Well, like anybody really cares lol, but I whent to meet Tanya the Russian girl who came to america for the work and travel program, we hit it off really good yesterday and I guess it was meant for me to be with her and not Veronika. So...congrads to me. Is it normal for a FSU girl to kiss on the first date? I hope I did not go into it to early though she was as much into it as I was... Well, I used all the advice from reading this forum for so long and it worked out pretty well so thanks everybody and I will keep checking in from time to time.
I was kissed and more on the first date(AFTER the airport meeting) but we had a lot of e-mails before that. I cannot say anything to you but what I said earlier : let your lady play the tune and you will sing after that ! I don't know anything about scammers so, refer to the right guys about it. I wish you good luck !
Early on in my letters to Lucy I told her that I concidered our letters and phone calls to be dates!
It is all really weird though. In my case I will have been writing and calling Lucy for over four months before I meet her (one month and one day to go). She never takes my bait for a bit of increased sexual talks in our phone calls. I am actually gald of this, we both have great respect for each other. But we are absolutely as intimate as is possible in our phone conversations (daily, and up to 3 times a day). We talk about every facet of our lives, our pasts , our goals, and our affections for each other. Our conversations are so absolutely sensual with great sexual tension often (yet without sex talk!).
We imagine with each other what will happen when we first meet in the airport, and what will happen when we are alone. I'll tell you, we turn each other on. We have a well rounded relationship, open, and intimate(as much as can be so without having seen each other in person.
We will kiss! And it will not be a date! It will be a much anticipated (yet still nonscripted event).
I'm sorry for carrying on about my sweetheart. As Tim once said "Ensata, you are talking about Lucy again, your favorite topic!
I guess the value of my prattiling is that Lucy is a real, lovely, intelligent, non-scammer FSU lady. We are absolutely crazy about each other, and its still getting better!
And I for one will be delighted when you get there and meet her :o))
You prattle as much as you want mate, thats what the forum is for !! Those who dont want to read it dont have to, and those who do have only good wishes for you :o))
I never talk sex with them, ever, I am meeting a lady next week, I told her I had booked ahotel, she said undewr no circumstance would she set foot in a hotel, and that she certainly could not stay there " I suggest you rent an apartment just in case of an opportunity and a wish" to me that is quite clear, and I do not do cyber sex, phone sex, txt sex>. Without saying anything overt, I know what will happen next week if we like each other, straight up, but with no vulgarity, gotta love em
There is a reason they avoid hotels, and with good reason. Prostitutes tend to be the ladies who go to rooms, there, and a respectable girl will never want to be confused as such.
she said she would be looked upon with bad eyes , if I knew what she meant, how refreshing that she thinks about her reputation, can barely remember that sort of female thinking in the west(I know us guys have double standards)
Well, I think maybe something would of happened the first night with her...she was pretty intimate, but she lives with 7 other people 4 girl and 3 guys, so the opportunity was there, she emailed me again wanting me to meet her friday, I thought I scared her off but I guess not lol, maybe I take her to my place in Va beach? shes dieing to see the ocean which she has never seen before...crazy, I havnt had a feeling for a chik in so long this feels foriegn, I have to let down my "friend with benifits now" but I think its worth it. And this girl is making such an effort to be with me I think it will go well. To be honest lol, when we were close my hands did a little roaming which was o.k. but when I got a liitle low she was like "hey uh uh" so. lol thats why I was worried she didnt want to talk but I was wrong