What do Russiam women require for a mate...I think that if we look through the requirements that ladies write in their profiles we'll see that in general Russian ladies are looking for the same things. They are looking for honest,decent, reliable, caring and devoted person who is willing to cretae a family, provide for it and take care of their children.Very often you can see a phrases like that:I'm looking for generous and financially stable person. Dont be afraid, it doesnt mean that she is only looking for wealth and money...she just wants to be sure that her life in the other country will be stable.What else do Russian women require for a mate...I suppose many women do not have special requirements...as all women they want to be loved and feel secure. But of course it is impossible to describe all their wishes in general ;-))) its too personal. Women have different reasons when they begin to search for a partner from abroad.
It is such a sad thing that Russian woman feel that they have to search for a better selection of men or a better way of life or a safer way of life in another country. No one should have to feel that way towards their own country. :-( However, I do not find anything wrong with this sort of service. This is really a rather nice "tool" for these woman to find what they are searching for. I am new to this site as well as these forums and I received my introduction tape and book a while back and when I tell you SHOCKED!!!! The quality of woman in the video amazed me. Sure it's a video and your not face to face, but if your good at reading body language, eye contact, appearence, ect... you can see for yourself that these woman are for real. I wanted so bad to crawl into my TV and be there! Everyone keep the faith, I know someday, somehow, some way, one of these girls will turn out to be my soul mate. I sent some letters out tonight and their responses may bring me closer to finding out who she is. I suggest you all do the same. Good Luck slydoug
Russian girls are very curious to get out. Most of them thing that when they get to Europe, USA their life will be without any problem, everybody is rich and so on. Well, reality is different. Life is life. Problems are problems. I think men should take the advantage of the moment and meet Russian girl while they want to do it… Russia will get better. Russian people travel more and more, and they appreciate their motherland more and more.
Dudes, this crap was written by the infamous Winston Wu who one year earlier was encouraging western men to contact Russian women using his techniques. Of course, you had to purchase his book or video.
I am a really lucky guy. I've just tried with the corrected link, and this is the message I have received.
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You havent missed much. The guys got verbal diarrhoea like you wouldnt believe. Obviously he struck out badly with the babes.
But what could you expect,he goes out on dates and asks for "doggy bags" when he doesnt have a dog. Tries the old trick "Im too poor for a hotel can I stay with you". Whos he going to impress?
Can you imagine it? Chinaman Joe sleeping rough on the park benches eating out of the rubbish bin and by his own admission, whimpy and useless in bed.
Bozhye moiy I dont think any woman is that desparate.
Adman,
now I can see that page. I only read approximately one tenth of that. More than enough, I guess. Verbal diarrhoea, you are 100% correct in your diagnosis.
There will always be detractors and naysayers. We've seen them all, the Vanechkas, 1-2-3-4, blu_craze, FirstKnight and all the rest. I wouldn't even waste my time reading that kind of crap. A loser is a loser. These girls can find them in their homeland, why the hell would they want to travel thousands of miles to be with one? If you think that most of the real girls want to come to your land of milk and honey, you are grossly mistaken. If that was the case there wouldn't be that much scamming going on. They would just hop on a plane to the next available guy and be done with it.
The women who truly are searching, aren't going to jump at the first opportunity. It's going to be a difficult decision for them. It was for mine. Though we had fallen in love, she still was leaving everything she knew all her life. Her friends, family, language, job and way of life. If that doesn't become a topic of discussion between the two of you, then you're going to have a problem. The guy that wrote the 44 pages is probably and absolute loser. Thinking he had all the answers for his lady because of where he lived and what he had. Some of these guys think that most of these girls are desperate to leave their country, that it will be easy to find that trophy wife to impress their friends back home. bzzzzzzzzzz! Wrong!
I found that there really isn't much of a difference in dating a woman from Ukraine, than dating one here in the states. With the major thing being, the reward you receive from the women due to the cultural differences between women here and there. My wife does, acknowledge the different roles between men in women in a relationship. We both have roles that we are responsible for, a more traditional one, that I grew up watching my parents have. Not that she thinks that equality isn't important, it just isn't the most important thing in her life. Family love, stability and growth are the most important to her. I know from experience that these ladies will go beyond the norm and expectations to make this possible. They are not lazy, and willing to help, work and do whatever it takes to make the family move forward. At least the real ones are. I'm still in awe at times, when I watch Larysa do work around our house, that I absolutely abhorr, and she doesn't even bitch about it.
Any guy who has the savior mentality needs to start writing his 44 pages and saving his thousands of dollars this quest will require. The good ones you won't save, they will save you. They will bring something most of us have never experienced in our lives. My three years with Larysa have been the most enjoyable days I have ever experienced in my life. I was married previously, and I never experienced the feelings that I feel with her. I know I'm blessed to wake up each day to the most beautiful woman in the world. What a motivator to start your day with. The negative attributes I had in my previous relationships are non-existant in this one. She believes there is nothing we can't do together and that's a far cry from what I was used to with women here.
It's not easy finding a lady from Ukraine or anywhere else in the FSU. I know how lucky I am. Though I wouldn't waste my time discouraging one guy from the opportunity to find what I have found. I will always encourage you guys in this pursuit. I will help anyway I can. I kind of feel it as an obligation now. The reason being is there is so much BS out there about finding a woman from the FSU. Many of my new friends who were successful with their search, don't write much about their experiences. I wish they would.
The search is not easy, but it's not impossible either. When you read the words of a Vanechka, you think it is impossible. All the women are greedy thieves just wanting to part you with your money. It's the guys that try to flash their money and material wealth that get fleeced the most. They are all not greedy evil women. When I first went to Ukraine, I was amazed how much these people were just like us in the states. There feelings about many day to day things in life were not that much different than where I am from. Reading anything negative is just what it is. A biased opinion of one near sighted person. Too much negative input will have a detriment on what you are trying to accomplish, it will form biases before you even arrive. I'm not saying to walk into this with blind faith, trust but verify, and pitch the negative to the side. It will be well worth it in the long run.