is a good egg really :o))
And he wasnt durecting his tirade at you, just at the ones who dont follow through with anything and expect the world to hand them everything on a plate, like Charless in another thread !!
I have had good experience with private e-mail, and really did not get to far with the agency girls. (Except one) Lucy is a private e-mailer and it has worked out well. The few other women that I had good ongoing correspondance with before I decided to be with Lucy alone all had private e-mail. There was one money grubber private e-mailer that I dropped after a hand full of letters.
At one point fairly eary on I decided to only go with the private e-mail because I was tired of the form letters I received. I suppose caution is best whatever.