Ben unfortunately I can't help you on this question in any way. I never tried to find a soul-mate in the foreign country.
But I know for sure that sometimes girls are afraid to give their addresses and phone numbers in the real life. Why??? I'm not sure of that, but I think because they don't want men to think they are girls of bad behaviour. But of course if after some months of correspondence a girl doesn't have the wish to share her address and a phone number (if she has any), then there is something wrong eight with her or with the correspondence. The girl may think that a man is playing games (actually I know a friend she was correspondeing with a man for 6 months, and then it turned out that most of the letters were written by his friend who is a gay...which didn't bring a lot of happiness to her), or maybe she is not sure what she wants from life...and actually it may be a scam, but before shouting "scam!! scam!!" I would advise to ask her why?? And then to analyze the reason:)
Ditto Dale E this place can be a flying circus. But it's great when the inmates in the asylum think alike. My observation Buckeye, especially if I get what I think is a canned or template letter, I sit back for 24-48 hours and watch the letters to her click off like laps at the Daytona 500, then I kind of figure it was pretty much not a sincere letter. As for the Miss Wow's, I'm an old racer, I only want to lead the last lap, so let the other guys kill themselves and if you don't have it at the end so be it. Nothing ventured nothing gained. I hope the Buckeye monniker doesn't mean you're from Ohio!
I'm just busting your stones. I'm a Hoosier from Madison, Indiana.
Actually I was born in West Palm Beach Florida, but I think my parents discovered crack cocaine before it was popular and moved to Plymouth Indiana in 1965. Anyway welcome to the zoo!!!!
I began writing to a Miss Wow in December, and most of her letters were very specific towards me. She eventually gave me her address and tele number, and I visited her in Azov in April as I had promised I would if things went well. She did not look as appealling in person as her picture made her out to be. Yes, I am a shallow man, and looks do matter to me. I hope my looks matter to my other, as I workout often to stay slim. She was very nice, but also overbearing at times, wanting to treat me as if I were her son. She was disappointed that I only visited for 3 days, I wanted to leave after the 1st. I had gone with a tour group to St Petersburg, and rejoined my group. I had the time of my life and will do it again. Many Miss Wows are sincere in their desire to meet a husband. Maybe they are desperate. But I would not discount them entirely.